Blighttown is done!
Ended up getting the ring when revisiting the asylum. Good thing since there were two knights over there and it's always nice to pick up the titanite they drop. Plus I got to battle the asshole demon (seriously, being a melee knight made me stare at his horrendous asscrack and asscheeks for almost all of the fight) and got snuggly to give me stuff. Back in Blighttown I assed around, died a lot, lost some souls, and in the end kicked some ass with my trusty friend Mildred. Blighttown is done for good except for that bit inside the tree that I'm not planning to visit right now so it's Sen Fortress time for me.
I spent most of my loot leveling up so I'm at SL 43 or so, with 30 STR, 21 VIT and 18-ish END right now, with 14 DEX since I wanted to use a 5+ uchigatana I just had upgraded. Too bad the uchi sucked ass against the first enemy I tried it with, the lizard people from the fortress. That made me focus on my +6 zweihander that knocks them down with L2, now I feel more comfortable. I wanted to use the uchi because of the bleed bonus, but the damage it does seemed negligible to me. maybe it's because it needs DEX instead of STR?
At any rate, I kept rocking the shadow set, divine halberd +1/zwei +6, emblem shield, wolf and steel protection rings and that's about it. I love to be more mobile now and I found out I don't need to be a slug to shrug off most of the damage from heavy blows.