I'm not sure if there is a guide as such, but there are some general rules of thumb:
By and large you can ignore some of the stats. You really want to focus on endurance first and foremost, strength and/or dexterity (depending on if you prefer heavy or fast weapons) and maybe intelligence and/or faith (if you want to cast spells or miracles).
Try and put as little on vitality as you can get away with, levelling is better spent elsewhere. Ignore resistance altogether. Attunement grants you extra spell slots so if you are going to use a lot of magic that could be worthwhile.
So in short: endurance first, then str/dex, maybe a bit on int/faith, vitality if you feel you need it.
Sweet it looks like im on the right track. Endurance is what I have spent the most on, and str a little nothing else yet. Thanks for the Info.