Gotdatmoney
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Anyone ever had any success with a hail-mary before a ghosting?
Girl I assumed was ignoring me basically txted me after 2 days with a 'sorry I missed your call', but nothing more. I asked when she was free and I got a 'I'm feeling a little sick, we'll see' I'm thinking like, don't be sorry, just call me back, you know?
I just want to ask her straight up: do you want to keep dating me ? Is this over or is she just genuinely busy/having a bad week?
I think I know the answer tbh. But I rationalize that I have nothing to lose: if it's over, this won't hurt anyway. If it's not, I might get a straight answer.
I'm prepared to be roasted by the thread regulars. But our motto is 'just do it', right? I want to hear the words 'it's over' so I can move on without a doubt. If this was a random online date I wouldn't care. But we've going steady for a bit over a month and have mutual friends so it's weird that she would behave like that.
You seem to already have rationalized why it's a good idea so. . .