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Dating Age |OT$6| Just ask her out already

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always crazy bacon

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ZackieChan said:
Meet for coffee. If you hit it off, suggest something else low impact. Museum is probably a good idea. But you want to be able to escape after the initial meeting if it's not working out.

Don't put so much thought into a first date!
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First date, is just too see if they are who they present themselves as. No point throwing away good money on a random who you might not even like.
 
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Prime crotch

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I broke up a casual thing I had going on because I knew I just didn't want to be with her in a committed relationship, call it fear of commitment if you want but I just knew for a bunch of red flags I would wake up one day and simply run away. But we've kept in touch since we got along well enough and better as friends. Recently though, she's been using me as a litmus test for the guys she dates aaaand.. they're all kinda weird/desperate/jealous. I've kept quiet about the first impressions I've had about them because I don't want to sound like I'm trying to groom her or something, but honestly I'm beginning to think she's trying to get back with how some of the talks go.

If this keeps up I think I'll have to make it more clear that it ain't happening, but I don't exactly want her to run up with the first lunatic she meets, but I guess that's out of my hands.
 
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always crazy bacon

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Xun said:
Still no luck with Tinder... 😥

Maybe the algorithm is partly to blame? Either way it's not good for my confidence at the moment.

To go from 20ish matches a day a few months ago to this is a bit shit.
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You've just started during the dating dead zone. People have spent all thier money on a summer holiday, either had or still having that holiday romance. Plus it's the new school/university term so they will be busy meeting people that way or focusing on education not dating.

I remember hitting it one year after a super successful summer, everything seemed to stop and I had changed nothing. Picked up again in October and it was back to normal.
 
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Xun

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Ozorov said:
I see. Maybe try to add some new photos, add some range / age? How big city are you living in?
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London so I should in theory get a lot of matches...

My age range is currently set from 18 - 30.

always crazy bacon said:
You've just started during the dating dead zone. People have spent all thier money on a summer holiday, either had or still having that holiday romance. Plus it's the new school/university term so they will be busy meeting people that way or focusing on education not dating.

I remember hitting it one year after a super successful summer, everything seemed to stop and I had changed nothing. Picked up again in October and it was back to normal.
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That's true, I hadn't thought about it like that.

I mean my photos aren't that bad right? I know I need to add more and update the guitar one, but I don't see how they would deter me from getting matches.

Edit: Page 400 shiiiiiit
 
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Ozorov

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gaiages said:
I made the whole OT without breaking up with my boyfriend yay \o/
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You still gotta survive until post 20K... /s
 
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LucidMomentum

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EchoChamber said:
Why mega got banned? :(
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I'm assuming whataboutisms in the Coates talks about Trump thread.

But that's all I'm gonna say.

He'll have more time to Mama Bird though...

BTW, I'm still single, and still here. I've been busy as fuck this year with work and tournaments, so maybe I'll go on a date once or twice a month at that. Not much luck getting to second dates, but I have some friends that I hook up with so it's not too bad I guess?
 
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eternal damnation

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There's a girl I'm dating since 10 months ago, I fell in love 3 months ago. So I asked her to be in a relationship but she said no. (3 times) so I decided to keep dating her but no feelings (we all know is hard) I talked to her about my feelings and she told me I'm not the kind of guy she is looking for. I'm 20 she is 25 idk if its because I'm too young for her or what. Well she told me that. But the problem is she acts like a girlfriend I mean, I spend more days sleeping in her house than mine. She take care of me a lot. She met my parents and I met hers. I'm so confused and I don't know what to do.
 
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Xun

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eternal damnation said:
There's a girl I'm dating since 10 months ago, I fell in love 3 months ago. So I asked her to be in a relationship but she said no. (3 times) so I decided to keep dating her but no feelings (we all know is hard) I talked to her about my feelings and she told me I'm not the kind of guy she is looking for. I'm 20 she is 25 idk if its because I'm too young for her or what. Well she told me that. But the problem is she acts like a girlfriend I mean, I spend more days sleeping in her house than mine. She take care of me a lot. She met my parents and I met hers. I'm so confused and I don't know what to do.
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You'll be better served posting below:

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1429925
 
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