The_Inquisitor
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Which is INCREDIBLY fucked up for this guy who has it set to commit the rest of his life with her. Fuck man, I seriously am the asshole in this situation. I'm just trying to do the right thing for them.
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Which is INCREDIBLY fucked up for this guy who has it set to commit the rest of his life with her. Fuck man, I seriously am the asshole in this situation. I'm just trying to do the right thing for them.
Sanky Panky
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Errr she's actually the asshole for implying she doesn't want to get married to this guy, when talking to you.
yep i am. same girl just said that it's a problem that i like to be on top because she likes to be on top as well. so i said "whatever makes you happy
" and then she asked what i think the sexiest part of a woman isi'm gonna say either
A) TITS AND ASS
or
B) the best curve a woman has is her smile
lol
The_Inquisitor
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yep i am. same girl just said that it's a problem that i like to be on top because she likes to be on top as well. so i said "whatever makes you happy
i'm gonna say either
A) TITS AND ASS
or
B) the best curve a woman has is her smile
lol
You kiss and fucking take her right there.
i went with B haha. but now she wants to know what the best attribute of a woman is. whats the difference...
forgot to mention we are texting lol.
Then you text her to let her know that you're coming over, then you arrive, kiss and fucking take her right there.
This is good.
But first, break into a zoo and steal a lion. Ride that lion to her house. When she opens the door, slay the lion in front of her and offer her it's mane in tribute. Then tell her that your favorite attribute of a woman is her everlasting glory on the battlefield of love. Then kiss and fucking take her right there.
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The_Inquisitor
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So she just texted me and we're having a full blown conversation. Holy hell...
The_Inquisitor
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Oh man this is getting depressing....
you are full of good ideas. please give me advice more often. no joke.
The_Inquisitor
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deleted. Man my situation is f-ed...
Pretty sure I was just told if I were to commit she'd drop it all if I read between the lines.
Pretty sure I was just told if I were to commit she'd drop it all if I read between the lines.
manfestival
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good enough. I like that train of thought. Just got home and we had a blast earlier. However, I just feel bad at the moment cause my good friend tried to set up a date last second with the other chick and well... wednesdays are literally the only day I dont change on my schedule. He says that I stood her up... but uhhh bleh. I dont think this bodes well for the possibility of a prospect but she is a nice looking chick hmm..
Devolution
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Sounds like she wants attention from everybody. Decided to say yes to the wedding anyway and now she wants to talk to you. I'd just ignore her. Quickly sounds like she's going to use you to dump all of her marriage angst on even if she keeps it platonic.
grap3fruitman
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I've been browsing OKC for the last hour or so and I've come to the same conclusion I always do: I'm going to die alone.
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ZombieFred
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Devolution is pretty right in this regard, she just wants the attention and cling onto anything she might consider a safeguard on whatever makes her feel good. It's not worth it man, be more respectful with yourself and move on forward and find someone else who deserves your time and energy the most
Browse real life instead.
Yeah, time to walk away.
RedNalgene
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I was in almost the exact same situation. All I can say is WALK AWAY. She clearly doesn't know what she wants. If she wanted you then she wouldn't have said yes when this other dude asked her to marry him. If she wanted him then she wouldn't be messing with you. Sorry to break it to you, but she wants neither of you.
This has disaster written all over it. I will save you tons of heartache and wasted time - WALK AWAY.
What would Squall do, man?
He'd walk away from that shit. Cus he's a boss.
Be like Squall.
The_Inquisitor
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Yeah. I feel fucking terrible for her fiancé. However I find it extremely fucked up she would put me in this position 2 weeks after a breakup.
Then again, I'm sure she didn't expect the engagement. She tends to be stubborn like me and not pull out of relationships. She's had a history of very abusive boyfriends. Until her fiancé I've basiclly been the only angel in her dating life.
When she's cried out for help in the pat for years between and during these bf's I've had a tendency to find a new gf and bail on her out of fear that I simply didn't know who she was anymore and whether we could work out anymore. I'm sure that hasn't helped.
Edit: I basically forced her to break up with her last bf. then I chose another girl over her. I'm wondering if she just has some ideal image of me now in my head. Likewise I have the same of her.
Gucci Messiah
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Best advice anyone has ever given in this thread
Well she has a load of problems it sounds like, and you don't have to take that on as a burden. Don't let her dump her emotional strife onto you like this. It isn't fair to you, man.
I sincerely suggest you walk away, and I think everyone would agree.
Thanks, man. If it worked for me, it could work for anyone.
I sincerely suggest you walk away, and I think everyone would agree.
Thanks, man. If it worked for me, it could work for anyone.
The_Inquisitor
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Probably. I do have an open offer from a girl I know who would come over for "hot coffee". All I have to do is text her. Maybe I should just take that up and forget about everything, haha.
NeOak
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Do that.
That's my recommendation, bud. Give this new girl a chance, get to know her if she seems nice. You don't need someone else's life drama messing with you.
Wait, is "hot coffee" code for something other than coffee? Lol. Just remembered the GTA mod. In any case, my vote goes to walk away from the other girl for sure.
The_Inquisitor
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Yes hot coffee means the GTA mod "hot coffee". And it would most certainly be no strings attached.
Edit: But I am probably not going to do it. Too soon after my relationship ended, and I don't want to use someone.
NeOak
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Do it. It works as a jolt that will help you detox faster.
Another night of uneventfulness. I don't want anything serious, but I really do feel absolutely hopeless. I go out in evenings wanting to enjoy myself, but I always come home depressed.
Nothing has changed in the 3 or so years of these threads, and I'm absolutely fed up.
My life is screwed, and I feel my youth slipping away before it has begun. I feel trapped and my life hasn't gone at all as I've planned. I might just end it, I'm not sure.
Nothing has changed in the 3 or so years of these threads, and I'm absolutely fed up.
My life is screwed, and I feel my youth slipping away before it has begun. I feel trapped and my life hasn't gone at all as I've planned. I might just end it, I'm not sure.
Come on, Xun. Don't talk like that.
Things will get better, trust me. We've all been there.
Maybe you shouldn't focus at all on dating right now, and just put all of your effort into you. Do something you've always wanted to do, go somewhere you've always wanted to go. Get in better shape, try some new music, pick up cooking, litterally just do what you want as long as it makes you happy and makes you a better person for it.
I promise you, once you're in a better place for you and you alone, good things will just start happening. Don't give up, bud.
Things will get better, trust me. We've all been there.
Maybe you shouldn't focus at all on dating right now, and just put all of your effort into you. Do something you've always wanted to do, go somewhere you've always wanted to go. Get in better shape, try some new music, pick up cooking, litterally just do what you want as long as it makes you happy and makes you a better person for it.
I promise you, once you're in a better place for you and you alone, good things will just start happening. Don't give up, bud.
What the hell man? That kind of talk is unhealthy and disturbing. You're essentially telling your life that you give up because you feel things are too hard for you. Guess the fuck what? Life is hard for many people, yet those who are successful look the challenges and setbacks and continue.
The_Inquisitor
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I cried in my apartment by myself 3-4 times and wished I had my ex back. Now in okay and the hollow feeling is mostly gone. Just go out with friends and forget about women.
NeOak
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The_Inquisitor
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Oh I know I was commenting to him. It does get better, even for someone like me who was in it for over 2 years.
The_Inquisitor
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This is going to make me sound crazy, but I have actually never had sex with a chick I wasn't dating. This would be a first lol. And man, maybe it's time to grow the fuck up...
The_Inquisitor
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Yes maybe so
I don't think I have a problem picking up women so much as undervaluing myself. I actually think I am a pretty fucking awesome person and people generally have a good time around me. I think I just need to take off the blinders and open my mind for once.
Don't put your dick in crazy. That's my only advise if you go down this road.
Sounds good. I think you're bound to learn something new considering how many videos there are out there but to each their own
Tonight was no fun at all, so I'm gonna finish that Glengarry Glen Ross movie from the cracked article, watch some more videos and sleep in preparation for two more party nights ^^The_Inquisitor
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Sounds good. I think you're bound to learn something new considering how many videos there are out there but to each their own
Watched it last night. It was okay. The one scene was amazing, but the rest was a bit confusing tbh.
Also thinking of doing something I have never done before. Going to a bar and just chilling alone at the main part. Maybe strike up a conversation with some random people. Have fun.
I do need to finish cleaning my place though. One thing being slightly sad does for you is makes you clean EVERYTHING.And honestly, fuck being stressed over trying to make something work out that doesn't have a chance. I'm over that.
Xun made me remember this video.
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