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Shadownet

Banned
I think it's a better move to ask members if they want this closed down, not simply following the wishes of others invested in there being simply one group.

Sure why not.

Alright guys. Those of you who actually have been approved by us so far. Do you want us to shut it down?

We just set it up last night and we're close to 300 members. Us Admins are trying our best to accept people and write guidelines for this group. But there are a lot of confusion and some people wanting us to shut down.

At this point, I just wanna hear what you guys think. This is a group, even though I'm an Admin. Jburton is right. we want to hear your input.
 
Is there a recruitment / info thread for this other group? I knew about the alpha clan only because I saw people on my friends list in it, but never saw a release clan mentioned on the forums, aside from people saying "How do I join? Doesn't seem to be an ingame mechanism" in the alpha impressions thread and never getting a reply.

If it is supposed to be the "official" one, a dedicated thread might have alleviated a ton of confusion. Or have I managed to just completely miss seeing it?

I missed it too. there should have been a thread, not mixed within the discussion of another thread.
 
Reposting display name.

Display Name: SykoFunc Wyzbi

EDIT: Wait, you rejected my application even though I claimed the name three times in the last page, so I had to re-join. ;__;
 

Shadownet

Banned

can you please resend an request?

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Sorry guys I had to declined a bunch of requests. It was getting crowded. please resend if you didnt get accepted and repost please.


Reposting display name.

Display Name: SykoFunc Wyzbi

EDIT: Wait, you rejected my application even though I claimed the name three times in the last page, so I had to re-join. ;__;

I'm sorry. please resend. There's only 6 admins right now. we're trying to catch up.

Edit: found you. accepted.

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okay who is byrneoNL and mdp78?
 
Sure why not.

Alright guys. Those of you who actually have been approved by us so far. Do you want us to shut it down?

We just set it up last night and we're close to 300 members. Us Admins are trying our best to accept people and write guidelines for this group. But there are a lot of confusion and some people wanting us to shut down.

At this point, I just wanna hear what you guys think. This is a group, even though I'm an Admin. Jburton is right. we want to hear your input.

I want to be able to join the clan because I wasn't able to in the Alpha, it was full. do you see any cap limits on members/clans on Bungie.net as an admin?
 

cilonen

Member
Sure why not.

Alright guys. Those of you who actually have been approved by us so far. Do you want us to shut it down?

We just set it up last night and we're close to 300 members. Us Admins are trying our best to accept people and write guidelines for this group. But there are a lot of confusion and some people wanting us to shut down.

At this point, I just wanna hear what you guys think. This is a group, even though I'm an Admin. Jburton is right. we want to hear your input.

Nope. If it worked for GTA why not here? If anything consolidation amongst people who aren't barred from playing together by console family (i.e. PSN / XBL) could work. But thousands of people over multiple online platforms is going to get confusing when matching up.

We're also way out from launch so there's plenty of time to figure it all out.

I think you guys should get props for raising the thread out in the open though.
 

sploatee

formerly Oynox Slider
Sure why not.

Alright guys. Those of you who actually have been approved by us so far. Do you want us to shut it down?

We just set it up last night and we're close to 300 members. Us Admins are trying our best to accept people and write guidelines for this group. But there are a lot of confusion and some people wanting us to shut down.

At this point, I just wanna hear what you guys think. This is a group, even though I'm an Admin. Jburton is right. we want to hear your input.

Tone down the language e.g

"my other admin"

"we want to hear your views"

"we have close to 300 members"

"good choice"

Ease off on the pride a bit - thanks for setting it up and all but I'm in the camp that finds your posting style in this thread a bit egotistical.

You're only a dude who set up a group, not the rule maker, not the arbiter of behaviour, not a leader. Nobody is. Maybe you're pretty chilled out and it's just the language you're using. I bet if we were speaking face to face this wouldn't even be an issue.

Having said my bit, after all that, I say keep it open. Despite my grumbles, it's clearly popular now and it's a bother for people to leave this and join another because of an Internet argument. Just pppleeeaassseee slow down and ease off a bit and I might join up. If you'll have me :p
 

MMaRsu

Gold Member
Sure why not.

Alright guys. Those of you who actually have been approved by us so far. Do you want us to shut it down?

We just set it up last night and we're close to 300 members. Us Admins are trying our best to accept people and write guidelines for this group. But there are a lot of confusion and some people wanting us to shut down.

At this point, I just wanna hear what you guys think. This is a group, even though I'm an Admin. Jburton is right. we want to hear your input.

I feel this group should be merged with DestinyGAF as a group and as a whole. There is too much confusion going on and there is already a group called DestinyGAF. You can still choose to only play with PS4 players if the groups are merged. You will probably be able to see who is playing on what console.
 

Shadownet

Banned
Tone down the language e.g

"my other admin"

"we want to hear your views"

"we have close to 300 members"

"good choice"

Ease off on the pride a bit - thanks for setting it up and all but I'm in the camp that finds your posting style in this thread a bit egotistical.

You're only a dude who set up a group, not the rule maker, not the arbiter of behaviour, not a leader. Nobody is. Maybe you're pretty chilled out and it's just the language you're using. I bet if we were speaking face to face this wouldn't even be an issue.

Having said my bit, after all that, I say keep it open. Despite my grumbles, it's clearly popular now and it's a bother for people to leave this and join another because of an Internet argument. Just pppleeeaassseee slow down and ease off a bit and I might join up. If you'll have me :p

Admin is a title. I mean, what would you rather I call them? I appointed them admin so they could help me with the acceptance process... When I'm speaking about the admin as a whole. I'm also including myself.

as for the other stuff. I'm just being myself? I'm kind of a formal person. I'm very sorry if my formality stuff is coming off as egotistical.
 

Jburton

Banned
Tone down the language e.g

"my other admin"

"we want to hear your views"

"we have close to 300 members"

"good choice"

Ease off on the pride a bit - thanks for setting it up and all but I'm in the camp that finds your posting style in this thread a bit egotistical.

You're only a dude who set up a group, not the rule maker, not the arbiter of behaviour, not a leader. Nobody is. Maybe you're pretty chilled out and it's just the language you're using. I bet if we were speaking face to face this wouldn't even be an issue.

Having said my bit, after all that, I say keep it open. Despite my grumbles, it's clearly popular now and it's a bother for people to leave this and join another because of an Internet argument. Just pppleeeaassseee slow down and ease off a bit and I might join up. If you'll have me :p


In all honesty he just stated the number as if it was simply three or four people it wouldn't be much of a decision.

I find your criticism and condescension quite nasty, stop ridiculing people it is getting in the way of a y point you are trying to make and can get peoples backs up and defensive as a consequence.
 

sploatee

formerly Oynox Slider
Admin is a title. I mean, what would you rather I call them? I appointed them admin so they could help me with the acceptance process... When I'm speaking about the admin as a whole. I'm also including myself.

as for the other stuff. I'm just being myself? I'm kind of a formal person. I'm very sorry if my formality stuff is coming off as egotistical.

You're missing my point.

"MY admin"

"WE want to hear YOUR views"

It's language of ownership and separation, even if you don't actually mean it (which I don't think you do).
 

Shadownet

Banned
You're missing my point.

"MY admin"

"WE want to hear YOUR views"

It's language of ownership and separation, even if you don't actually mean it (which I don't think you do).

I'm sorry. Must be from the little sleep I got. But I still don't see what you're trying to tell me..

I understand that My, We and Yours are possessive words.. but if I cant say that then what am I allow to say?

O.0....
 
I think if the caps aren't set to something dumb like 500 clan members like in the Alpha then we should merge. there should also be a designated signup thread.
 

sploatee

formerly Oynox Slider
In all honesty he just stated the number as if it was simply three or four people it wouldn't be much of a decision.

I find your criticism and condescension quite nasty, stop ridiculing people it is getting in the way of a y point you are trying to make and can get peoples backs up and defensive as a consequence.

It's not ridicule, it's criticism. It's a discussion?

I'm criticising the language he's using, not him. In fact, I've made that really clear. I'm entitled to my opinion on that, surely?


I'm honestly not nasty. Far from it - you can check my posting record if you don't believe me! But you're entitled to think that if you want. I'm used to off topic and gaming side is just way different in terms of seriousness and tone.
 

Shadownet

Banned
I think if the caps aren't set to something dumb like 500 clan members like in the Alpha then we should merge. there should also be a designated signup thread.

thanks for your input. But honestly. thats not the only thing people from the other group and some people like myself from this group are disagreeing about.

It's also about how we might run our respective group also.

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Zacxx201

byrneoNL
 

Llyrwenne

Unconfirmed Member
dude, I could careless about ownership. I asked JBurton (at the time my only other admin) if he feel I should shut down this group. He said no.

My hand was already hovering over the delete button.

Let be real, this is the internet. You don't know me. If you actually do. You would know that I'm the least power hungry person ever.
Sure, if you say so. I just think it is telling that the one person you ask whether you should shut down the group is someone who already pledged support for your group over the existing group and someone you had just promoted to a position of power within this group. Now you'll probably go, 'Well, I'll ask the group!', but that will give a false impression, since the other group was not publicized with its own thread and the people already invested in this group over the other are invested in defending it.

And again, the ideas you want to push with this group ( division according to platforms ) could have been implemented and would have been implemented in the already existing group, so what reason is there for this group to exist, what reason to not step down in favor of the existing group after being told this several times?

Maybe I'm wrong about this. Maybe I'm just tired and grumpy from being up all day seeing people being confused and you refusing to deal with it. Even so, this group ( and for my part, the other one as well ) need to stop recruiting and a discussion needs to take place before people like yourself rush off to make their own splinter group.

I cannot agree with someone starting their own group when one already exists and then not doing anything or doing pretty much nothing to clear up the confusion, in order to gain advantage by numbers to force it as the main clan. I feel like that is what's happening here, and by you constantly refusing to deal with the confusion, not wanting to start a discussion and going on with your group as if nothing is wrong is only amplifying that feeling.

EDIT: Well, there it is...

Sure why not.

Alright guys. Those of you who actually have been approved by us so far. Do you want us to shut it down?

We just set it up last night and we're close to 300 members. Us Admins are trying our best to accept people and write guidelines for this group. But there are a lot of confusion and some people wanting us to shut down.

At this point, I just wanna hear what you guys think. This is a group, even though I'm an Admin. Jburton is right. we want to hear your input.

This use of language is also part of the reason I originally said I thought it was about ownership to you; you are constantly reminding us of how you're the 'admin', proudly presenting 'your' group and are only turning towards the group that you created for feedback. Maybe this is just how you normally talk, but that is the vibe I get from your posts and use of language.
 

LkPr

Member
You're missing my point.

"MY admin"

"WE want to hear YOUR views"

It's language of ownership and separation, even if you don't actually mean it (which I don't think you do).

I don't see the issue here, personally. You may have a problem with his position of "Ownership" but technically that is what he is. We are "his" admins because he appointed us as such. There is a level of "separation" if you will which really is just permission based. The "Owner" (founder if you want) is the only one, for example, that can delete a group. Admins, are the only ones who can accept/deny applications. So there is a segregation of responsibilities which should be nothing new, to anyone here. We are all members of NeoGAF.. there are admins and there is an owner.
 

sploatee

formerly Oynox Slider
I'm sorry. Must be from the little sleep I got. But I still don't see what you're trying to tell me..

I understand that My, We and Yours are possessive words.. but if I cant say that then what am I allow to say?

O.0....

Sorry! It's dead simple... You just keep it neutral - "an admin","the group". It keeps it as a separate thing, rather than your thing (in a grammatical sense). When I read the possessive stuff, I read it as you claiming it- I only have your words to go off.

You said you were going to bed and now you're back? I'm not surprised if you're frazzled. And to be honest I'm
near the end of a truly epic day at work so I don't blame you if I'm jumbling everything up too.
 

Shadownet

Banned
Sure................

I already explained this multiple times. Im getting tired of retyping things. Some people felt that having a smaller group would be better to managed, there wont be any confusion trying to find people to play with, etc.

That's how I see it, and I understand and respect that you don't understand what I'm trying to get at.

I'm in the Alpha DestinyGAF group as well, but just requested to join this one too!

PSN/Diplay Name: Jaklap1

accepted!
 

sploatee

formerly Oynox Slider
I don't see the issue here, personally. You may have a problem with his position of "Ownership" but technically that is what he is. We are "his" admins because he appointed us as such. There is a level of "separation" if you will which really is just permission based. The "Owner" (founder if you want) is the only one, for example, that can delete a group. Admins, are the only ones who can accept/deny applications. So there is a segregation of responsibilities which should be nothing new, to anyone here. We are all members of NeoGAF.. there are admins and there is an owner.

Ok, well I hope my post to him clears it up. To me, the blunt ownership thing makes me a bit suspicious, but it could just be an American thing. In the UK we have an ingrained suspicion of any kind of assertiveness, so we use a pretty odd way of understating everything and being overly polite.
 

Shadownet

Banned
Sorry! It's dead simple... You just keep it neutral - "an admin","the group". It keeps it as a separate thing, rather than your thing (in a grammatical sense). When I read the possessive stuff, I read it as you claiming it- I only have your words to go off.

You said you were going to bed and now you're back? I'm not surprised if you're frazzled. And to be honest I'm
near the end of a truly epic day at work so I don't blame you if I'm jumbling everything up too.

okay. thanks for the advice. I'll try to keep it neutral. I'm sorry, today is my day off from work. got 4 hours of sleep. I'm just working on muscle memory trying to accepting people and organized stuff.

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Request sent to join:

PSN: Crackbone

Same as my user name here on GAF.

TIA.

approved!
 

molnizzle

Member
I didn't realize that there was already a DestinyGAF group for the full Bungie.net (I was only a member of the Alpha group).

I've removed myself from this group and applied for membership in the main one. We don't need a fragmented community.

This group should be shut down.
 

Jburton

Banned
Sure, if you say so. I just think it is telling that the one person you ask whether you should shut down the group is someone who already pledged support for your group over the existing group and someone you had just promoted to a position of power within this group. Now you'll probably go, 'Well, I'll ask the group!', but that will give a false impression, since the other group was not publicized with its own thread and the people already invested in this group over the other are invested in defending it.

And again, the ideas you want to push with this group ( division according to platforms ) could have been implemented and would have been implemented in the already existing group, so what reason is there for this group to exist, what reason to not step down in favor of the existing group after being told this several times?

Maybe I'm wrong about this. Maybe I'm just tired and grumpy from being up all day seeing people being confused and you refusing to deal with it. Even so, this group ( and for my part, the other one as well ) need to stop recruiting and a discussion needs to take place before people like yourself rush off to make their own splinter group.

I cannot agree with someone starting their own group when one already exists and then not doing anything or doing pretty much nothing to clear up the confusion, in order to gain advantage by numbers to force it as the main clan. I feel like that is what's happening here, and by you constantly refusing to deal with the confusion, not wanting to start a discussion and going on with your group as if nothing is wrong is only amplifying that feeling.


And who from the other group have you been pressurising like this to deal with it?

There has been plenty of conversation in this thread (look through it) and I had brought the idea of shutting it down based on member feedback awhile ago.

The previous group was not advertised, was hidden within Bungie.net and no thread informing everyone not in the official withdrawal thread that such a group was in the making or had already been made.


Any ideas other than shut it down or posts in here other than recrimination would be helpful and necessary in creating a conversation around how to proceed, none have really been apparent.

Merging groups under the other the previous group has been the only idea floated so far, the logistics of such an idea have not been discussed.
 

sploatee

formerly Oynox Slider
okay. thanks for the advice. I'll try to keep it neutral. I'm sorry, today is my day off from work. got 4 hours of sleep. I'm just working on muscle memory trying to accepting people and organized stuff.

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approved!

It's completely OK! Sorry if I've been a bit funky about it all.

More importantly, I do think it would be sensible to get more sleep. :)
 

Shadownet

Banned
Request sent

Display name: AndersTheSwede

accepted

I didn't realize that there was already a DestinyGAF group for the full Bungie.net (I was only a member of the Alpha group).

I've removed myself from this group and applied for membership in the main one. We don't need a fragmented community.

This group should be shut down.

I'm sorry to see you go.

We just lost our Central US Admin. So I guess that position is up for grab.
 

Jburton

Banned
I didn't realize that there was already a DestinyGAF group for the full Bungie.net (I was only a member of the Alpha group).

I've removed myself from this group and applied for membership in the main one. We don't need a fragmented community.

This group should be shut down.

It is only fragmented based upon platform, hence the name of the group.

Simply shutting this down without consulting those who would rather be in a platform specific group would be unfair without asking them.
 

Shadownet

Banned
It is only fragmented based upon platform, hence the name of the group.

Simply shutting this down without consulting those who would rather be in a platform specific group would be unfair without asking them.

thank god JBurton is here. I cant handle typing out complex paragraphs right now to deal with people asking us to shut down and stuff and asking the reasons for this group.. I feel like a brainless zombie.

JBurton honestly, is fighting in the trenches here. I'm just trying to approve members.

If people from the other threads and us can come up with a mutual agreements to merge things, then we will consider it. But asking us to shut down immediately is unfair.

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molnizzle

Member
It is only fragmented based upon platform, hence the name of the group.

Simply shutting this down without consulting those who would rather be in a platform specific group would be unfair without asking them.

We can make platform-specific clans within the main GAF group if people want that. There's no member cap on actual groups, and clans/groups are separate things.

The fact of the matter is there shouldn't be more than one "official" NeoGAF group on Bungie.net. Within that main group people can create dedicated clans for platform specific stuff, Crucible play, etc. But there should only be one main group.
 

baconcow

Member
Not sure why another DestinyGAF clan was formed after there already was another DestinyGAF clan. I get that it is PS4 exclusive, but the other clan also has PS4 members in it.

I was confused, as it seems many others are, thinking this was a remaking of the other group. Wouldn't it be best to keep all the members in a single clan, instead of an offset DestinyGAF clan. It seems this will only lead to more confusion, once the game is released.
 

molnizzle

Member
Not sure why another DestinyGAF clan was formed after there already was another DestinyGAF clan. I get that it is PS4 exclusive, but the other clan also has PS4 members in it.

I was confused, as it seems many others are, thinking this was a remaking of the other group. Wouldn't it be best to keep all the members in a single clan, instead of an offset DestinyGAF clan. It seems this will only lead to more confusion, once the game is released.

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