Have you even played Starfield? Everybody in that universe wears frumpy unisex clothing. There's this perfectly egalitarian blend of race/gender in every strata of society, even in the "outlaw biker"-like space pirates.
And aside from the romance-able companions, there is absolutely zero hint of sexuality, romance, or gendered behavior in this universe. Even the "sin city" is just people taking drugs and enjoying a night of platonic dancing while wearing the least sexy clothing imaginable.
You could gender swap every character in the game and nothing would feel the slightest bit different, aside from maybe some of the catty girlboss characters now coming across as toxic patriarchal jerks when the genders are swapped.
Give me a break. This shit doesn't stop at the character creation screen.