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[Nameless]

Been seeing my current GF for almost a year and I've been 100% faithful thus far, and don't see myself wavering. Now in the past, I've cheated on previous GFs. Sometimes because we never got along, sometimes because I was too "pussy" to call it off, and others because the "other chick" was just too fine to pass up. Mostly it was because of my youth.

I've been tested, and tested hard in this relationship but as stated, I havn't cheated. When I say tested I'm talking theres an attractive girl doing the propositioning and I've had to decline.

 

[Deleted member 1235]

Nope, never.

apart from my current I've been in 1 serious relationship and 1 bullshit one in which I was the fucked over party and it just doesn't occur to me.

Mainly because at the start I wouldn't want to do that to the girl i really have it bad for, but in my prior relationship after things got old and we weren't happy, I didn't have the energy to go looking. I'm not sure how I would have reacted if some hot chick blatantly threw herself at me when I was unhappy though.

In my current, no way would I cheat, I really can't seperate my head from the "fuck I would hate that to happen to me" thing and I would feel horribly guilty.

 

[Boogie]

What's with all these cheating threads recently?

 

[hXc_thugg]

What's with all these cheating threads recently?

Love is in the air.

 

[Escape Goat]

No. I wouldn't want the guy I'm seeing to cheat on me so why would I? If I ever found out my bf did though that'd be it and depending if he lied or not would determine what physical force should be used.

 

[Boogie]

Love is in the air.

....

*Boogie contemplates the various ways he could snap hXc_thugg's limbs*

 

[hXc_thugg]

I don't have any bones. I'm actually supported by a series of fluid filled bladders.

 

[Boogie]

Well, nuts.

 

[Escape Goat]

Well, nuts.

where? *checks back of neck*

 

[yoshifumi]

:lol this thread is off to a good start

 

[Boogie]

where? *checks back of neck*

Note: Disregard my new tag.

 

[Escape Goat]

Note: Disregard my new tag.

I didn't notice until you brought attention to it...I can't unsee it once I've seen it very well can I?

 

[keeblerdrow]

Been seeing my current GF for almost a year and I've been 100% faithful thus far, and don't see myself wavering. Now in the past, I've cheated on previous GFs. Sometimes because we never got along, sometimes because I was too "pussy" to call it off, and others because the "other chick" was just too fine to pass up. Mostly it was because of my youth.

I've been tested, and tested hard in this relationship but as stated, I havn't cheated. When I say tested I'm talking theres an attractive girl doing the propositioning and I've had to decline.

What do you want, a fucking cookie?

Being faithful what you're supposed to do. It's like asking for a gold star for not killing anyone today.

 

[Boogie]

What do you want, a fucking cookie?

Being faithful what you're supposed to do. It's like asking for a gold star for not killing anyone today.

Haha, indeed. In my grade 9 geography class, we had one slacker who told the teacher "I actually did my homework this week Mr. Lusk"

My teacher replied "Okay, that's good. But you're supposed to do your homework. You're not going to get congratulations for doing something that you're supposed to and that everyone else does all the time anyway!"

 

[norinrad21]

What do you want, a fucking cookie?

Being faithful what you're supposed to do. It's like asking for a gold star for not killing anyone today.

:lol :lol :lol

 

[Lil' Dice]

I cheated on my ex-ex girlfriend. I lost all sexual attraction to her, plus she said she would "do something" stupid if I ever left her....that was my queue.

 

[Incognito]

I've cheated four times. Not cool.... I definitely learned my lesson with the last girl. She won't come back.

 

[Deleted member 4784]

Never have and never will. I've been cheated on before and I could never put somebody that I care about through that. Even if I fell out of love, I'd still care about the person and respect them enough to break up first.

I don't know how people can cheat once, let alone go on cheating repeatedly and actually live with themselves afterwards. Just break up with the person...

 

[Incognito]

Never have and never will. I've been cheated on before and I could never put somebody that I care about through that. Even if I fell out of love, I'd still care about the person and respect them enough to break up first.

I don't know how people can cheat once, let alone go on cheating repeatedly and actually live with themselves afterwards. Just break up with the person...

It's a tough life, Waychel, but someone must do it. I manage to soldier on, though.

 

[hXc_thugg]

How about "assisting" other people cheat? That's what I'm all about.

 

[Incognito]

O for sure, nothing better than watching your friends relationships end in shambles.

:lol :lol

 

[hXc_thugg]

My favourite pass-time, in fact.

 

[shpankey]

where? *checks back of neck*

:lol

 

[Stryder]

I've cheated on my current g/f. It was a stupid stupid thing to do, I was at a party and very drunk and was chatting with a girl who was quite hot and it just happened, I was with her. I think I did it because I finally felt what it was like to be comfortable talking to a girl and knowing that I could just kiss her if I wanted to. I know it's wierd but.. I never really felt that confident before. The sad part is that I wouldn't have had the confidence to do this if it wasn't for the girl that I was cheating on.

Worst. Reason. Ever.

I can't believe my g/f took me back after I told her, hell.. I can't believe I'm even telling you all this! It's certainly not going to earn my any respect.

 

[Lil' Dice]

I would also cheat on my spouse if she became disgustingly fat, and to me "disgustingly" is 20-30lbs overweight.

 

[hXc_thugg]

I would cheat on my spouse if she lost the tip of one of her fingers in a horrible knife-tossing accident. I don't like my women that scarred up.

 

[Syckx]

I have cheated before. I cheated for the same reason most people do: I didn't respect her or the relationship.

 

[Scrow]

What's with all these cheating threads recently?

Guilt is in the air.

fixed

 

[Deleted member 1235]

I've cheated on my current g/f. It was a stupid stupid thing to do, I was at a party and very drunk and was chatting with a girl who was quite hot and it just happened,

And that right there is the bit I never believe.

If I ever get cheated on and thats said it's going to go like this

her: it just happened
me: arrrgh, so I might have aids then right? Did you use protection?
her: yes we used protection (best case scenario)
me: doesn't sound very spontaneous to me WHORE

*dumped*

I've put rubbers on. There is nothing to do BUT think about shit right then in that akward annoying time while the dude is putting that thing on.

 

[Particle Physicist]

And that right there is the bit I never believe.

If I ever get cheated on and thats said it's going to go like this

her: it just happened
me: arrrgh, so I might have aids then right? Did you use protection?
her: yes we used protection (best case scenario)
me: doesn't sound very spontaneous to me WHORE

*dumped*

I've put rubbers on. There is nothing to do BUT think about shit right then in that akward annoying time while the dude is putting that thing on.

good point. there is definitely that pause of, this is really going to happen now.

 

[Deleted member 1235]

good point. there is definitely that pause of, this is really going to happen now.

Thats what I mean, at that point, everybody thinks, FUCK YEAH LETS DO THIS! which is the exact point you disregard the feelings of your significant other to make your groin feel good for a bit. That to me means "you ain't shit" to your other and it's a pretty hardcore thing to do.

Now, if you don't give a shit about your significant other, I can understand that :lol. but if you really love them and are going to scream and cry about it and claim it was an accident, it just happened, thats just a straight up lie.

 

[Syckx]

If you're going to cheat, at least have an honest reason. Catfish is quite right that "It just happened" is up there with "I was drunk."

 

[Stryder]

I gave my reason. It was because I could, and I hadn't been able to before. Pretty f'in weak.

 

[Willco]

I think life would be better if we could sleep with more than one person!

 

[Stryder]

Oh btw, I didn't sleep with this girl, I just kissed her.

And I agree Willco! My grandfather (in Thailand) was actually lucky enough to have this priveledge (he had several concubines) :lol

 

[Blackie]

No, and I never would. Honesty and keeping good faith is everything to me.

 

[Trizten Dareeque]

Is kissing another girl really cheating? I don't think so.

Anyways of course I have cheated. I ain't a big fan though. Now I just tell any girl I am dating or that wants to be considered a "girlfriend" that I am not about being with only one girl, if they are cool with it I let them stick around.

 

[aoi tsuki]

I've put rubbers on. There is nothing to do BUT think about shit right then in that akward annoying time while the dude is putting that thing on.

From the time i reach into my wallet to the time i have it on and i'm ready to go, it take no more than twenty seconds, and it's usually closer to ten. You need more practice.

On the note of cheating, i've never done it myself, but i feel myself getting close with the woman i'm dating now. She's taking our relationship more seriously than i am, and i've told her we're obviously not on the same page there, but she doesn't seem to be getting it. i've also taken the time between jobs to enjoy life a bit more, and i've met a few women i'm interested in that don't have as many responsibilities as the woman i'm dating. Thing is, she recently started using a contraceptive, so we're monogamous, but i really want to date other women, or at least not be attached at the moment. In the back of my head, i keep thinking introducing a third would let me have my cake and eat it too, but it could potentially screw things up even more, especially if i have feelings for the other girl.

 

[Particle Physicist]

From the time i reach into my wallet to the time i have it on and i'm ready to go, it take no more than twenty seconds, and it's usually closer to ten.

uh oh. :X

 

[Deleted member 1235]

From the time i reach into my wallet to the time i have it on and i'm ready to go, it take no more than twenty seconds, and it's usually closer to ten. You need more practice.

I know how to work them, 10 seconds is long enough to think "here we go, is this a good idea?"

 

[Deleted member 4784]

Geez, this coupled with that "would you tell?" thread really makes me lose faith in relationships. =\ I just can't understand how cheating can be so common among so many people. No wonder divorce rates today are the way that they are.

Just seems that some people look at a relationship like a toy that, once it has gotten old, can be placed on the shelf while they go to play with something newer in the meantime. Why even commit yourself to a relationship if you have these kinds of faults about your loyalty?

 

[hXc_thugg]

If I was dating someone who looked like you I wouldn't have much loyalty at all!















I jest, I jest, you're great.

 

[Deleted member 4784]

We're not all as so easily graced with your own good looks, unfortunately.

 

[hXc_thugg]

If you wish really hard, you might be able to.

 

[Forgotten_Taco]

We're not all as so easily graced with your own good looks, unfortunately.

Speak for yourself. Also you forgot his intense wit and charm.

 

[hXc_thugg]

And impeccable taste in music, movies, and fashion!

 

[human5892]

Never have. The only motivation I'd have to actually go through with being unfaithful would be a bad relationship, and I end those when I realize they're bad. I'm not a believer in "sticking it out" to "make things work".

 

[Willco]

Geez, this coupled with that "would you tell?" thread really makes me lose faith in relationships. =\ I just can't understand how cheating can be so common among so many people. No wonder divorce rates today are the way that they are.

Just seems that some people look at a relationship like a toy that, once it has gotten old, can be placed on the shelf while they go to play with something newer in the meantime. Why even commit yourself to a relationship if you have these kinds of faults about your loyalty?

I agree. The L-word scares me (no, not the Showtime show) and the clingy nature of some ladies scares me even more. So as a rule, I try not to get too attached and I think it works better for everyone that way.

 

[Go Go Ackman!]

Hell yeah I've cheated. I'm 23 years old, long term relationships are for suckers and those who aren't moving up the ladder.

 

[Escape Goat]

Hell yeah I've cheated. I'm 23 years old, long term relationships are for suckers and those who aren't moving up the ladder.

Oh, you man, you!