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Ex-Ravens cheerleader charged with raping teen boy

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studyguy

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Wondering what the minor felt is largely irrelevant in these cases. Doesn't matter if you personally were 12 years old and masturbating to pornstars all day ready to go. If someone fucks with you before the legal age in that given state then they're going to catch a felony. That's the end of it. Doesn't matter what the legal age limit is in Japan or Europe, what you felt like when you were that age or all this other nonsense GAF talks about concerning these cases.

You fuck what is legally considered a minor and get caught? It's a wrap.
 

CrankyJay

Banned
As much as that was amusing, I'm not excusing what happened, regardless of ages or genders, I'm just thinking back to being a gawky teenager and imagining how that version of me would've reacted.

Rape is bad. Always. I was just damaged good growing up, I guess.

Regardless of how you would have felt about it at the time, the person you would be doing it with would still technically be taking advantage of you.
 

Coins

Banned
When I was 15, and she offered me sex, I would have said yes. Does that make me a deviant? No. It means I was ruled by hormones.
 

Wthermans

Banned
Who gives a shit what the term is except people who want a distinction for personal reasons?
Because the terms carry different connotations. I don't view all crimes the same even if they're in the same class. You shouldn't either.
 

strobogo

Banned
http://www.baltimoresun.com/news/bs-ae-molly-shattuck-20141105-story.html#page=1


A link from a local paper.


Shattuck, a self-styled fitness and lifestyle guru who was the oldest cheerleader in the history of the NFL, began sending provocative messages to the boy in the spring saying, "we would have fun together," according to the affidavit.

In the summer, she would pick up the boy during his lunch breaks from a class and drive him to the parking garage of the T. Rowe Price building in Owings Mills where they would "get in the back of the car and kiss or 'make out,'" according to the affidavit.

Around 2 a.m., Shattuck left the younger children sleeping in the rental home and took the alleged victim and other teenagers to a liquor store, the affidavit states. There, she purchased Miller Lite and Bud Light for them, according to the affidavit.

Back at the house, according to the affidavit, Shattuck then asked the alleged victim to help her walk the dog. Once they got outside, she began kissing him and fondling him, then performed oral sex on him, according to the affidavit.

The boy then went up to a rooftop deck, where he, Shattuck, and the other teenagers drank alcohol.

Shattuck then "came up and said that [the alleged victim] needs to go to bed," according to the affidavit.

According to the affidavit, the boy then went into Shattuck's bedroom. She stripped down to her underwear, performed oral sex on him again and told him she would be willing to have intercourse. He decided to leave.
 

Currygan

at last, for christ's sake
put her mouth on his penis?


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Dice//

Banned
Putting her mouth on his penis doesn't sound as bad as getting hit, beaten, and over-powered to do it. So I'm kinda giggling with what Bravocado said from the perspective of a "15 year old deviant". Mainly thinking because oral is usually more pleasurable for the receiver more than the actual performer.

Rape is definitely bad though, no matter who, no matter how, and the rest of the details are just downright sleezy and gross. Eugh, I hate that line too, "We'd have fun together!" *WINK* It's certainly good he "optioned" to leave when offered sex.

I'm also surprised these stories happen so much... I mean, it's fucking illegal... is it worth being caught? Find a 20 year old, it can't be that hard, can it?
 

Scotch

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Wondering what the minor felt is largely irrelevant in these cases. Doesn't matter if you personally were 12 years old and masturbating to pornstars all day ready to go. If someone fucks with you before the legal age in that given state then they're going to catch a felony. That's the end of it. Doesn't matter what the legal age limit is in Japan or Europe, what you felt like when you were that age or all this other nonsense GAF talks about concerning these cases.

You fuck what is legally considered a minor and get caught? It's a wrap.

I don't think anyone's arguing whether what we she did was illegal. But when some people here act like this was some disgraceful, reprehensible act, when that same case would be legal all over the world, then I get a little uncomfortable.

Also, throwing the word 'rape' around, when the kid was in a position to leave voluntarily (as he did), is downright insulting to all the people who are victims of actual rape.
 
According to the affidavit, the boy then went into Shattuck's bedroom. She stripped down to her underwear, performed oral sex on him again and told him she would be willing to have intercourse. He decided to leave.

Like a BOSS.
 
Which doesn't mean they prefer to lose it by being raped.

You must be an idiot, I said nothing about rape. And the point i was making is that it's not weird or disturbing to want to loose your virginity at that age, nor is it weird or disturbing to seize the opportunity to do so with an older partner.

Team cool kids

I'm 18 months out from achieving Wizard status I'm not one of the cool kids
 

strobogo

Banned
Putting her mouth on his penis doesn't sound as bad as getting hit, beaten, and over-powered to do it. So I'm kinda giggling with what Bravocado said from the perspective of a "15 year old deviant". Mainly thinking because oral is usually more pleasurable for the receiver more than the actual performer.

Rape is definitely bad though, no matter who, no matter how, and the rest of the details are just downright sleezy and gross. Eugh, I hate that line too, "We'd have fun together!" *WINK* It's certainly good he "optioned" to leave when offered sex.

You should read the second article from Baltimore, where she found him on line, started sending suggestive messages, would get him drunk, would pick him up during his lunch breaks, and had a party for him and his friends where she got them drunk and took him to a bed room, blew him, and said she'd fuck him. And the kid left because he was uncomfortable with it and told his parents. Classic predator behavior.
 

jooey

The Motorcycle That Wouldn't Slow Down
Earlier this year, Shattuck launched a book entitled, "Molly Shattuck Vibrant Living," a back-to-basics approach to embracing lifestyle changes and better health.
wonder what was in that first draft
 

Guevara

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It's really hard to draw the line. Would it have been ok if he were 16? 18? Would it have been ok if she were younger? Is it ever ok if two people younger than 18 sleep together?

We as a society had to draw a line, we picked "18" in the U.S. as the magic age, but I think everyone understands that's somewhat arbitrary.
 

Lagamorph

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Given how many reports of things like this there have been lately I wonder, is this just happening more and more? Or is it an increase in the number of victims reporting it?
I'm certainly hopeful it's the latter.
 

TAJ

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
We as a society had to draw a line, we picked "18" in the U.S. as the magic age

Only 12 states picked 18, actually. There's no state where this would be legal, though.
 

Dice//

Banned
You should read the second article from Baltimore, where she found him on line, started sending suggestive messages, would get him drunk, would pick him up during his lunch breaks, and had a party for him and his friends where she got them drunk and took him to a bed room, blew him, and said she'd fuck him. And the kid left because he was uncomfortable with it and told his parents. Classic predator behavior.

I thought my second paragraph got that across. It's gross, she's gross, and clearly messed in the head. Any predatory behaviour is wildly innappropriate and I'm glad he found a way to stop it (albeit he should have done so sooner, many in that kind of situation should; but that's a matter of educating what is/isn't appropriate behaviour from others).
 
This.

Last time I posted in one of these threads saying something along the lines of how sweet this would've been if that was me I got a two week ban. Rape is bad
Unless you don't want the vag, but are enough of a "victim" to keep going back for head. It's wrong what happened, and the fact that she has three other children is major concern, but that little shit knew exactly what he was doing.
 
Because the terms carry different connotations. I don't view all crimes the same even if they're in the same class. You shouldn't either.

You guys make it difficult for me to be pedantic. Because like, as soon as I learned about the difference between the words, I preferred to use the appropriate one, but damn.
 

Needlecrash

Member
I never heard of this chick before. What a shame, lock her up. And to think, I personally have a friend who's a Raven's cheerleader. I should check my FB feed if my friend has anything to say about it. Probably not...
 

strobogo

Banned
I thought my second paragraph got that across. It's gross, she's gross, and clearly messed in the head. Any predatory behaviour is wildly innappropriate and I'm glad he found a way to stop it (albeit he should have done so sooner, many in that kind of situation should; but that's a matter of educating what is/isn't appropriate behaviour from others).

Unless you don't want the vag, but are enough of a "victim" to keep going back for head. It's wrong what happened, and the fact that she has three other children is major concern, but that little shit knew exactly what he was doing.

Is this what people on GAF refer to as victim blaming?
 

kirblar

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It's really hard to draw the line. Would it have been ok if he were 16? 18? Would it have been ok if she were younger? Is it ever ok if two people younger than 18 sleep together?

We as a society had to draw a line, we picked "18" in the U.S. as the magic age, but I think everyone understands that's somewhat arbitrary.
The "get him drunk and go down on him when he's asleep" is rape regardless of how old he is.
 

Milchjon

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Ray Lewis killed two men? What?

Well, I'm obviously going by the worst possible interpretation of what happened.

But he lied about it, his suit was never found, blood was found in his limousine and the other two guys were acquitted.

Although I guess that's beside the point of this thread.
 
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