Especially if you've only just met! First dates with Shinji Ikari go great, but I'm lead to understand the relationship just goes downhill from there.
Shinn Asuka isn't so different, except the first impression is crap and it just gets worse from there. So much worse.
I'll go with door number three and choose Roger Smith. He's so noir.
Roger Smith is a classy dude, it's a real departure from what we usually get with giant robot shows.