It absolutely exists. When you have a lot of loud people that reject, avoid, and suppress any valid criticisms, it creates an echo chamber of nothing but positivity, to which the creator can't see or hear the issues that are rising with the game and the community. This is bad for the overall longterm health of the IP, which makes it toxic. See Disney Star Wars. Any valid criticism is being rejected and suppressed as just a bunch of racists and misogynists who only hate Disney's take on Star Wars because of diversity.
That isn’t evidence of “toxic positivity”. That is evidence of an echo chamber lead by ideological cunts. You can still be negative, just toward the “right” things.
What FFXIV is going through right now is a canary in a coal mine situation. The game is in no real danger of bleeding subs and losing a ton of players, at this time. But if they don't do better with the story, and they don't start addressing people's concerns with the game, their insistence of avoiding the issues and reluctance to shake up the formula will catch up to them.
Not really. The early access “reviews” have are mixed for many reasons not related to the narrative. Some are pissed about the graphics update “ruining their characters”. Others are crying about “yet another furry race”.
Others are crying that Wuk Lamat is played by a trans actress in the EN dub, while others are angry that Wuk didn’t come out as a Trans character. Both are opinions that should rightfully be mocked.
Some have issues with the stability, increased requirements, and lower frame rate because of it.
As for the narrative, it is mixed at worst. Some hate it, some love it, some are indifferent. All perfectly valid opinions. Not all stories are for everyone and that is fine. I can enjoy the story, you can hate it. It’s as simple difference of opinion.
However, trying to use idiotic terms like “toxic positivity” or vice versa is nothing but a sad, childish attempt at trying to dismiss and label anyone who doesn’t share their opinion. You can think the story is crap and others can think it is great. Trying to dismiss said praise/criticism using made up terms just comes across as sad and pathetic on all sides.