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[Kabuki Quantum Lover]

It's not 'that sounds like rape', it's 'that is rape'.

 

[lazygecko]

You're playing a ridiculous game here. But getting so caught up in semantics are you suggesting that this woman is "on par" with a man who drags a woman he doesn't know into an alley and forcibly rapes her?

Situations like the one described by the OP are way, way more common and representative of rape in general rather than the stereotypical projection of rape you just described.

 

[t-storm]

Far more disturbing? I strongly disagree. I'm actually very pleased that the majority of posters here recognise that it was indeed rape, which doesn't have to be gender specific - the backlash to ignorant comments, rather than disturbing me, are an encouraging sign that society's perspective is beginning to shift, so it's becoming less and less acceptable to say things like "Yes, but was she hot?" or "Why didn't you just push her away?" or "But you were hard!", all of which are absolutely awful for someone who has experienced rape struggling to come to terms with describing what happened to them:

Yes, those are all idiotic questions but there were a few posters who admitted their ignorance, asked questions and others responded to them with over the top profanities. Not helpful or productive in curbing ignorance, promoting awareness and educating..

 

[Pai Pai Master]

You were raped OP. She should have known better.

I don't know what your relationship with her is like but she should take it as a serious offense.