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Gay Marriage Ban Ammendment.... FAILS.

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3rdman

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I was for this vote until someone actually explained to me that I DON'T have to divorce my wife and actually marry another man! So thumbs up!
 

Pimpwerx

Member
Exactly....i hope they all have gay grandchildren.

That's the thing. They do. They already have gay kids and relatives. Everyone has a gay relative. Yet some people feel their hatred is justified b/c it's something they disagree with. Fucking idiots. Someone should bitchslap each one of those stupid 48 who voted yes. Fucking bigoted idiots, and they got the nerve to preach about morals. Douchebaggery is more like it.

Anyway, glad this got shot down. Sad Kerry and Edwards don't have the sack to stand up for a just cause. Abstaining is as bad as voting yes. It means you're too much of a coward to defend something you believe in. Reason #1001 I won't vote for Kerry. Spineless leaders = teh suck. Nader may not be popular, but at least I kinda know where he stands on the big issues. PEACE.
 

human5892

Queen of Denmark
Pimpwerx said:
Nader may not be popular, but at least I kinda know where he stands on the big issues. PEACE.
If you're voting for Nader, I hope you know where Bush stands on those same issues, too! ;)
 

DarienA

The black man everyone at Activision can agree on
Geez the Republicans really made themselves look foolish here... AGAIN....
 
"The voting on this was closer than anyone believed, Kerry/Edwards skipped the vote, so that makes for campaign fodder as well."


Um, skipping the vote is the same as voting against it. They need 60 votes, no matter how many people are present.

"A spokeswoman for Democratic Senators John Kerry of Massachusetts and John Edwards of North Carolina said the candidates would not come to the floor for a procedural vote, but would show up for an up-or-down vote on the measure, though that vote now appears unlikely to happen this year. Missing the procedural vote is virtually the same as voting against the measure, because 60 votes are needed to forge ahead with the amendment, no matter how many senators are present."
 

Diablos

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Now perhaps congress can get back to worrying about REAL issues in this country. People talk as if same-sex marriage will ruin the idea of it all. Perhaps they've forgotten how fucked up married couples lives are already. For example - how many people get married in a church but are only christian by name? Or how about the somewhat disturbing fact that over 50% of the people that marry get divorced? So many people are cheating today. Etc. etc. That doesn't help society either, nor does it set a good example for children. If two gay people wanna get married, let them get married. There's so much more going on in the world right now. What a silly thing to make such a big deal out of. This is almost as dumb as the government ignoring god knows what just to find out if Bill Clinton got some head from one of his interns.
 

Wolfy

Banned
That doesn't change the fact that the GoP will paint it that way because most people haven't a clue on how Congress (let alone the rest of the government) actually works.

If you can show me any politician on either side who tried to show it that way, so be it. But I think the media is the culprit here.
 

Grizzlyjin

Supersonic, idiotic, disconnecting, not respecting, who would really ever wanna go and top that
Thats a little too close for comfort, but at least that crap failed.
 
Grizzlyjin said:
Thats a little too close for comfort, but at least that crap failed.

Indeed, it obviously shows this country is still way to deadlocked to ever get something that would allow us equal rights as a married couple with "civil unions". Stick out an amendment that does that, and well It won't pass either. Gay marriage just isn't going to happen that way as much as I'd like it to. Not here anywho. We'll have to rely on states going through it by the courts if anything, as I can never see the legislature ever doing such a thing.

Meh oh well, as long as such amendment like this NEVER pass I don't have to worry about things. Someday I do hope to be able to get married, have a child, and have one happy family without having to go to another country or state just to do it. One can hope and pray. :p
 

DarienA

The black man everyone at Activision can agree on
As others have explained it still wasn't really that close a vote... there were quite a few more hurdles to overcome...
 
"It does not affect your daily life very much if your neighbor marries a box turtle. But that does not mean it is right. . . . Now you must raise your children up in a world where that union of man and box turtle is on the same legal footing as man and wife."

This was supposed to be part of a speech that Sen. John Cornyn was giving to the Heritage Foundation. According to his spokesperson he didn't use it. The Washington Post reported that he said it because it was in the prepared script handed out to the press. Draw your ovwn conclusion about journalistic integrity -- but -- more importantly, if a weird looking dude flashing a Box Cutter moves in next door with a Box Turtle, remove your children from the street and call Tom Ridge or Brian Fellows. Boom Boxes and Kick-Boxing are also suspect as they attract unsavories.
 

Grizzlyjin

Supersonic, idiotic, disconnecting, not respecting, who would really ever wanna go and top that
DarienA said:
As others have explained it still wasn't really that close a vote... there were quite a few more hurdles to overcome...

Well I mean close in terms that it is kinda split both ways, I know you need a majotiry for it to actually pass. But I just didn't expect so many people to be in support of such a thing.
 

DarienA

The black man everyone at Activision can agree on
Grizzlyjin said:
Well I mean close in terms that it is kinda split both ways, I know you need a majotiry for it to actually pass. But I just didn't expect so many people to be in support of such a thing.

I hear ya... I feel similar way about the upcoming election in that I can't believe most polls show Bush still has so much support...

Mermandala said:
Draw your ovwn conclusion about journalistic integrity -- but -- more importantly, if a weird looking dude flashing a Box Cutter moves in next door with a Box Turtle, remove your children from the street and call Tom Ridge or Brian Fellows. Boom Boxes and Kick-Boxing are also suspect as they attract unsavories.

No references to the evils of rap music in that speech? No wait you did say boom boxes... close enough. ;)
 

Ecrofirt

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Ecrofirt

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Dickweeds like my father, who stands behind civil unions, but is completely against gay marriage, because of his religious beliefs.

edit: I'm a registered Republican as well, but there are some things I just can't stand for, and assholes who try to impose things like that piss me off.
 

Ecrofirt

Member
DarthWufei said:
That gave me quite the chuckle. Ir's amazing how many homosexual related terms are used as derogatory remarks.

It's very weird when you've got several homosexual friends, and homosexual terms have always been used in a derogatory manner. It's something I'm worknig to overcome, especially when one of them is being an ass and I've always said something like "You're being queer.".
 
"Originally Posted by Ecrofirt:
I hate that goddamn cocksucker, and he's from my state.



That gave me quite the chuckle. Ir's amazing how many homosexual related terms are used as derogatory remarks."


well, to be fair, women do that too.:)

I think there are just as many derogatory words connected to women as there are to gays actually.
 
Prospero said:
I recommend taking some time to read the transcripts of the debate on the matter at thomas.loc.gov. (No direct link, because links don't seem to last there for more than a couple of hours for some reason.) Check the Senate transcript from July 9 to yesterday.

There's one point during the debate where Sen. Orrin Hatch takes a detour, seemingly to talk about the evils of Harry Potter slash fiction, that's most entertaining.
Took a bit to find, but:
This is an age where any child can bring up pornography on the Internet. At one time if you clicked on Harry Potter, you would get pornography geared to those children. We all know that. Click on almost any children's book or subject or title or person mentioned in a children's book and you get pornography for children. I don't need to go through all the other ills of our society to let everybody know that we are living in a world where there is a lot of filth, a lot of degradation. We have to stand up against it. We have to protect the traditions that do make sense in our society, and traditional marriage is at the top of the list.
 
Ecrofirt said:
It's very weird when you've got several homosexual friends, and homosexual terms have always been used in a derogatory manner. It's something I'm worknig to overcome, especially when one of them is being an ass and I've always said something like "You're being queer.".

Haha, it's fine, I usually use them myself if we're just kidding around, but I never enjoy them when they're used seriously for obvious reasons.

Mega Man's Electric Sheep said:
well, to be fair, women do that too.

I think there are just as many derogatory words connected to women as there are to gays actually.

Well that sure says a lot about heterosexual males! :p
 

Hitokage

Setec Astronomer
Pimpwerx said:
Sad Kerry and Edwards don't have the sack to stand up for a just cause. Abstaining is as bad as voting yes. It means you're too much of a coward to defend something you believe in. Reason #1001 I won't vote for Kerry. Spineless leaders = teh suck. Nader may not be popular, but at least I kinda know where he stands on the big issues. PEACE.
Sorry to rain on your parade, but as others have said, this was not a majority vote. Any action that wasn't a "yes" vote counted against it. I think both Kerry and Edwards knew this and decided they could take a day off doing campaign stuff. :p
 
"Well that sure says a lot about heterosexual males! :p"

yeah, the only words i know degrading heterosexual males are redneck connected slurs. Funny how heterosexual males are above critique, but everyone else is flawed and must be ridiculed.:)
 

Phoenix

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This whole thing was politics folks. Noone expected this to make it through Congress. Republicans wanted to make it an election issue and expected democrats to vote it down so it would be a campaign point.
 

Pimpwerx

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Sorry to rain on your parade, but as others have said, this was not a majority vote. Any action that wasn't a "yes" vote counted against it. I think both Kerry and Edwards knew this and decided they could take a day off doing campaign stuff. :p

Yeah, I think someone else explained that. But I'm still annoyed that they are too scared to declare an opinion one way or another. As someone else called them, Waffle and Grits. Not a spine between them, although I'll give Edwards some credit for defending the Confederate flag during the debates, as much as I disagree with it. He at least presented a defense of an unpopular opinion, and without coming off as pompous or douchebaggy. But IMO, politicians should believe in something. It doesn't forgo being pragmatic, but at least grow a pair, even if it's unpopular. I'm assuming both Kerry and Edwards would have voted "No" if given the choice, but decided not to upset the conservative members of their base. PEACE.
 
JoshuaJSlone said:
Took a bit to find, but:
This is an age where any child can bring up pornography on the Internet. At one time if you clicked on Harry Potter, you would get pornography geared to those children. We all know that. Click on almost any children's book or subject or title or person mentioned in a children's book and you get pornography for children. I don't need to go through all the other ills of our society to let everybody know that we are living in a world where there is a lot of filth, a lot of degradation. We have to stand up against it. We have to protect the traditions that do make sense in our society, and traditional marriage is at the top of the list.

What the hell Internet is he on? And why don't I have access to it?
 

xsarien

daedsiluap
Lathentar said:
According to CNN, Kerry would have voted Yes for this Ammendment.

http://www.cnn.com/ELECTION/2004/special/president/issues/index.kerry.new.html

Actually, he would've voted "No." Not that this was a vote on the actual amendment, but essentially a vote on whether to just drop the fucking topic all together before it even got as far as an actual vote on the bill.

Kerry's firm in his stance that it remain a state issue, and it's people like Rick Santorum that make me weep for this country.
 

MaddenNFL64

Member
Cheney's daughter is gay, not Kerry's. Although maybe she is, who knows.

And this was for a constitutional ban on gay marriage. Kerry is not for that. State issue.
 

Phoenix

Member
The US code already establishes that any law passed down by Congress with respect to marriage defines marriage as something between one man and one woman. I always get a laught out of this because I wonder if any of the politicians know enough about the US code to know that this is a dead issue already.

-CITE-
1 USC Sec. 7
-EXPCITE-
TITLE 1 - GENERAL PROVISIONS
CHAPTER 1 - RULES OF CONSTRUCTION

-HEAD-
Sec. 7. Definition of ''marriage'' and ''spouse''

-STATUTE-
In determining the meaning of any Act of Congress, or of any
ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various administrative
bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word ''marriage''
means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband
and wife
, and the word ''spouse'' refers only to a person of the
opposite sex
who is a husband or a wife.

-SOURCE-
(Added Pub. L. 104-199, Sec. 3(a), Sept. 21, 1996, 110 Stat. 2419.)

This is all one large issue intent on spliting the vote and taking the people against 'gay marriage' and siding them with Bush. This is all one big game of chicken with the hearts and minds of the public, and just like with the war on Iraq people are believing what they are being fed from all sides.

I have seen this issue take people who absolutely hate Bush consider voting for him because they don't want to allow 'gay marriage'.

YOU ARE BEING USED PEOPLE
 
Phoenix said:
The US code already establishes that any law passed down by Congress with respect to marriage defines marriage as something between one man and one woman. I always get a laught out of this because I wonder if any of the politicians know enough about the US code to know that this is a dead issue already.
Of course I'm no expert on these things, but that quote seems to be concerning laws of the Congress and federal government only, whereas an amendment to the Constitution could overrule the decisions of states.

This is all one large issue intent on spliting the vote and taking the people against 'gay marriage' and siding them with Bush. This is all one big game of chicken with the hearts and minds of the public, and just like with the war on Iraq people are believing what they are being fed from all sides.

I have seen this issue take people who absolutely hate Bush consider voting for him because they don't want to allow 'gay marriage'.
This I agree with.
 

sc0la

Unconfirmed Member
Phoenix said:
I have seen this issue take people who absolutely hate Bush consider voting for him because they don't want to allow 'gay marriage'.

YOU ARE BEING USED PEOPLE
I always foundit weird how people can formulate whether or not they support a candidate fully based on one issue. =/
 
Santorum, Frist, Cheney and the like make me want to puke. I just found out this week that one of my friends went to the University of Illinois with Frist's gay nephew. Going along with Cheney's daughter, it blows (no pun intended) my mind that these rich old white men want to legalize bigotry that affects their own families.
 
1) I've heard it said that this election is going to be a referendum on gay marriage. It's tough to disagree with.

2) What's so wrong with having a vote on the Senate floor to get elected representatives on the record about their views on a hot-button political issue? Seems to me that's good for democracy.

3) W&G didn't vote. A vote for yes? A vote for no? Neither, actually. Kerry's position is that he's for civil unions, against gay marriage. If he voted No on this, there would be all sorts of ads saying "JOHN KERRY VOTED AGAINST AN AMENDMENT THAT WOULD HAVE DEFINED MARRIAGE AS BEING BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN. DUN DUN DUUUUN." If he voted Yes, the world would explode.
 

Phoenix

Member
JoshuaJSlone said:
Of course I'm no expert on these things, but that quote seems to be concerning laws of the Congress and federal government only, whereas an amendment to the Constitution could overrule the decisions of states.

That is correct. An amendment to the constitution would require that all states conform to it. Any power not delegated to the federal government through the constitution becomes the juris of the states, until you start dealing with things like marriage which have both a state and federal component at which point federal juris trumps state juris. Without the amendment these issues would end up being resolved in federal court for several reasons, the more obvious one being taxation at the federal level. This would require (though through litigation) that the states fall in line because that is a federal juris area (the protection of the rights of the citizen) and since the federal courts already have a definition... this would be a long trip back to where we started from to begin with. Same as the 10 commandments in government buildings. The law quickly becomes a federal issue and not a state one.
 
Kobun Heat said:
1) I've heard it said that this election is going to be a referendum on gay marriage. It's tough to disagree with.
I usually hear it as something like "referendum on our foreign policy".
 
Now there's a bill in the House that would prevent most gay marriage cases from reaching the federal courts. Yeah, that'll work.
http://abcnews.go.com/wire/Politics/ap20040715_90.html

Kobun, most poll that I've seen show voters ranking gay marriage dead last on the list of issues they consider important. Care to explain your point?

Ripclawe - I'm amused that you're calling some senators "Republicans In Name Only" just because they opposed the FMA. About a year ago, the New York Times Magazine ran an editorial about the conservative movement on college campuses. Well, guess what? Most of these groups actually have made statements supporting gay marriage. Sadly, although it will take some time, it appears that the future of the Republican Party does not include gay-bashing.
 
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