D.Lo
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You'd have to ask the parents, it is possible they're assuming that based on skin colours.So here's the question, then: what about the community makes you think it's all about test scores and no life balance?
But some posts in this thread speak of experiences stating asian or immigrant parents are at least more likely to make it more about test scores, for example:
I was a (white) personal tutor in Markham, Ontario for 2 years.
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In my 2 years, I tutored dozens of children of all nationalities. With one exception, white parents only hired a tutor when their kid was flunking or close to it. The majority of my Asian students were already C+ to A students before I came into the picture.
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A lot of Asian parents take a proactive stance in their child's education because they know what's required to hit their kid's academic potential (the fact that they can push academics too forcefully is another matter). White parents who want their kids to hit the same performance marks need to take the same steps.
immigrants focus way less on sports/fun and more into academics and "other things that make you look smart" i.e. piano/violin, model UN, hospital volunteer etc.
The core problem is however definitely the American school system and college system being terrible, forcing these realities onto people.