Please break down the entirety of Abby's 'big black fruit' joke, and how it absolutely hinges on the racist undertones of 'big black cock'.
Oh, wait -- you can't because it doesn't. It was a lazy pun based off
Pornhub's 4th most popular search terms by females. (Link to Esquire article that contains NSFW images/text).
If it's wrong to joke about Pornhub's fourth most common female search, I don't wanna be right!.
If you insist...the joke uses being into Big Black Fruit to reference being into Big Black Cock porn. We'll stop here and just say that simply saying Big Black Fruit is not a joke. You HAVE to know about Big Black Cock for the joke to land. Now if she had just said Big Black Cock for whatever reason, the joke might be simply the shock value of saying cock as sometimes the dirty language is the joke. However, in this case, she's simply referencing it so the language isn't the joke.
The joke is that she is using a Big Black Fruit as an oblique reference to being into Big Black Cock porn which has racist undertones. The joke does not rely on the racism of BBC porn nor did anyone say that so kinda...what?
What the joke does do though is rely on you thinking about a fetishistic type of porn that as Ashby pointed out has racist undertones. It makes you think of black men as a weird fetish rather than just a group of possible partners.
And this is not uncommon in porn, Japanese porn the other side's number 4 relies on a lot of tropey ideas about Japanese women and how they have sex and who they are as people. US porn has similar ideas about an Asian woman.
And higher ranked porn like stepporn and milf porn certainly fetishize family members and older women. All porn relies on fetishisization somewhat but BBC porn is especially heinous because it relies a lot on stuff like white girls going out to cheat with a black man because they have huge dicks and their man can't satisfy them the way you can, blah blah blah. It presents them as the side action from unfaithful white women instead of valid partners. Not all but a lot.
My point is being highly ranked on pornhub doesn't make your porn good or right. I don't know why you would think that or present it as good counterpoint.
It's fine to be into it but it's also fine to criticize it or jokes about it. Part of putting stuff out there is that sometimes you get a response.