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[Solideliquid]

Need help with this girl. So we've gone on two dates to downtown ATL. Things have gone very well on both dates. We have been testing almost daily. Last date was two days ago. She text me the day after the date, but nothing yesterday.

Nothing yesterday and nothing today so far. I know she isn't working today or yesterday. I'm worried about texting her. Should I today?

Sorry iPhone post.

 

[Mr.Squirrel]

That's just it, it's much easier to front on a message board than any other medium. People in this thread are looking to you for advice and all you're doing is being wishy-washy about breaking some girls heart.

I haven't seriously participated in this thread since 3/4 of the way through the last thread :lol. Like I said, no one in their right mind would pick neogaf to try to gain some internet rep. NO ONE. Maybe if I wanted to become a game-dev, but for props for telling some of the most socially awkward dudes I've seen congregated online? Naw son.

Dude, you drop into this thread to make vague posts. You seem pretty clueless but go around trying to offer out advice that most people really don't need to hear. Go ahead, but don't act suprised that some people, including myself, don't like you.

I'm not clueless that some of you guys don't like me, I just honestly don't give a fuck :lol. Whether you guys take my advice, anybody else's advice, become GQs pimp of the year, or die virgins in your parents basement doesn't affect my life at all. I make vague posts in this thread because as I said, I stopped paying attention to this thread since before the last thread ended.

Why are we expending time and energy talking about bdizzle? Let the dude post the way he wants. I don't think anyone's going to take "whip it out" as serious advice anyway. Besides, do you honestly think he's lying about sexual conquests on a message board to boost his ego?

Here's my rule for the internet: everyone is telling the truth, because it makes no goddamn difference in my life whether they really are or not.

I'm not going to stick up for the guy as a source of serious dating/relationship/sex advice, but he's a personality around here and good for a chuckle, whether you're laughing with him or at him. The fact that he named himself bdizzle to begin with says it all really.

It's funny you said that because I did the whip it out a few months back and it still works. I keep telling you guys to actually give it a try before you say it doesn't work :lol. I don't take gaf seriously, no one should. It's a fuckin message board b.

 

[Mr.Squirrel]

Need help with this girl. So we've gone on two dates to downtown ATL. Things have gone very well on both dates. We have been testing almost daily. Last date was two days ago. She text me the day after the date, but nothing yesterday.

Nothing yesterday and nothing today so far. I know she isn't working today or yesterday. I'm worried about texting her. Should I today?

Sorry iPhone post.

Please don't tell me you're traveling from another city/state to Atlanta for a girl?

 

[Solideliquid]

I live here..

Oh and I can see why some gaffers are upset with you. Do you see how you made this post and it's not necessarily relevant to my situation?

 

[milanbaros]

Bdizzle, we get your act already. You're a pimp and no man should act like a bitch. Great advice. If you aren't paying any attention to the thread then why are you posting?

 

[Timedog]

Whether or not you think I'm being dishonest about it, I have no way to come up with such a list on my own. For example, now that "hard working" has been mentioned, I can say that I believe it's a positive trait (although it's not one I would normally associate with this sort of thing). But it isn't something I could have come up with on my own in this context.

I'm not claiming to have Aspergers syndrome or anything like that, but part of the reason I am in therapy is that I have great difficulty coming up with or responding to new situations or new ideas in social contexts. So, it's not that I'm saying I can't because I don't want to or I'm too lazy or I'm just plain lying, I'm saying I can't because I literally cannot guess how to do it.

I'm sorry, but unless you are mentally insane (you obviously arent!) you can come up with traits that you think are positive. You have met or seen people you like, and people you didn't like. They had different traits that you liked or didn't like. It's your method of thinking that you have crafted for yourself that is dishonest.

 

[The Elite]

Your hand.

I did it with my GF while I was away.


Seriously, there's something about seeing live dripping wet vagina and knowing you cannot get it. It's a huge tease but it's hot as fuck.

Yup, I know what you mean, every time I look at porno.

 

[Bam Bam Baklava]

Yup, I know what you mean, every time I look at porno.

That's not the kind of talk I would expect from the man with the title of BOSS.

 

[The Elite]

That's not the kind of talk I would expect from the man with the title of BOSS.

It's lonely at the top.

 

[ggnoobIGN]

Yup, I know what you mean, every time I look at porno.

Hey, I watch a shit ton of porn too.:lol

But idk, seeing my girl do it and telling her what to do was an amazing experience.

 

[Slo]

Whether or not you think I'm being dishonest about it, I have no way to come up with such a list on my own. For example, now that "hard working" has been mentioned, I can say that I believe it's a positive trait (although it's not one I would normally associate with this sort of thing). But it isn't something I could have come up with on my own in this context.

I'm not claiming to have Aspergers syndrome or anything like that, but part of the reason I am in therapy is that I have great difficulty coming up with or responding to new situations or new ideas in social contexts. So, it's not that I'm saying I can't because I don't want to or I'm too lazy or I'm just plain lying, I'm saying I can't because I literally cannot guess how to do it.

I think you're tripping yourself up on purpose. You need to sell yourself like you're selling a car. You need to take every "fact" about yourself and look at it in a positive light, not in a negative light.

BAD:

For sale, 1994 Honda Civic. It's been a good car I guess. I've had it for what seems like forever. I basically drove it into the ground. It doesn't look all that bad, considering it's so old. It's not rusting out at least. Ever since I put new tires on it it's stopped shaking so badly on the highway, and it starts most of the time again now that I put in a new battery. You probably don't want this car if you want something flashy, fast or cool looking, but it'd be okay if you just need a junker car to beat to death. I'd like to get $2000 for it but since nobody will probably want to pay that much, I'll take less.

GOOD:

For sale: 1994 Honda Civic. One owner, super reliable! Great daily driver. Clean and very little rust. Brand new tires and a brand new battery! Great starter car or second car! $2000 OBO.

Notice how those two say exactly the same thing, and they are both completely honest when describing the same car.

 

[GiJoccin]

Bdizzle, we get your act already. You're a pimp and no man should act like a bitch. Great advice. If you aren't paying any attention to the thread then why are you posting?

I don't get the big deal... he's just blustering/being honest. I think it's funny, I don't find it annoying at all. Ignore what he says if it's that big of a deal.

 

[SmokeMaxX]

bdizzle's fine. Stop throwing a hissy fit. He sometimes has strange advice, but he livens up the place and a lot of what he says is true. Man up GAF.

Also, low self-esteem GAF- think of all the negative things you AREN'T. Are those not positive traits? Are you guys murderers, thieves (sans bdizzle), rapists, etc.? Well there's a positive right there. You can make a huge list of these.

Think of all the negatives you ARE. How many of them can you not change? Mark those off the list. I'm probably one of the shortest guys on GAF, but shit I don't let that phase me 'cuz I can't change it.

 

[Jamesfrom818]

bdizzle's fine. Stop throwing a hissy fit. He sometimes has strange advice, but he livens up the place and a lot of what he says is true. Man up GAF.

Also, low self-esteem GAF- think of all the negative things you AREN'T. Are those not positive traits? Are you guys murderers, thieves (sans bdizzle), rapists, etc.? Well there's a positive right there. You can make a huge list of these.

Think of all the negatives you ARE. How many of them can you not change? Mark those off the list. I'm probably one of the shortest guys on GAF, but shit I don't let that phase me 'cuz I can't change it.

Remember this low self-esteem GAF....You were born a winner and you come from a long line of winners. You are the result of the fastest and strongest sperm that swam through your mom's uterus and possibly fallopian tubes.

 

[SmokeMaxX]

Remember this low self-esteem GAF....You were born a winner and you come from a long line of winners. You are the result of the fastest and strongest sperm that swam through your mom's uterus and possibly fallopian tubes.

:lol :lol
James knows what's up.

 

[whitehawk]

Hold me GAF, hold me

Me and my girlfriend just broke up... I kind of saw it coming, but it hurt so so much to hear it. I felt as if we got together perfectly, but the relationship moved too slowly. We both felt the same thing, but she's more open and is the one always to bring these things up, including breaking up. But fuck, this isn't any normal girl. She's beautiful (she's a model), she's an amazing singer, she's kind, she's supportive and everything about her is amazing. But due to many things, such as my inexperience, her busy schedule (she worked Fridays and Saturdays, so it's hard when we are both high school students), it just didn't work out. We talked for about an hour talking about how it didn't work, just being open about things. Then, was the really hard part. We ate a small dinner, and during so we were chatting it up, laughing and entertaining each other. Just made me realize how much more I'm going to miss this. I held it up pretty well while she was here, but as soon as we hugged and she left, I broke down crying. This was about 15 minutes ago.

Fuck GAF, I am so fucking depressed right now.

 

[whitehawk]

FUCK i am freaking out, I can't do this. I cant

 

[Relix]

*pats Whitehawk in the back*

Take it easy man. Take it easy. I think most of us in this thread have gone through this at one moment. Just don't do anything stupid, it'll pass. I know your mind is chaotic right now so I am not gonna suggest anything but: Be Strong.

 

[whitehawk]

I know. It's so easy being on the other end of the stick, telling your friends everything will be okay and you will get over it. And I've dealt with breakups before, but those relationships lasted a month, or even less, so I got over it very easily. However this girl is AMAZING, and we were together for almost 5 months. This is so hard. I'm thinking of what I tell my friends in this situation, but It's not helping.

 

[MetalGuardian]

FUCK i am freaking out, I can't do this. I cant

Man, you'll get through this. Really, you will. I'm sure the vast majority (probably even all) of the guys in this thread who have actually been romantically involved with women in life have experienced the crushing agony of a broken heart. It's part of the territory, and it's part of the learning experience. I've been there, and it is hellish. At the same time, so long as we don't succumb to irrational behaviors during rough times we end up learning and growing and being better off because of it

You have the added bonus of still only being in high school. While I'm in no way trying to discredit your pain due to your age, I'm sure in a few years you will look back and realize what a fucking joke high school relationships are. You seem intelligent and articulate, and I believe you when you say you had a genuinely good connection with this girl. But it is impossible to anticipate and understand just how different of a person you will be in several years time.

So, take a few days (or weeks, however long you need) to get all the shitty feelings out. Grieve over it, be sad about it. But don't fucking waste it. Instead of letting this spiral into something counterproductive, take all of the knowledge you gained from the ordeal and actually apply it to your life from this point forward. If you can do this, I guarantee you will be thanking yourself in five years looking back on the situation, and for all the pain you'll end up considering yourself lucky for going through it due to what you ended up gaining

Good luck buddy

 

[sphagnum]

This probably won't help very much, but you should at least take pride in the fact that you got to date an amazing girl for five months, which is more than some of us can say for ourselves. I wish I'd had the courage to even ask out a girl when I was in high school. So you've already got more experience than me, and I'm almost out of college. Just remember that there's always someone worse off than you. :lol

 

[whitehawk]

Ah, the old better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.

This true.... But it still doesn't help.

 

[Mr.City]

I think my ex wants to be friend with benefits. Funny how these things go.

However, there has been a new development. I've found that I'm not concerned about getting women right now. I have been concerned about my career and my personality, so women just don't seem important in comparison.

 

[disappeared]

I think my ex wants to be friend with benefits. Funny how these things go.

However, there has been a new development. I've found that I'm not concerned about getting women right now. I have been concerned about my career and my personality, so women just don't seem important in comparison.

That's kind of where I'm at. Finally, at 25, I've discovered my love of carpentry and want to spend my life getting so fucking good at it. Women right now are kind of seeming like second fiddle. Granted, I seem to be loosely engaged with a girl at the moment, but it's been days since we talked and it's starting to phase me less and less with each passing day. It's kind of a liberating feeling, almost. At the same time I know I won't be getting laid anytime soon (but 2010 was pussy heaven for me so I guess you take the good with the bad).

 

[Xun]

I keep getting the same people coming onto my profile on OkCupid without messaging myself, is that generally a good sign?

Also how exactly would I go about messaging people? Obviously short and sweet and include something from their profiles but I'm new to this! :lol

 

[_Alkaline_]

Whitehawk, I'm going to say just this.

You dated a model, you're a sexy beast, and you can only go up from here.

Chin up mate.

 

[Sn4ke_911]

@whitehawk

How to Get Over a Break Up

 

[The Elite]

Ah, the old better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.

This true.... But it still doesn't help.

It's over? You seemed so happy. I was under the assumption things were going well. Oh well, better luck next time.

I keep getting the same people coming onto my profile on OkCupid without messaging people, is that generally a good sign?

Not entirely sure how I'd message them to be honest! :lol

Man up. You should be messaging them.

 

[TurboLibre]

Hold me GAF, hold me

Me and my girlfriend just broke up...

Fuck GAF, I am so fucking depressed right now.

 

[JB1981]

Would you guys go back out with an ex if you weren't sure what the long-term prospects fo the relationship were. Like, ya know, just to see "how things go"?

 

[duk]

we shud compile man law's for dating...

rule #1: never give a girl what she wants most, attention

 

[dskillzhtown]

Would you guys go back out with an ex if you weren't sure what the long-term prospects fo the relationship were. Like, ya know, just to see "how things go"?

In 95% of the cases, no. Don't look back. You broke up for a reason and that reason is still there no matter how you try to ignore it.

5% of the time that issue was temporary or was simply a misunderstanding. That makes it easier to get that loving feeling back.

I say move on and find someone else.

 

[dskillzhtown]

we shud compile man law's for dating...

rule #1: never give a girl what she wants most, attention

So how does one date a girl and not give her attention?

 

[TurboLibre]

we shud compile man law's for dating...

rule #1: never give a girl what she wants most, attention

How do you not give them attention when it's expected for the guy to initiate every move in the relationship? Weren't we just talking the other day about how women will assume you don't like them and leave if you're not making it painfully obvious you're interested?

 

[The Elite]

How do you not give them attention when it's expected for the guy to initiate every move in the relationship? Weren't we just talking the other day about how women will assume you don't like them and leave if you're not making it painfully obvious you're interested?

And this is why most of us don't know what the fuck to do. Completely mixed messages.

 

[duk]

How do you not give them attention when it's expected for the guy to initiate every move in the relationship? Weren't we just talking the other day about how women will assume you don't like them and leave if you're not making it painfully obvious you're interested?

you give attention in small controlled doses, im not saying u dont give it to them at all. u should act interested when you meet them, but not overly so. keep em guessing.

 

[Burai]

Would you guys go back out with an ex if you weren't sure what the long-term prospects fo the relationship were. Like, ya know, just to see "how things go"?

It depends. Is the reason for splitting in the first place now completely resolved and unlikely to ever occur again?

If yes, then maybe give it another shot.

If not, HELLS NO.

 

[whitehawk]

It depends. Is the reason for splitting in the first place now completely resolved and unlikely to ever occur again?

If yes, then maybe give it another shot.

If not, HELLS NO.

Well, we both wanted it to work, we really did. But she was always so busy (she works Fridays and Saturdays until 1am, which is hard when we are both in high school), which made it really hard to stpend time with her and become closer with her, and also I'm still really inexperienced, so there are things I should have done which I didn't. We got along so great, liked each other, and both wanted it to work, but we both felt the relationship was moving so slowly, and she was the one to have to bring it up and end it.

She also really confuses me. While we were breaking up, she says things like 'you never know what can happen in the future. It may not be working right now, but we could re-connect sometime in the future and things could happen again, you never know'. She also mentioned later on that she has so many unwatched movies and I should come over sometime and watch some.

Makes me so confused Although one thing I sort of appreciate; my birthday is on monday, and she told me she's still bought me a birthday present she wants to give to me. I thought that was nice.... Although at the same time she broke up with me 6 days before my birthday...


Anyway, this is the post-break up whitehawk talking who is in denial. The logical side of me is saying do things and keep busy to keep your mind off of it, and try not to look back.

 

[TurboLibre]

you give attention in small controlled doses, im not saying u dont give it to them at all. u should act interested when you meet them, but not overly so. keep em guessing.

Why keep them guessing? So they can continue to never make any advances?

And this is why most of us don't know what the fuck to do. Completely mixed messages.

It's why I'm starting to think nobody knows what they're talking about and the route this thread has taken is only hurting those who have problems entering the dating game. There are too many rules for too many things when the reality is, everyone is different. Guys constantly argue over what they value in a woman. We have no united preference in women or dating, so why are we pretending women do? I firmly believe the only advice should be "go out there and fail until you learn" with some self help encouragement to get people to that point, because saying "This method is guaranteed to pick up chicks" is almost always BS. Sure it could have worked for you that one time, or maybe you pull it off well so it works often, but that's essentially meaningless for everyone but you.

Sorry to sort of crap on this thread, but stuff like this just makes me frustrated.

 

[The Elite]

Well, we both wanted it to work, we really did. But she was always so busy (she works Fridays and Saturdays until 1am, which is hard when we are both in high school), which made it really hard to stpend time with her and become closer with her, and also I'm still really inexperienced, so there are things I should have done which I didn't. We got along so great, liked each other, and both wanted it to work, but we both felt the relationship was moving so slowly, and she was the one to have to bring it up and end it.

She also really confuses me. While we were breaking up, she says things like 'you never know what can happen in the future. It may not be working right now, but we could re-connect sometime in the future and things could happen again, you never know'. She also mentioned later on that she has so many unwatched movies and I should come over sometime and watch some.

Makes me so confused Although one thing I sort of appreciate; my birthday is on monday, and she told me she's still bought me a birthday present she wants to give to me. I thought that was nice.... Although at the same time she broke up with me 6 days before my birthday...


Anyway, this is the post-break up whitehawk talking who is in denial. The logical side of me is saying do things and keep busy to keep your mind off of it, and try not to look back.

I had a girl tell me never to break up with her a week before she broke up with me.

*shrugs*

 

[vitaminwateryum]

Met a girl in NC over christmas break, had a great time while I was up there and haven't really talked to her since. She added me on facebook today out of the blue and sent me a message asking if I had skype or anything like that. What's the best way to make something positive out of this?

 

[The Elite]

Met a girl in NC over christmas break, had a great time while I was up there and haven't really talked to her since. She added me on facebook today out of the blue and sent me a message asking if I had skype or anything like that. What's the best way to make something positive out of this?

See that ggnoobIGN guys post in the last couple of pages. You'll get the idea.

 

[OmegaRed]

Could you guys lend me some advice?

This girl I'm dating is just all sorts of crazy.

For example, she'll say something like "oh I'm cold" and I'll be like "come over so I can warm you up." Then she'll go into a rant saying "oh you won't do anything anyway." and blah blah blah. To be honest, it's really starting to get on my nerves. She'll say I don't want her and I'm not affectionate. Yet on the other hand, she tells me how she's done having sex because of how promiscuous she used to be. There was even one incident where she told me she used a vibrator because she "knew" I wasn't going to do anything about it.

To be honest, I'm at the point where I'm about to lose my mind and call it quits.

And the sex part is crazy, we've been dating for 6 months. We've had no type of intimacy whatsoever. But she feels the need to tell me about her past sex life and tell me she's had over 15 sex partners.

Honestly, I'm about to bail out. I feel like she's playing games at this point.

 

[JB1981]

It depends. Is the reason for splitting in the first place now completely resolved and unlikely to ever occur again?

If yes, then maybe give it another shot.

If not, HELLS NO.

No they are not resolved but she says that I should give her a chance to fix them. It's a long story. She had a kid with another man. I feel she is still too involved with him. Fuck, I just went to our old apartment (which I moved out of) unannounced the other day to see her. She let me in and there were pictures of her and her ex all over the apartment. There was even a family portrait of all three of them hanging in the living room!! It was the first thing I noticed when I walked in and it was all I talked about when I got there. She said she is no longer with me anymore, she can put up whatever pictures she wants and they are for the baby anyway. They are so the baby can look at the pictures and say "mommy ... daddy." Yo, GAF, there is somethign seriously wrong with me that I still believe what comes out of this girls mouth. I think I need my head examined.

 

[vitaminwateryum]

See that ggnoobIGN guys post in the last couple of pages. You'll get the idea.

Well that'd be great. Except what he was talking about would be like step E. Having never been in a long distance relationship or anything like that, some advice as how to go from step A to step B first would be appreciated.

Could you guys lend me some advice?

This girl I'm dating is just all sorts of crazy.

For example, she'll say something like "oh I'm cold" and I'll be like "come over so I can warm you up." Then she'll go into a rant saying "oh you won't do anything anyway." and blah blah blah. To be honest, it's really starting to get on my nerves. She'll say I don't want her and I'm not affectionate. Yet on the other hand, she tells me how she's done having sex because of how promiscuous she used to be. There was even one incident where she told me she used a vibrator because she "knew" I wasn't going to do anything about it.

To be honest, I'm at the point where I'm about to lose my mind and call it quits.

And the sex part is crazy, we've been dating for 6 months. We've had no type of intimacy whatsoever. But she feels the need to tell me about her past sex life and tell me she's had over 15 sex partners.

Honestly, I'm about to bail out. I feel like she's playing games at this point.

Does she shit gold or something? I don't see why you would stay with someone like that.

 

[Neki]

Could you guys lend me some advice?

This girl I'm dating is just all sorts of crazy.

For example, she'll say something like "oh I'm cold" and I'll be like "come over so I can warm you up." Then she'll go into a rant saying "oh you won't do anything anyway." and blah blah blah. To be honest, it's really starting to get on my nerves. She'll say I don't want her and I'm not affectionate. Yet on the other hand, she tells me how she's done having sex because of how promiscuous she used to be. There was even one incident where she told me she used a vibrator because she "knew" I wasn't going to do anything about it.

To be honest, I'm at the point where I'm about to lose my mind and call it quits.

And the sex part is crazy, we've been dating for 6 months. We've had no type of intimacy whatsoever. But she feels the need to tell me about her past sex life and tell me she's had over 15 sex partners.

Honestly, I'm about to bail out. I feel like she's playing games at this point.

So to clarify, has there been any physical interaction for the past 6 months? If not, then get out of the relationship. If there has been, get out of the relationship.

 

[dskillzhtown]

No they are not resolved but she says that I should give her a chance to fix them. It's a long story. She had a kid with another man. I feel she is still too involved with him. Fuck, I just went to our old apartment (which I moved out of) unannounced the other day to see her. She let me in and there were pictures of her and her ex all over the apartment. There was even a family portrait of all three of them hanging in the living room!! It was the first thing I noticed when I walked in and it was all I talked about when I got there. She said she is no longer with me anymore, she can put up whatever pictures she wants and they are for the baby anyway. They are so the baby can look at the pictures and say "mommy ... daddy." Yo, GAF, there is somethign seriously wrong with me that I still believe what comes out of this girls mouth. I think I need my head examined.

Wait. You are trying to get back with a girl who has pics of another man up all over your old apartment? She tells you that she can have any pictures she wants up, but you STILL want to get back with her? Dude...dude...dude!!! There are other women out there without all this drama.

 

[JimiNutz]

It's why I'm starting to think nobody knows what they're talking about and the route this thread has taken is only hurting those who have problems entering the dating game. There are too many rules for too many things when the reality is, everyone is different. Guys constantly argue over what they value in a woman. We have no united preference in women or dating, so why are we pretending women do? I firmly believe the only advice should be "go out there and fail until you learn" with some self help encouragement to get people to that point, because saying "This method is guaranteed to pick up chicks" is almost always BS. Sure it could have worked for you that one time, or maybe you pull it off well so it works often, but that's essentially meaningless for everyone but you.

Sorry to sort of crap on this thread, but stuff like this just makes me frustrated.

Of course there are no absolute, no fail rules, we are dealing with people here not numbers.
People are so complex and there are so many variables that it is not possible to say, "all girls want this", or "say this to get the girl" etc.

That isn't to say that there aren't general guidelines/techniques that may work/help on/with the majority, or a large percentage of people.

Part of the reason why it's so hard to give advice on the internet about relationships is because we don't know the people involved.
People can describe them, and we can try and place them in some kind of category or archetype, but that is often a severely flawed/inaccurate method.

I still think it's interesting to hear other peoples opinions/experiences, and then use that to make up your own mind - you just need to always remember that these aren't definitive rules that will work every time (such a thing doesn't really exist).
You should never take what you read in here as gospel, you listen to what others say, hear their experiences and make up your own mind...

The best advise is simply to get out there as much as possible, put your neck on the line, and succeed/fail.
Through your own successes and failures you will learn what does/doesn't work for you and what you do/don't want in a partner.

Could you guys lend me some advice?

This girl I'm dating is just all sorts of crazy.

For example, she'll say something like "oh I'm cold" and I'll be like "come over so I can warm you up." Then she'll go into a rant saying "oh you won't do anything anyway." and blah blah blah. To be honest, it's really starting to get on my nerves. She'll say I don't want her and I'm not affectionate. Yet on the other hand, she tells me how she's done having sex because of how promiscuous she used to be. There was even one incident where she told me she used a vibrator because she "knew" I wasn't going to do anything about it.

To be honest, I'm at the point where I'm about to lose my mind and call it quits.

And the sex part is crazy, we've been dating for 6 months. We've had no type of intimacy whatsoever. But she feels the need to tell me about her past sex life and tell me she's had over 15 sex partners.

Honestly, I'm about to bail out. I feel like she's playing games at this point.

Erm...have sex with her?
She sound like someone crying out for sex, frustrated that in the 6 month you've been 'dating' you haven't tried to fuck her...

 

[dskillzhtown]

Could you guys lend me some advice?

This girl I'm dating is just all sorts of crazy.

For example, she'll say something like "oh I'm cold" and I'll be like "come over so I can warm you up." Then she'll go into a rant saying "oh you won't do anything anyway." and blah blah blah. To be honest, it's really starting to get on my nerves. She'll say I don't want her and I'm not affectionate. Yet on the other hand, she tells me how she's done having sex because of how promiscuous she used to be. There was even one incident where she told me she used a vibrator because she "knew" I wasn't going to do anything about it.

To be honest, I'm at the point where I'm about to lose my mind and call it quits.

And the sex part is crazy, we've been dating for 6 months. We've had no type of intimacy whatsoever. But she feels the need to tell me about her past sex life and tell me she's had over 15 sex partners.

Honestly, I'm about to bail out. I feel like she's playing games at this point.

So what happens when you attempt to do something physical with her? It seems like she is teasing you in hopes that you will actually do something. Are you being Mr. Nice Guy and not trying to hit it?

Seems to me that she is a stone cold freak that is wanting you to hit it but you won't.

 

[Slo]

Could you guys lend me some advice?

This girl I'm dating is just all sorts of crazy.

For example, she'll say something like "oh I'm cold" and I'll be like "come over so I can warm you up." Then she'll go into a rant saying "oh you won't do anything anyway." and blah blah blah. To be honest, it's really starting to get on my nerves. She'll say I don't want her and I'm not affectionate. Yet on the other hand, she tells me how she's done having sex because of how promiscuous she used to be. There was even one incident where she told me she used a vibrator because she "knew" I wasn't going to do anything about it.

Are you waiting for her to triple-dog-dare you to fuck her?