So Mako is the ex?
Girlfriend emotionally cheated on me
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So Mako is the ex?
Her life is already ruined by the husband. This is the consequence to his actions.
Clockwork
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I'd want to know if I was in the same situation. The OP is doing a good thing, it's the husband/ex that fucked up.
JoJoShabadoo
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There isn't any "logic" in the decision made by the OP as it was fueled by his devastation. And being involved with one of the five people involved does not involve him with the other three.
Not knowing absolutely anything about their life and dropping a bomb via Whatsapp is tactless.
The only two people that ruined anything here were the ones that cheated. The fire had already been lit, and as we all know...
Fire spreads.
Askherserenity
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I really don't understand people who just want OP to stay quiet about it. The wife deserves to know. The husband is fucking with some other guy's gf. He is married and has a fucking son.
You guys really think it would be better for the wife to just keep living a lie? I'm trying to understand your logic here.
You guys really think it would be better for the wife to just keep living a lie? I'm trying to understand your logic here.
Dreams-Visions
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do we have a proper summary post?
NeOak
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Yes, it is sorely needed. How does a relationship topic get to have 1300+ posts?
Always-honest
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Well, he intended to.
GraveRobberX
Platinum Trophy: Learned to Shit While Upright Again.
I was not going to click on this thread, just though it would be advice, which I can't give any, but GAWD DAMN these 14 pages have been a wild fucking ride!
Amazing, now I await the Mandrake summary + Sunhi legend .gif
Sunhi you better make 1!
Amazing, now I await the Mandrake summary + Sunhi legend .gif
Sunhi you better make 1!
ginger ninja
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we need one but i wouldn't wanna be the one to steal the great honor from our friend mandrake
SolidsnackooFoxhound
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davepoobond
you can't put a price on sparks
What is there to know about their life that is more important than "husband secretly cheating on wife"?
Howard Ballou
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Let's not get ahead of ourselves, I have a feeling we're just getting started.
Little Nemo
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I've always thought that people who come in to threads and say not to tell on cheaters and mind your own business are probably cheaters themselves. Unless you enjoy living in denial, I think anyone would want to know their SO is cheating on them.
Wait, so it's not the guy who wanted to stick his dick in another woman that ruined this established relationship? Get off your high horse.
Haha, indeed.
I read through OP's posts and now I understand why it is so funny. I expect high things specially from the part where Detective GAF uncovers an OP's past topic about having a small penis.
Hero_of_the_Day
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Yep. If you were the person being cheated on, you would want to know. There is absolutely zero logic behind not informing her. It's nothing but ridiculous "snitching" bullshit.
So by your logic my parents should still be married cause my mother shouldn't have been told about what my father was doing by a third party?? Are you actually serious? The wife has every right to know wtf is going on because the husband is a scumbag and doesn't deserve to keep living his life like nothing happen.
This is complete horseshit. If they were having issues, even if she was the biggest bitch in the world, they should have either fixed them or ended the relationship. There's not much you need to know when some guy (with a kid) decides to cheat on his wife.
If they weren't a cheating scumbag in the first place none of this would've happened.
i'm more surprised people think this is going to ruin a marriage.
'your husband planned to cheat but got sick and sent her a scarf instead'
devastating but not exactly destroying imo.
I am not saying OP shouldn't inform the wife.
I am talking about posters who seem to be quite excited to see other people suffer, and breaking out the popcorn for example. I mean if I caught it right, there were some even suggesting OP he should record their convo, or asking for Skype screenshots. Luckily OP was a bigger man than that.
Go_Ly_Dow
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Lan Dong Mik
And why would I want them?
I think OP sent the wife a screenshot of the messages between the two which I'm assuming was sexts and plans to fuck so I'm pretty sure if anyone's wife read that shit then it'd be game over in most situations I can imagine, unless the wife has zero self respect of course.
Hero_of_the_Day
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OP isn't exactly clear, but I took this:
to mean there were nude pictures and videos being sent between them, which I know I wouldn't be cool with if I were dating/married to either of them. But, yeah, there are certainly people who that wouldn't be a marriage ending thing for.
NeOak
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Ok, so when your SO does something like that, then you can judge.
NoctisVsStar
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This thread got some Bojack Horseman feels..now listen lyla foy - impossible.
NeOak
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Someooooneeeeeee didn't read the Ooooooooooooopppppppp
Always-honest
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Read up. It's a lot.. But worth it.
Yea you should have sorted that shit out months ago. I know how you feel, OP. When Myspace was relevant, I too found out my now ex girlfriend was cheating on me. She left a comment on some dude's profile which also clicked me. I checked if they were having private conversations and later found out that they were in fact, fucking. Its gonna suck today and its gonna suck tomorrow. Fuck, its probably gonna suck a month from now but you'll move on. I found someone better, we've been together for 8 long years, im gonna propose to her soon and I couldn't be happier.
The way I see it, the dude is gonna dump her once his wife knows something is going on with him or hes just gonna get tired of her and shes gonna try to come back to you somehow. Just move on, OP.
EDIT: Brb reading whole thread.
The way I see it, the dude is gonna dump her once his wife knows something is going on with him or hes just gonna get tired of her and shes gonna try to come back to you somehow. Just move on, OP.
EDIT: Brb reading whole thread.
Start from the beginning.
And oh, grab your favorite beverage while you're at it.
YESSSSSSSSS
NoctisVsStar
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I know what you mean, but if they had texts,pics, and vids I'd find it very hard to not believe them other than the obvious initial denial.
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