It's the master. But yeah, it's kind a bullshit rate. Her friends pay much less for rooms the same size, only they don't have private bathrooms like the master.
Girlfriend Stuck in 1 Year Bedroom Lease with Ex-Boyfriend: Advice?
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It's the master. But yeah, it's kind a bullshit rate. Her friends pay much less for rooms the same size, only they don't have private bathrooms like the master.
Whoa, whoa, whoa! So you're ok with all this shit that's happening in their bedroom and you're just asking about the lease then?
I...honestly don't know what to say...
OP you are a rebound.
1. Acknowledge it
2. Accept it
3. Enjoy the sex and exploit the lack of commitment to have fun
4. Stay civil when she acts crazy or flaky or suddenly doesn't text you.
5. She could hurt you tomorrow and she won't give a shit.
DON'T invest much of your self nor your time. She is exploiting and healing herself through your kindness.
STOP thinking you might be the exception.
1. Acknowledge it
2. Accept it
3. Enjoy the sex and exploit the lack of commitment to have fun
4. Stay civil when she acts crazy or flaky or suddenly doesn't text you.
5. She could hurt you tomorrow and she won't give a shit.
DON'T invest much of your self nor your time. She is exploiting and healing herself through your kindness.
STOP thinking you might be the exception.
onadesertedisland
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A simple look at the lease will give her her options. It depends on what she signed. As I said, there usually is a break-fee and a re-letting fee. She will be responsible for the rent until the unit is re-leased. If that is quickly, she won't have to pay as much. This is known to most adults that have signed a lease. And it's her problem. Not yours.
Of course, like they said, that would admit defeat to the ex. So instead, she'll have a sore back from a hard penis poking into it but she would have won.
Frozenprince
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Alright one last thing.
They had money for the Master bedroom but not enough money for a bigger mattress?
Fuck mang.
The middle spoon option was always where this thread was headed.
L O L
LookAtMeGo
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Thats a decent shit.
TheSpoiler
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You arent asking for relationship advice but I suggest you take it lmaooo
That's a pretty long shit. Everything alright?
SirClinksAlot
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And she's been so busy the last 3 weeks she hasn't had time to read her own lease to see how much it would cost to break or even go to Target to find an air mattress to sleep on. Oh but she had fun at Disneyland and met a super guy who lets her crash at his place sometimes. It all totally makes sense!
Sweet Mary .....
Reckheim
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I think not listening to the relationship advice will result in some much needed legal advise in about 2-3 weeks.
Good luck OP. This thread makes me mad.
JustHadToJoin
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You've known her less than a month and she's pretty much living with you? Drain your dick of semen and then try to think this through, this is insane
Vigilant Walrus
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The conspiracy side of me: What if the girlfriend and boyfriend are still together and playing a long con on the OP? Trying to find someone to pay for their rent? They are fabricating this story trying to take advantage of the OP, and all of this is a smokescreen. There is no lease, there is only playing the OP.
Pessimistic side of me: What if OP is being used as a rebound guy? / Girl breaks up with a boyfriend and goes to disneyland a few weeks after. Is this enough time to recover emotionally from a LTR?
Optimistic side of me: Maybe this girl is just unlucky and a good person, and because she is good and naive she ends up in sticky situations.
Pessimistic side of me: What if OP is being used as a rebound guy? / Girl breaks up with a boyfriend and goes to disneyland a few weeks after. Is this enough time to recover emotionally from a LTR?
Optimistic side of me: Maybe this girl is just unlucky and a good person, and because she is good and naive she ends up in sticky situations.
The ex is already taking this advice.
They never got around to shopping for a bigger one. It was in the cards had they not collapsed.
onadesertedisland
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I suggest more fiber. Perhaps a probiotic.
TheSpoiler
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Damn.
LegendofDragoonLives
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Jesus lmao... Never heard that phrase together, but it works well. If OP at least had not spent money and wasn't emotionally invested, he would be golden atm.
bruhh
Triggerhappytel
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Come on dude; this is horseshit. If she can easily afford $1000 a month rent then she can afford $200 for a second mattress on the floor, or $50 for a fucking airbed. If she's trying to break off the relationship but still sharing a bed with him, can you blame the guy for thinking there's still a chance?!
Ok, but why is she not buying one now? Buying a bed so that you don't have to sleep next to your ex should be at the tippy top of the cards as soon as the breakup happens.
UnObtainium17
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oh. i see.
Any chance your girlfriend and her ex also share their morning showers - you know, for saving water? :/
Ninja Scooter
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I think it's very likely the girl is a good person, she's just a good person who is going through some relationship shit, and the last thing a person needs when they still haven't settled said relationship shit, is a new relationship. OP is apparently 30 and previously married I'm legit surprised he doesn't know better.
TheCochese
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David Lynch would pass on this script for being too fucked up.
Aizen.S.Kennedy
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If she didn't wanna sleep in the bed with him and get his "unwanted" sexual advances she wouldnt. She can contact her landlord or just take the hit finically and move out. It's really a simple matter if he can't afford the rent that isn't her problem . Plus op will let her live with him for free. She can just get out. She obviously doesnt want to.
Reptars Revenge
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Get in that bed and spoon with them OP
onadesertedisland
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Legit question to OP (apologies for being so vulgar), are you sleeping with this woman? Not "sleeping" like her ex is supposedly, but intercourse?
old manatee
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What if you moved in with them? You guys could save a ton of money to put towards a down payment on a house together and you could also take the middle of the bed so that he stops spooning your girlfriend.
Frozenprince
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Right? The minute he saw that she very clearly needed to deal with her shit is when you go "Okay, I like you, I think you like me, but you need to figure this out before we move forward".
Like a normal adult.
CrossTrigger
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OP how did you two meet in Disney? She initiate the whole thing?
Zeuanimals
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Right, but in the meantime, they should probably not be sleeping in the same bed. And until your ideal solution is within reach and forever afterwards, unless they unsurprisingly get back together again, they probably should not be sleeping in the same bed. Because it's kind of suspect when they're sleeping in the same bed.
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