They're all 24 and I'm 30.
It's the master. But yeah, it's kind a bullshit rate. Her friends pay much less for rooms the same size, only they don't have private bathrooms like the master.
They're all 24 and I'm 30.
She's been sleeping on the couch some nights, but that's not good for anyone's back, and it's admitting defeat to the ex. He should be on that couch, as that's about what his rent contribution basically affords.
Either way, one of them needs to get out, for the sake of each of their own well being.
They never got around to shopping for a bigger one. It was in the cards had they not collapsed.
I found her at a low point in her adult life, and she really wishes she'd have met me at a time when she could have put her best foot forward. I pride myself for being a great judge of character, and no one I deemed to be of good character has ever surprised me by wronging me in the past. I've got a good track record, in this regard.
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Has OP confirmed whether he's at least getting some? Because if not holy shit.
The ex is already taking this advice.
Has OP confirmed whether he's at least getting some? Because if not holy shit.
Let me provide my own self-evaluation here, since I think I'm coming off wrong in just dropping facts, intuition, and more in broken spurts.
She's been with him for 3.5 years. She's been miserable with him for the last 2 years. He's a good guy, but not a good fit for her. They have little in common, he doesn't like to go out at all or do anything fun or spontaneous, and he doesn't try to make her happy. He just does his thing and is used to her just being bored and sitting idly by, but never leaving.
When she tries to leave, he begs her to stay, and they just grow complacent all over again. I was a wake-up call to her that some guys can be fun, sweet, respectful, spontaneous, and willing to compromise, and she wants that.
I found her at a low point in her adult life, and she really wishes she'd have met me at a time when she could have put her best foot forward. I pride myself for being a great judge of character, and no one I deemed to be of good character has ever surprised me by wronging me in the past. I've got a good track record, in this regard.
This girl is incredibly sweet, has been through so much that I could never imagine surviving through, and is still positive and bubbly about life. This situation is seriously the Achilles's Heel to her life right now, and I've no doubt that she'd make a fantastic partner to enjoy life with, whether it's for a short or long time.
Trust me, I've dated my fair share of crazies, and I drop them like hot potatoes; she is not crazy; she's just made a terrible decision recently that she's having trouble dealing with.
All this aside, though, NeoGAF community, your advice and general consensus is not falling on deaf ears. I'm going to sit with her tonight and ask for more details on how serious she's been putting her foot down on things with her ex, and why he's so eerily okay with all this. I want to find out of he's just a crazy loser in denial, or if she's not being firm and definitive enough, and I'll get that information tonight.
I'm reading every post, and I do appreciate each and every one of them, even the hilarious/joke posts.
Let me provide my own self-evaluation here, since I think I'm coming off wrong in just dropping facts, intuition, and more in broken spurts.
She's been with him for 3.5 years. She's been miserable with him for the last 2 years. He's a good guy, but not a good fit for her. They have little in common, he doesn't like to go out at all or do anything fun or spontaneous, and he doesn't try to make her happy. He just does his thing and is used to her just being bored and sitting idly by, but never leaving.
When she tries to leave, he begs her to stay, and they just grow complacent all over again. I was a wake-up call to her that some guys can be fun, sweet, respectful, spontaneous, and willing to compromise, and she wants that.
I found her at a low point in her adult life, and she really wishes she'd have met me at a time when she could have put her best foot forward. I pride myself for being a great judge of character, and no one I deemed to be of good character has ever surprised me by wronging me in the past. I've got a good track record, in this regard.
This girl is incredibly sweet, has been through so much that I could never imagine surviving through, and is still positive and bubbly about life. This situation is seriously the Achilles's Heel to her life right now, and I've no doubt that she'd make a fantastic partner to enjoy life with, whether it's for a short or long time.
Trust me, I've dated my fair share of crazies, and I drop them like hot potatoes; she is not crazy; she's just made a terrible decision recently that she's having trouble dealing with.
All this aside, though, NeoGAF community, your advice and general consensus is not falling on deaf ears. I'm going to sit with her tonight and ask for more details on how serious she's been putting her foot down on things with her ex, and why he's so eerily okay with all this. I want to find out of he's just a crazy loser in denial, or if she's not being firm and definitive enough, and I'll get that information tonight.
I'm reading every post, and I do appreciate each and every one of them, even the hilarious/joke posts.
I'm getting more than some.
Let me provide my own self-evaluation here, since I think I'm coming off wrong in just dropping facts, intuition, and more in broken spurts.
She's been with him for 3.5 years. She's been miserable with him for the last 2 years. He's a good guy, but not a good fit for her. They have little in common, he doesn't like to go out at all or do anything fun or spontaneous, and he doesn't try to make her happy. He just does his thing and is used to her just being bored and sitting idly by, but never leaving.
When she tries to leave, he begs her to stay, and they just grow complacent all over again. I was a wake-up call to her that some guys can be fun, sweet, respectful, spontaneous, and willing to compromise, and she wants that.
I found her at a low point in her adult life, and she really wishes she'd have met me at a time when she could have put her best foot forward. I pride myself for being a great judge of character, and no one I deemed to be of good character has ever surprised me by wronging me in the past. I've got a good track record, in this regard.
This girl is incredibly sweet, has been through so much that I could never imagine surviving through, and is still positive and bubbly about life. This situation is seriously the Achilles's Heel to her life right now, and I've no doubt that she'd make a fantastic partner to enjoy life with, whether it's for a short or long time.
Trust me, I've dated my fair share of crazies, and I drop them like hot potatoes; she is not crazy; she's just made a terrible decision recently that she's having trouble dealing with.
All this aside, though, NeoGAF community, your advice and general consensus is not falling on deaf ears. I'm going to sit with her tonight and ask for more details on how serious she's been putting her foot down on things with her ex, and why he's so eerily okay with all this. I want to find out of he's just a crazy loser in denial, or if she's not being firm and definitive enough, and I'll get that information tonight.
I'm reading every post, and I do appreciate each and every one of them, even the hilarious/joke posts.
I think OP bout to get promoted as the main and the other guys broke ass will be demoted to side. I think the girl has been looking for a while now for a guy to save her from the ex. Lots have probably dipped before and it was OP here who get snared.Sorry OP, but you are a side piece. Get real with yourself and have some self respect.
Trying to kiss your girlfriend who sleeps in bed with you puts one well on the path to murder. Jesus fuck.It won't stop him from abusing, raping, or killing her though, which it sounds like this guy is well on the path to doing.
Well, at least there is some silver lining to the story. Good luck, mate. Hope it works out.I'm getting more than some.
Facts.She's an adult person, not a stray. You are talking about her as if she needs you to save her. That's not healthy. If she is the person you say she is, she will figure her way out of this on her own.
Enjoy the sex while you can, do not commit.I'm getting more than some.
I should add, she presented the idea of sleeping on the couch.
I'm the one who thinks that's a terrible solution to the problem, and will only make it seem like a better idea to suffer through the entirety of the lease on a couch.
I believe the only solution to this mess is for one of them to get out.
I'm getting more than some.
Still, I don't consider myself to be idealizing her right now.
This girl is incredibly sweet, has been through so much that I could never imagine surviving through, and is still positive and bubbly about life. This situation is seriously the Achilles's Heel to her life right now, and I've no doubt that she'd make a fantastic partner to enjoy life with, whether it's for a short or long time.
This isn't an elephant in the room, OP. It's a wooly mammoth.
Also him trying to kiss her and spooning without consent as she's sleeping is sexual assault.
Dude you sound like liberal GAF talking about Queen Hillary.Believe it or not, she's very intelligent, self-sufficient, strong, and has been through more than most people in this thread have, and still has an incredible head on her shoulders and a positive outlook on life. She's really a joy and pleasure to be with and around.
I should add, she presented the idea of sleeping on the couch.
I'm the one who thinks that's a terrible solution to the problem, and will only make it seem like a better idea to suffer through the entirety of the lease on a couch.
I believe the only solution to this mess is for one of them to get out.
Let me provide my own self-evaluation here, since I think I'm coming off wrong in just dropping facts, intuition, and more in broken spurts.
She's been with him for 3.5 years. She's been miserable with him for the last 2 years. He's a good guy, but not a good fit for her. They have little in common, he doesn't like to go out at all or do anything fun or spontaneous, and he doesn't try to make her happy. He just does his thing and is used to her just being bored and sitting idly by, but never leaving.
When she tries to leave, he begs her to stay, and they just grow complacent all over again. I was a wake-up call to her that some guys can be fun, sweet, respectful, spontaneous, and willing to compromise, and she wants that.
I found her at a low point in her adult life, and she really wishes she'd have met me at a time when she could have put her best foot forward. I pride myself for being a great judge of character, and no one I deemed to be of good character has ever surprised me by wronging me in the past. I've got a good track record, in this regard.
This girl is incredibly sweet, has been through so much that I could never imagine surviving through, and is still positive and bubbly about life. This situation is seriously the Achilles's Heel to her life right now, and I've no doubt that she'd make a fantastic partner to enjoy life with, whether it's for a short or long time.
Trust me, I've dated my fair share of crazies, and I drop them like hot potatoes; she is not crazy; she's just made a terrible decision recently that she's having trouble dealing with.
All this aside, though, NeoGAF community, your advice and general consensus is not falling on deaf ears. I'm going to sit with her tonight and ask for more details on how serious she's been putting her foot down on things with her ex, and why he's so eerily okay with all this. I want to find out of he's just a crazy loser in denial, or if she's not being firm and definitive enough, and I'll get that information tonight.
I'm reading every post, and I do appreciate each and every one of them, even the hilarious/joke posts.
There is no room. The OP has an elephant sitting on his head.
Let me provide my own self-evaluation here, since I think I'm coming off wrong in just dropping facts, intuition, and more in broken spurts.
She's been with him for 3.5 years. She's been miserable with him for the last 2 years. He's a good guy, but not a good fit for her. They have little in common, he doesn't like to go out at all or do anything fun or spontaneous, and he doesn't try to make her happy. He just does his thing and is used to her just being bored and sitting idly by, but never leaving.
When she tries to leave, he begs her to stay, and they just grow complacent all over again. I was a wake-up call to her that some guys can be fun, sweet, respectful, spontaneous, and willing to compromise, and she wants that.
I found her at a low point in her adult life, and she really wishes she'd have met me at a time when she could have put her best foot forward. I pride myself for being a great judge of character, and no one I deemed to be of good character has ever surprised me by wronging me in the past. I've got a good track record, in this regard.
This girl is incredibly sweet, has been through so much that I could never imagine surviving through, and is still positive and bubbly about life. This situation is seriously the Achilles's Heel to her life right now, and I've no doubt that she'd make a fantastic partner to enjoy life with, whether it's for a short or long time.
Trust me, I've dated my fair share of crazies, and I drop them like hot potatoes; she is not crazy; she's just made a terrible decision recently that she's having trouble dealing with.
All this aside, though, NeoGAF community, your advice and general consensus is not falling on deaf ears. I'm going to sit with her tonight and ask for more details on how serious she's been putting her foot down on things with her ex, and why he's so eerily okay with all this. I want to find out of he's just a crazy loser in denial, or if she's not being firm and definitive enough, and I'll get that information tonight.
I'm reading every post, and I do appreciate each and every one of them, even the hilarious/joke posts.
Let me provide my own self-evaluation here, since I think I'm coming off wrong in just dropping facts, intuition, and more in broken spurts.
She's been with him for 3.5 years. She's been miserable with him for the last 2 years. He's a good guy, but not a good fit for her. They have little in common, he doesn't like to go out at all or do anything fun or spontaneous, and he doesn't try to make her happy. He just does his thing and is used to her just being bored and sitting idly by, but never leaving.
When she tries to leave, he begs her to stay, and they just grow complacent all over again. I was a wake-up call to her that some guys can be fun, sweet, respectful, spontaneous, and willing to compromise, and she wants that.
I found her at a low point in her adult life, and she really wishes she'd have met me at a time when she could have put her best foot forward. I pride myself for being a great judge of character, and no one I deemed to be of good character has ever surprised me by wronging me in the past. I've got a good track record, in this regard.
This girl is incredibly sweet, has been through so much that I could never imagine surviving through, and is still positive and bubbly about life. This situation is seriously the Achilles's Heel to her life right now, and I've no doubt that she'd make a fantastic partner to enjoy life with, whether it's for a short or long time.
Trust me, I've dated my fair share of crazies, and I drop them like hot potatoes; she is not crazy; she's just made a terrible decision recently that she's having trouble dealing with.
All this aside, though, NeoGAF community, your advice and general consensus is not falling on deaf ears. I'm going to sit with her tonight and ask for more details on how serious she's been putting her foot down on things with her ex, and why he's so eerily okay with all this. I want to find out of he's just a crazy loser in denial, or if she's not being firm and definitive enough, and I'll get that information tonight.
I'm reading every post, and I do appreciate each and every one of them, even the hilarious/joke posts.
It won't stop him from abusing, raping, or killing her though, which it sounds like this guy is well on the path to doing.
She's been miserable with him for two years but just signed an expensive lease with him? Dude, you aren't getting the full story from this girl.
Hahahahahhhaa love this thread so much. Dig that shit out OPI'm getting more than some.
how cute.When she tries to leave, he begs her to stay, and they just grow complacent all over again. I was a wake-up call to her that some guys can be fun, sweet, respectful, spontaneous, and willing to compromise, and she wants that.
I pride myself for being a great judge of character, and no one I deemed to be of good character has ever surprised me by wronging me in the past. I've got a good track record, in this regard.
in the same post.Trust me, I've dated my fair share of crazies
This gets more and more bizarre the more of your posts I read.
That's it; I'm out. I honestly don't think you're going to listen to any advice here anyway. Good luck OP, and don't get yourself played just because you're in awe of this woman.
Sleep on a mattress on the floor?
Pillow between them as a barrier?
Sleep on a mattress on the floor?
Pillow between them as a barrier?