The girlfriend offered to sleep on the couch but the OP ever so chivalrously thought that it was a bad idea and bed sharing was the best option.
Girlfriend Stuck in 1 Year Bedroom Lease with Ex-Boyfriend: Advice?
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The girlfriend offered to sleep on the couch but the OP ever so chivalrously thought that it was a bad idea and bed sharing was the best option.
onadesertedisland
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Is there a reason to let these kinds of threads roll on? It's not like OP listens, or even wants help. He wants validation and someone to agree that this shitshow is anything but.
off duty ninja
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FallingEdge
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lmao bruh! Move in with you!
Whattt
Whattt
Triggerhappytel
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If they're not together any more and he still tries to kiss her and grope her, why the FUCK does she still share a bed with him?! That is one weird situation.
Frozenprince
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Do not move in with this girl.
Do. Not.
It's Not. Healthy.
For either of you.
Do. Not.
It's Not. Healthy.
For either of you.
Reckheim
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Is she going to be paying rent living with you?
Holy shit!
onadesertedisland
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Because that's all she is willing to admit to, so as to string OP along.
Milly Osworth
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The room will be their holiday home. So OP will be homeless.
LOL you seriously think that?
LookAtMeGo
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FWIW and of course this is an anecdote and may not reflect your situation at all but I have a friend who I work with who just went through this exact thing. She moved some stuff in and they were together. They even changed their facebook relationship status and profile pictures were of them together. It lasted a few weeks and now she is back living in the apartment with her ex and they are trying to work things out.
My advice to him was to not do this because being the rebound guy almost never works out in the long run. Even if she doesnt go back to her ex she is going to, IMO, regret ever not having time for herself to be single and figure her life out.
Now if you are concerned about her safety from a crazy ex and you are doing this to help her out then good on you for being a good dude. But don't be surprised if this blows up in your face not long from now. Just my 2 cents. I've seen these types of situations enough times and it NEVER works out.
You're being used if she ends up staying with you and not paying a cent. Don't let that happen.
Also her temporarily moving in with you was obviously where this thread was headed.
Can't be more dead.
Finally, some reasonable advice.
Frozenprince
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You made a thread asking for advice bruh.
Tell her to talk to her landlord and if that doesn't work, talk to a lawyer.
Don't. Get. Involved. PAST THAT.
GOD DAMN.
Tell her to talk to her landlord and if that doesn't work, talk to a lawyer.
Don't. Get. Involved. PAST THAT.
GOD DAMN.
Reckheim
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If she isn't then its obvious what is going on here. I wonder if the OP has even seen the lease agreement.
OP ... talk to her EX behind her back and see what is really going on before she moves in with you.
How can you trust someone this much after only 3 weeks?
Because she can't let her ex win...or something.
Frozenprince
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HAHAHA.
Hold on a sec. Wait. Back up here.
She suggested to remove herself from sleeping in the same bed as her ex and you said NO?
LOL I can't even... Gaf... I'm out.
onadesertedisland
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Which I don't get, because it seems like he hasn't had a problem landing tail? Just play around dude, don't get deep with this. The advice about not sticking your pecker in crazy is usually right.
Reckheim
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Honestly, her and the ex just sound like con artists. Is she gonna have a key to your place?
You don't see how this could go horribly wrong for you? Come home from work and the place is cleaned out or worse.
Are there commonlaw laws in your state/province? Honestly ...
edit: 3 fucking weeks.
You don't see how this could go horribly wrong for you? Come home from work and the place is cleaned out or worse.
Are there commonlaw laws in your state/province? Honestly ...
edit: 3 fucking weeks.
OMG DYING
Holy shit this is a great post.
Keep in mind I wasn't asking for relationship advice. I was asking for legal outs and options she may have to break the lease or get him removed from the apartment.
The latter is the ideal option between the two, but either will do.
Either way, this isn't supposed to be about me.
I'm really just chillin', honestly; ready for anything to happen at this point.
Maybe OP experiences the passage of time at an unprecedented slow pace.
Ray Wonder
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I didn't tell her to go back to bed with him, hahaha. I told her that wasn't the solution to the problem; one of them getting out of the apartment was.
high five
hahahahahhahahahahaha
The Hermit
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Exactly
This is the thing that caught my attention the most.
I've never heard of lease having to share one bed before thought.
This thread has GAFman all over it. And the part about her and the ex still sleeping together while he tries to kiss her and touch her. If she didn't really want to be with him she could sleep somewhere else every freaking day.
Maximus.
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Yup, that's what I was thinking. Some people just get head over heels and do stupid shit. Sounds over committed.
Frozenprince
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Tell her to contact a lawyer or her landlord/leasing agency with her other roommates and figure out how to get him out.
That's it.
On your relationship, homie, I wish you good luck and god speed, but this will end in tears.
Triggerhappytel
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Well, for one thing she is paying $200 towards he rent because he can't afford to cover his share, and for another he is making unwanted sexual advances towards he despite them (allegedly) having broke up. So yeah, I think in this situation the creepy ex can fuck right off.
off duty ninja
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I mean obviously not! Why would someone who invited his girlfriend of three weeks to move in with him in order to get her to stop sleeping in the same twin bed with her ex need relationship advice?
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