I haven't commented on the whole thing, and I wasn't going to. This is the only thing I'll say.
Ashodin met a girl online and went to visit her. That's fine; I met my wife via the internet (granted, we knew each other for over ten years before we met in person, rather than two weeks) and it's really not a big deal. There are dating sites all over the place, so the stigma once associated with "meetin gurlz on teh net" is pretty much non-existent.
When he created a thread with lots of details on an internet message board, making it a very public affair, that was asking for trouble. He also continually posted details, poking the bear. I don't think anyone is ignorant of how internet communities tend to take things too far, lose perspective of the person behind the poster, and generally act like a pack of assholes when group-think revs up.
So while he's not directly to blame for people tracking down his personal information, her facebook page, and the general ugly mockery and nastiness that went on in that thread, he should have known it was going to happen and not started the thread at all.
Ash is a good guy who made a really really big mistake. I talked to him for a second or two on steam today and he said things are going good, they've both seen the thread and apparently it's not a problem.
I really don't think people need to worry about playing in the same guild as him, it was the usual internet drama and it doesn't really reflect poorly on anyone else by association. The longest lasting effects of this will probably just be the GIFs.
Ashodin met a girl online and went to visit her. That's fine; I met my wife via the internet (granted, we knew each other for over ten years before we met in person, rather than two weeks) and it's really not a big deal. There are dating sites all over the place, so the stigma once associated with "meetin gurlz on teh net" is pretty much non-existent.
When he created a thread with lots of details on an internet message board, making it a very public affair, that was asking for trouble. He also continually posted details, poking the bear. I don't think anyone is ignorant of how internet communities tend to take things too far, lose perspective of the person behind the poster, and generally act like a pack of assholes when group-think revs up.
So while he's not directly to blame for people tracking down his personal information, her facebook page, and the general ugly mockery and nastiness that went on in that thread, he should have known it was going to happen and not started the thread at all.
Ash is a good guy who made a really really big mistake. I talked to him for a second or two on steam today and he said things are going good, they've both seen the thread and apparently it's not a problem.
I really don't think people need to worry about playing in the same guild as him, it was the usual internet drama and it doesn't really reflect poorly on anyone else by association. The longest lasting effects of this will probably just be the GIFs.