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[Kev Kev]

kissing, making out, locking lips, whatever. i always feel it's too intimate and generally avoid it in a one night stand, and even in relationships im not too big on it. not really sure why, except that after my last serious relationship ended poorly, ive just been completely turned off by it.

however, with a one night stand, if in the process of trying to avoid kissing, she keeps going for it, then that is a sign to me that she likes kissing and it turns her on, therefore it would behoove me to kiss her back. so in that situation, yeah ill make out and its fine bc i know thats they key to something i want. other than that, im not a kissing person at all.

ive been single for 10 years and i think that has a lot to do with it. still though, i know others guys who have been single just as long and still love the idea of making out, whether its with a girlfriend or a one night stand. i dunno, i feel like if/when i do have a girlfriend again, kissing is going to be a weird barrier to overcome, bc i feel like i am in the minortity with my take here.

how do you like it GAF? yes no maybe so?

 

[GAMETA]

Wait, what? Americans fuck but don't kiss? It's easier to fuck a girl than it is to kiss her?... What the hell is wrong with you?

I've kissed more than 50+ girls before getting married, and I got married at fucking 19 years old... and they all were french kisses, most were "making out" kisses, hand on the ass and on the body, kissing on the neck and shit... I did fuck less than 10, tho...

Like... why? You guys don't brush your teeth or something? I don't even...

 

[Spukc]

DISGUSTING

 

[Kev Kev]

Wait, what? Americans fuck but don't kiss? It's easier to fuck a girl than it is to kiss her?... What the hell is wrong with you?

I've kissed more than 50+ girls before getting married, and I got married at fucking 19 years old... and they all were french kisses, most were "making out" kisses, hand on the ass and on the body, kissing on the neck and shit... I did fuck less than 10, tho...

Like... why? You guys don't brush your teeth or something? I don't even...

lol its ok its ok! calm down

yes kissing is very personal to me (i dont know if its an american thing, but we do tend to be more weird about getting personal and intimate, so maybe?), and i generaly dont enjoy it. or at least i havent in a long time. some people will just call it fear of commitment, and yea thats probably part of it, but thats not aLL of it, you know?

not sre how to explain it, except that sex is not a personal, intimate thing to me like kissing is. kissing to me is useless unless you are in so in love with that person that you cant help yourself or your trying to get them in the sack

 

[GAMETA]

lol its ok its ok! clam down

yes kissing is very personal to me (i dont know if its an american thing, but we do tend to be more weird about getting personal and intimate, so maybe?), and i generaly dont enjoy it. or at least i havent in a long time. some people will just call it fear of commitment, and yea thats probably part of it, but thats not aLL of it, you know?

not sre how to explain it, except that sex is not a personal, intimate thing to me like kissing is. kissing to me is useless unless you are in so in love with that person that you cant help yourself or your trying to get them in the sack

Dude, you're fucking the girl. You are inserting your penis inside the girl's vagina. That shit makes babies. And the kissing is the personal part?

Can you suck her tits before marriage? I mean, what the hell.

 

[TaySan]

If i'm comfortable enough to get naked and do the deed with someone i'm comfortable enough to kiss them. : P

 

[Kev Kev]

Dude, you're fucking the girl. You are inserting your penis inside the girl's vagina. That shit makes babies. And the kissing is the personal part?

Can you suck her tits before marriage? I mean, what the hell.

i know its weird to you, but im not the only one. its a thing, lol. which is why i thought it would be an interesting discussion o hav, bc as hard as it is for you to see it from my perspective, i have just a hard of time understanding your perspective

and fuck yea im going to suck her titties

If i'm comfortable enough to get naked and do the deed with someone i'm comfortable enough to kiss them. : P

fari enough! and i imagine this is the majority of takes on the subject. but its not the only one. some guys find kissing to be way more intimate an personal than sex. putting my penis in her is just fucking. to me there isnt a whole lot intimate about that. im just trying to cum, ya know

 

[Virex]

Not interested in relationships or one night stands. I got better things to do with my time and money. Relationships are a waste of time and often painful and one night stands just does not seem right to me. Been single for quite some time now and it feels great. I luckily woke up from what was going on in my relationship and never looked back because I would have been married and most likely miserable

 

[GAMETA]

and fuck yea im going to suck her titties

Jesus Christ be praised, at least that.

But it is very weird to me, indeed... like, you don't lick each other's tongues in the heat of fucking? Like, both sweating and trading fluids? That's so weird...

No kissing each other's bodies, the neck and ears? No soft bites to the neck and chin and nipples while fucking? No oral sex too? Sometimes a licky licky and a little finger to the arsehole? The last maybe not in a one night stand, but...

It's weird indeed.

 

[Kev Kev]

kissing each other's bodies, the neck and ears? No soft bites to the neck and chin and nipples while fucking? No oral sex too?

all of that is good! im strictly speaking of mouth to mouth and making out or french kissing or whatever you want to call it. it's just a turn off for me..... but again if thats what it takes to get her horny, then ill do it no problem bc im getting somethign out of it, you know?

but if its kissing just to kiss, thats pointless for me. well, it can be nice, but i have to really, really love that person and have an unexplainable urge to kiss them, like it has to feel right.... and even then its still a tiny bit weird bc its just so intimate to me and i dont want that

 

[DESTROYA]

If i'm comfortable enough to get naked and do the deed with someone i'm comfortable enough to kiss them. : P

Which is nobody.

 

[NecrosaroIII]

From my experience making out is pretty important for turning on girls. So probably yes.

 

[teezzy]

I've never had a one night stand in my entire life. We either always end up dating or at least hook up a few times afterwards. I take it as a point of pride. Always make out first.

 

[Kev Kev]

Which is nobody.

TaySan dude are you just going to take that? stand up for yourself for once

 

[teezzy]

Seriously how doyou fuck someone and not double dip the chip?

 

[TaySan]

TaySan dude are you just going to take that? stand up for yourself for once

The haters got nothing on me no worries.
I'm going to be the bigger person.

 

[Cravis]

How about hookers? What’s the consensus on those? Is it even kosher to kiss? I’ve never been with a hooker so I am not on the up and up of proper prostitution etiquette.

 

[teezzy]

The haters got nothing on me no worries.
I'm going to be the bigger person.

 

[Kev Kev]

How about hookers? What’s the consensus on those? Is it even kosher to kiss? I’ve never been with a hooker so I am not on the up and up of proper prostitution etiquette.

for me? no, no kissing a hooker. ever. nothing against hookers, its just the kissing thing is the same for me across the board, regardless of their day job or whatever.

for the hookers side? it depends on the hooker. i imagine most of them just want to get paid and if kissing is agreed upon as part of the deal then of course. some fo them may just do it intuitively, that wouldnt surprise me either.

but i know in porn a lot of actresses dont kiss bc its too intimate, and i imagine some hookers share the same sentiment in their job

 

[DESTROYA]

The haters got nothing on me no worries.
I'm going to be the bigger person.

No hate, just busting balls.

 

[ClanOfNone]

Nothing beats a good ol fashioned make out session.

 

[Rentahamster]

Kev Kev my good chum, kissing is very important. It's a pleasurable bonding experience, and very important to a lot of women. If you're good at it, you make a very positive impression. This is one of the first lessons in my training program.

Then, when the time is right,

 

[eot]

I'm not sure how it'd even work without kissing. It's a natural way to escalate things you know. Also, it's the "thing you do while doing something else", like how you go for drinks when wanting to talk with someone because then you're doing something, not just talking. Same thing with kissing, you for example touch her boobs while kissing.

 

[Elcid]

I can’t imagine going straight to a fuck without a kiss. I mean I think I speak for most men when I say we only kiss to get them revved up to bang.

 

[nush]

lol its ok its ok! calm down

yes kissing is very personal to me (i dont know if its an american thing, but we do tend to be more weird about getting personal and intimate, so maybe?), and i generaly dont enjoy it. or at least i havent in a long time. some people will just call it fear of commitment, and yea thats probably part of it, but thats not aLL of it, you know?

not sre how to explain it, except that sex is not a personal, intimate thing to me like kissing is. kissing to me is useless unless you are in so in love with that person that you cant help yourself or your trying to get them in the sack

That's exactly why most prostitutes don't kiss, for the emotional detachment.

 

[triplestation]

"if you can french kiss the butthole you can fresh kiss any other part" - winston churchill

 

[Nymphae]

100% depends on their breath. I've always been down for it but you need to be minty fresh, ideally gum in your mouth if you know you're making out.

 

[appaws]

As big of whores as post-GenX broads seem to be, you’re gonna end up with the painful herps.

And what girl wants to make out with some long-haired candy-ass anyway.

 

[Scotty W]

Nice new picture Vek Vek! You look like a normal person now!

 

[Cunth]

ive never kissed someone and not copped a feel as well

 

[Nymphae]

ive never kissed someone and not copped a feel as well

You kiss your mother with that mouth?

 

[Cunth]

You kiss your mother with that mouth?

i dont kiss and tell

 

[SpartanN92]

Whoaaaa slow down OP. First you have to actually talk to a girl.

 

[lock2k]

I never had one night stand so I feel I have no authority to comment.

Every kind of contact I had with girls throughout my life was an attempt of a relationship. I'm just wired that way. This month I completed 15 years with my wife.

 

[Zato]

i know its weird to you, but im not the only one. its a thing, lol. which is why i thought it would be an interesting discussion o hav, bc as hard as it is for you to see it from my perspective, i have just a hard of time understanding your perspective

and fuck yea im going to suck her titties


fari enough! and i imagine this is the majority of takes on the subject. but its not the only one. some guys find kissing to be way more intimate an personal than sex. putting my penis in her is just fucking. to me there isnt a whole lot intimate about that. im just trying to cum, ya know

this only makes sense with hookers, fuck em but never kiss them.

lay off the whores buddy.

 

[Goro Majima]

"if you can french kiss the butthole you can fresh kiss any other part" - winston churchill

 

[haxan7]

I start at the mouth then quickly work my way down to the snatch

 

[GHG]

I don't even know how you'd even initiate fucking without kissing first.

Do you just grab em by the pussy?

 

[Vicetrailia]

OP you lack sexuality. Whether a one night stand or you're in a deep relationship there's plenty of kissing involved.

That or you're fucking escorts or going to sex parties or something.

 

[isual]

just wait till u get your bunghole licked son. now dats intimate

 

[bender]

It depends how much they are charging for their services.

 

[Armorian]

I don't even know how you'd even initiate fucking without kissing first.

Do you just grab em by the pussy?

I always start with 69 with hookers.

But yeah, kissing is in a way, more intimate than "normal" fucking.