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[Particle Physicist]

so there is this girl that works at a coffee shop i go to ... we've spoken a few times.. saw her at a show once.. hung out there.. etc. i have absolutely no interests in her other than friendship-wise.. she is a pretty cool girl, but im not looking to get into anything serious with anyone right now.. (and im not that physically attracted to her) .

so anyway, tonight after watching a movie with a couple friends of mine, i head in to the shop to get some warm tea. she was working there.. behind the counter.. and was acting as if she didnt know me. what hell ? i dont get it. she kept avoiding eye contact with me as well.. it was very odd. i have no idea what triggered this.. maybe she got a wrong impression about me? i dont know.. sucks too, cause i dont know very many people here.. and i thought i had met someone cool i could hang out with .

oh well.


dont know what this thread will accomplish, but i just had to let it out somewhere.

on the bright side, her co-worker gave me a bunch of free bagels.

 

[demon]

So what's the big fuckin problem? A chick you're not attracted to ignored you, and you got some free bagels. You should be rejoicing. I didn't get any free bagels today.

 

[Tenguman]

...yup it's pretty much what I thought.

 

[Particle Physicist]

okay.. here is the deal.. ive been feeling pretty damn lonely lately.. i have.. hmm.. two friends in this whole fucken city, and they are both pretty damn busy with school and shit.



there is also a bit more to the story .

ill try to summarize it quickly..

several months ago i dated a girl that had worked at this coffee place.. we broke up (on good terms.... or so i thought).. she broke up with me, but i had been thinking about it as well (we just didnt mesh well as a couple), thats why when she said she would like to still be friends i actually believed her. . we hung out once after our break up and everything was fine... then she disappeared for a couple of months.. i got worried, i thought maybe something had happened to her, but i had my doubts as well.. so i left her a message on her cell phone that went something like this (not exact words):: "hey, im not sure whats going on here, but im a bit worried that something has happened to you.. could you give me a call and let me know everything is fine, even if you have a problem with me at least give me some piece of mind"


.. no call..


one day i bumped into her.. she gave me some bullshit about how she had been meaning to call me but blah blah blah blah blah.

anyway, since then, i have constantly bumped into her.. and her good friends (who were once pretty cool with me) .. every time she gets all weird on me.. and her friends act as if i dont exist..

now the problem here is that she seems to know everyone i meet. . i know that she knows this girl in some way.. so now im paranoid as fuck that she is telling these people some bullshit about me.




i dunno.. i guess its just an amalgamation of a bunch of shitty happenings in my life at the moment.




free bagels are good though.

 

[GG-Duo]

You should freak out and yell, "HEY BITCH! STOP IGNORING ME!!" and see what happens.

I mean, you've got nothing to lose.

 

[theo]

sounds like a good time to give up coffee

 

[Matlock]

There's thousands of women out there, and you have to focus on the one that's going to turn you down?

Doesn't make sense, now does it?

 

[Eminem]

Can you people not read? HE DOESN'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP. HE IS WIERDED OUT BECAUSE THEY WERE FRIENDS BEFORE, AND NOW SUDDENLY THEY ARE NOT. HE IS NOT LOOKING FOR A GIRLFRIEND.

Carry on.

 

[Matlock]

Point still stands. If she ignores you, there's thousands out there to replace her. Leave her be.

 

[Dilbert]

on the bright side, her co-worker gave me a bunch of free bagels.

Just remember -- bagels are for EATING.

 

[nitewulf]

ok...im not quite sure what to say here so ill just post this:

 

[Jim Bowie]

Maybe she had every memory of you erased.

OHJESUSIWASNTSUPPOSEDTOTELLYOUFUCKFUCKFUCK

 

[Socreges]

Re: coffee shop girl

Have you played back what happened the last time you two had met? Any reason why she'd suddenly ignore you? Even though you had talked, did she honestly seem to enjoy your company? Because that doesn't make any sense, unless there was someone there that she didn't want seeing her with you.

Really, though, maybe just forget about her. If she was deliberately ignoring you, not worth your time.

 

[Screenboy]

What next? Posts about a girl making eye-contact?



No offence I just don't think this deserved a thread.








-SB

 

[Grizzlyjin]

This girl at the bus stop tried to talk to me yesterday. But I was like "Run your game elsewhere, sister. I'm not buying what you're selling!" Actually I didn't say that, she asked me how long I've lived upstairs. And of course I said "Four months..." in the most complicated way possible. She was so damn enar bored by the time I was done, she just walked away to the bus stop and out of the shade. Now THATS a story.

Have you been leaving this girl a tip? Did you have one of those ackward moments where you spit on her face while talking, and she notices but it too scared to wipe if off? Did you size her up? Did you lick your lips before each sentence?

 

[Particle Physicist]

What next? Posts about a girl making eye-contact?



No offence I just don't think this deserved a thread.








-SB

hi.. this is about a friend that completely ignored me for no apparent reason.. i can only suspect that its something an ex-girlfriend said to her.

i still havent spoken to her so i dont really know.. i just wanted to let out some of my frustration.



the only reason why i emphasized that i wasnt attracted to her was because i wanted to avoid the usual FHUTA/COCKY FUNNY comments.

 

[Particle Physicist]

okay..

i guess the main point of this thread is that i just dont understand how some people work.

why.. if you have a problem with someone, do you choose to ignore them instead of speaking with said person. also, why would you let a one-sided view of someone affect your friendship with them without discussing it with said person.

ive had a similar situation like this happen to me once before.

a girl who i was good friends with got pissed at me for something she thought i did.. instead of talking to me, she decided to ignore me. completely.. i was so confused at the time.. i even asked her boyfriend (who i was good friends with as well) to talk to her or at least try to get her to talk to me.. well, she never did.. eventually she started talking to me again, though she never mentioned the incident.. our friendship was never the same..

i just dont get it.. what the fuck is wrong with some people.. i never encountered anything like this until i came to boston .

:/

 

[Wario64]

fhuta

 

[Forgotten Ancient]

Maybe she's fallen in love with you and she feels really awkward. Maybe she thinks you like her but she doesn't like you (like that) and feels awkward. Maybe she was just having a shitty day. Don't overanalyze these kind of things. If it happens again, and i fyou're really concerned, bring it up with her.

 

[Mugen]

on her belly up her ass <-- best porn I've seen in a while... :rock

 

[pnjtony]

why.. if you have a problem with someone, do you choose to ignore them instead of speaking with said person. also, why would you let a one-sided view of someone affect your friendship with them without discussing it with said person.

Have you tried talking to her yet?

 

[Particle Physicist]

Have you tried talking to her yet?

well, this was last night, so i dont want to push anything.. i havent seen her yet.. and i wont call her till i clear my head a bit. . probably tomorrow or the next..

i really suspect its something my ex said. . her other friends have acted the same way around me.