After getting advice from people in this thread (thanks RGM) and doing more research to understand my needs, I think this is the final parts list I'm going to go with. Just wanted to get one last round of input before I start acquiring pieces in case there is something I'm missing.
Note, I want a blu-ray drive for movies. I may drop down to 8GB ram depending on how the prices all work out with tax. I could also opt for a cheaper monitor but the ultrawide seems like it would be great for games and writing. I often gave at least one set of notes and a webpage open when I'm writing and the extra screen real estate would be great to have.
Gaming wise I'm looking for 1080p at near max settings with compatibility with Oculus in the future.
PCPartPicker part list:
http://pcpartpicker.com/p/QF9cXL
Price breakdown by merchant:
http://pcpartpicker.com/p/QF9cXL/by_merchant/
CPU: Intel Core i5-6600K 3.5GHz Quad-Core Processor ($219.99 @ Micro Center)
CPU Cooler: Cooler Master Hyper 212 EVO 82.9 CFM Sleeve Bearing CPU Cooler ($22.89 @ OutletPC)
Motherboard: Asus Z170-A ATX LGA1151 Motherboard ($151.99 @ SuperBiiz)
Memory: Crucial 16GB (2 x 8GB) DDR4-2133 Memory ($88.99 @ Adorama)
Storage: Crucial BX100 250GB 2.5" Solid State Drive ($79.99 @ Amazon)
Storage: Toshiba 3TB 3.5" 7200RPM Internal Hard Drive ($87.89 @ OutletPC)
Video Card: EVGA GeForce GTX 970 4GB SSC ACX 2.0+ Video Card ($315.19 @ Amazon)
Case: Fractal Design Define R4 Blackout ATX Mid Tower Case ($69.99 @ Newegg)
Power Supply: EVGA 750W 80+ Bronze Certified Semi-Modular ATX Power Supply ($59.99 @ NCIX US)
Optical Drive: LG UH12NS30 Blu-Ray Reader, DVD/CD Writer ($39.95 @ OutletPC)
Wireless Network Adapter: Asus PCE-N15 802.11b/g/n PCI-Express x1 Wi-Fi Adapter ($17.89 @ OutletPC)
Monitor: LG 25UM57-P 60Hz 25.0" Monitor ($194.99 @ Newegg)
Total: $1349.74
Prices include shipping, taxes, and discounts when available
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