Osukaa
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OP, don't drink if you don't want to. People who say that have no right to tell you what you should or shouldn't do when it comes to alcohol intake. It's true that it might loosen you up, but you do what's best for you and figure out how best to attack a party with your alcohol preference intact.
Please. I've hosted a party or two in my day. I don't expect them to do a personalized intro with every guest. But if someone's new to a group you gotta try to get the ball rolling for someone somewhere and let them take it from there. And while I don't know how close they are, there's a good chance the friend should know the OP is an introvert that doesn't drink, lending further need to maybe give a slight leg up to someone who has trouble in social situations. Sometimes you need a little situational awareness as a host. I can't imagine a sober introvert is gonna have a great time with an apartment full of people they don't know minus one person.
This us as on point as it gets. Dont change your habits just to fit in. If you don't drink then who cares what everyone else says. Be yourself and if parties aren't your thing don't feel bad. I have a small group of friends and I'm not that much of an introvert also I like meeting new people but parties just aren't my thing I get tired of them real fast lol. I will say also though that every party of a friends I went to they always made it a point to introduce me to their friends and made me comfortable. It only takes a minute or 2. To me it's just common sense and courtesy as a host....