DarkJedi: As Heavy Liquid said, Franks isn't that hot to begin with. I've found that adding honey and molasses helps to take down some of the heat. If you have the chance, I'd recommend whipping up a small batch of sauce just to taste and see how the heat level is.
For a poor man's BBQ sauce that makes plenty of sauce, Ketchup, paprika, and apple jelly or grape jelly cooked on low heat in a sauce pan. Works best with pork, but might work for chicken wings too.
Turns out I take shitty pictures. So here's two pics someone else took of part of our spread at the open house. I'm hoping to salvage something from my wife's camera tonight. We'll see.
This was mainly savory items:
We had garlic herbed shrimp, cheese ball, cheesy bacon bites (simple recipe), southwestern tartlets, brie and jam tartlets, fruit tray with fruit dip, vegetable tray, spinach dip and chips, turkey and beef rollups, Steph's Famous Hot Dip (another simple recipe), Waldorf chicken salad with toast cups, and not pictured are hoisin beef rollups (marinated seared flank steak slices wrapped around scallions), a cheese fondue with beer bread, and an antipasto meat and cheese tray.
Dessert area:
Only a smattering of what was there; gingerbread cookies, peanut butter cookies, chocolate chip cookies, cranberry strussel bars, chocolate fondue (which was being put out when the picture was taken), Ina Garten's super sinful brownie bites, key lime coconut bars, pound cake, turtle and hersey pretzel treats, cheesecake cheeseball, chocolate pudding cake, and spiced nuts. Not pictured were seven layer bars, cranberry pinwheels, sugared cranberries, and chai shortbread cookies. In the kitchen we had black bean dip, rotel dip, my buffalo bites, peanut ginger meatballs, pork potstickers/dumplings, lil' smokies, parmesan cheese straws, bacon leek mini quiches, punch, and hot spice cheer (a spiced apple cider made from apple cider from a local mountain orchard).
Hopefully I can dig up some better pics from someone's camera.