That is what I've seen myself in just about every thread about this topic. Tough woman = good female character, which is just not true. To me, a good written character has depth and the most important thing: a motif. Why can't a woman/men be timid and good written or "sexy" and good written? Because those NEED to and DO exist as well. Any (important) character should be a dimensional being with strengths, flaws and unique characteristics.Regardless of the quality of anything Sarkessian says, pointing it that "both are objectified" doesn't mean anything. Blah blah two wrongs don't make a right, and what is so wrong with demanding a higher quality of writing and representation in entertainment? There's a difference between something not trying to be intelligent or thought-provoking, and something just being stupid and insulting to its audience. I don't understand why people are so resistant to that. I don't like the sexy female bullshit because really, it's insulting to me. I don't want to have any involvement in any of that pandering bullshit, it makes me feel dumb just by association.
And then we have crap like the "tough sassy female" who's tough but also can't resist saying some dumb shit like "Gurls can fight too!" and play it completely straight with a stare that's supposed to say "badass." People often confuse "good female character" with "tough female character," and then use the existence of a few tough female characters to claim that the poorly-written female characters don't matter, or just don't even exist. Again, no idea why it's so awful for anybody to want higher standards of writing and characterization.
While I think it's pretty far fetched, there is a video that was giving another perspective on Peach's character and her importance to the Mario games in contrast to Anita's view point on her in her first video. I thought seeing both makes for a pretty interesting basis for discussion.