Unicorn said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DHl6ncd1s0
First thing that popped into my head, reading that.
the weirdness of the internet never ceases to amaze me.
Prax said:
"Eh. I didn't feel like talking that day."
Hahaha.. Sorry man, I'd just end up pissing her off too. I am not good with this stuff either. I also get bored with talking every day and do not understand girls that need to do it. >_>
Doesn't she have better things to do than call you every day? She's probably just bored. (Or needy.)
I dunno what to do. im just so fed up with her in general, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. Every other week we seem to finally break up, for her to ring the day after, apologise and then carry on like nothing ever happened.
I know im a sucker, but I care about her alot and the way she never seems to give up is quite endearing.
thanks for the advice anyway.
thisis4neogaf said:
1) She doesn't respect your choice to not talk on the phone? You're not required to talk to someone on the phone every night - why doesn't she call her girlfriends? You need a compromise with her - you talk 3 times a week or she comes over/you go over instead of having phone conversations.
2) Dude... don't stick your dick in her mouth when she can't consent - unless you've discussed it beforehand.
Are you big? You sound long/wide. If you're long, stop poking her cervix. If you're wide, she needs to be extremely wet before you slip it in. If you can last that long, then you can spend your time with foreplay. Make sex about enjoying each other's bodies instead of having the goal be to orgasm. If it hurts when you slip in a finger while she's very wet, she may have an infection. If she's wet but doesn't seem into it, she's probably not sexually attracted to you anymore... or she's self-conscious (just because she's confident when she's fully clothed doesn't mean she's comfortable engaging in an activity with someone where she's quite inexperienced).
Has she always been like this? It honestly sounds like she's not sexually attracted to you anymore but she still loves you. You should ask her. If sex is important to you but not her, you're not compatible.
And for both questions, if she doesn't want to work through these with you, do you really want to be with her? If you can't work through your problems together - if you're the only one willing to go the distance - how do you think you'll get through serious life shit together? :/
1) she doesn't get along with many of her friends anymore, they have kinda drifted apart. She just talks to me and stays at home every night. She is fcuking boring. She doesn't like to travel much so I see her once a week at best. Id go to see her but after a whole year Ive never once had a invitation.
2) I would never have done it consciously, like I said, I did it in my sleep. According to her, her head was resting on my navel, and I pushed her head down on my member. Ive been known to do all tyoes of weird stuff in my sleep, but nothing quite like that.
I don't even care about the orgasm side of things, not many girls can get me to that point. But even foreplay is a problem because she is ticklish and doesnt like me messing around with her body too much. There are few spots that im allowed to mess with but thats it. Im a quite attentive lover, so her behaviour is kinda bizarre.
She has always been like this from day one so i don't think its a feelings thing. Likewise, its not so much that she isn't into sex or is self conscious :- she is the only girl ive met that isn't shy to masturbate in front of me. Its just once she gets to a certain point, she wants to stop. Im not huge by any means, and I never put the full length in, but even then she complains about it hurts after a while, even with lube.
As for do i want be with her.....I dunno. I care for her and she means alot to me, but I couldnt seem myself settling down or getting married to her. on the other hand, there is nothing wrong with her as a person and she is a cool girl to be with when she isnt moaning.
