The idea of an oppressed minority being harsh to another minority. That requires a special kind of idiocy.
The idea of an oppressed minority being harsh to another minority. That requires a special kind of idiocy.
It's not common if it's something happening between minorities Otherwise it'd be good old vanilla idiocy.It would be better if it were a special kind of idiocy, and not an (apparently) common kind
You would think that a community of people that are essentially required for deep introspection and self-confrontation would at the very least be a bit understanding of someone else's orientation.
Gays are so freaking annoying sometimes.
It's not common if it's something happening between minorities Otherwise it'd be good old vanilla idiocy.
Seriously. I also hate it when straight people think they're taking the "gays" side - "Oh, but you're not bi, right? Those guys are so greedy! LOLZ"You would think that a community of people that are essentially required for deep introspection and self-confrontation would at the very least be a bit understanding of someone else's orientation.
Gays are so freaking annoying sometimes.
I'm like inordinately attracted to bisexual dudes, have no idea why.
i agree especially with the first part. Also I've always thought bisexuality has gotten a bad rep because since they're attracted to both sexes it might fuel other peoples insecurities with their own partners, but i'm not too sure about that exactly.I think it sucks that bisexual people get a bum rap, and I think it's largely due to the common belief that most gay men tend to come out as "bi" before admitting that they're just straight up "gay." Something about it just feels safer.
I also think skepticism of bisexuality is product of the fear of downlow culture, and the idea that a bisexual person is just a homosexual in transition.
For some people it's easier to come out as bisexual, for some people it's easier to come out as gay.Something about it just feels safer.
Is there a universal reason behind those thoughts?
There's not really a universal reason, no. If you were to ask people why they dislike/don't believe in bisexuals, you'd get a bunch of different responses:
Some gay men and women are afraid that their bi partners will "take the easier path" and leave them for a straight relationship when things get tough.
Some people like to experiment and label themselves as bisexual when they're really not, some think that they are bi but they're actually just confused or they haven't actually come to terms with the fact that they're really just gay or straight, and some really are bi for a while and then aren't (sexuality is fluid, at least for some), which causes a lot of people to think that bisexuality is a fake label that people don to make themselves feel unique or edgy or trendy or more normal or whatever. (Glee even weighed in on this in one episode - "Psh, bi's don't really exist, it's just a label insecure gay guys use to make themselves feel more normal.")
Some people think bi's are greedy, whatever the fuck that means, and some just can't wrap their heads around the fact that it's possible for a person to be attracted to men and women.
There are a lot of dumb reasons and those are just a few that I've come across.
You're so queer.Sexuality never was consistent for me, I always found new kinks or even jumped from bisexual to heterosexual to homosexual 'over night'.
That's why I still haven't labeled myself, because it's not as easy as some make it out to be.
Great my second GAF crush just got permabanned. Things won't be as fun now.
OK, I started a new topic here. I'd like to hear your thoughts on this.
Great my second GAF crush just got permabanned. Things won't be as fun now.
I wish I had gaf crushes
I wish I had gaf crushes
Ugh, that word again.You're so queer.
I think the stigma about bisexuality will die down as alternate sexuality becomes more commonly acknowledged.
Why? It sounds even more pointless than a straight crush...
There are guy couples on LGBT GAF as far as I know.
Were there ever a real life couple that met on NeoGAF or a story of some sort ? That would be awesome. Even more so if they were gay, since we're a minority. Kinda like a modern life fairytale.
But anyway yeah, I think you're better off just liking people and their online presence and avoid (ha) falling in love with them, otherwise you'll end up disappointed.
I met my boyfriend through Neogaf (the Gaygaf skype chat actually) and we've been together for 2 years now, so it can happen
Finding a boyfriend who is a big gaming nerd like me is a godsend. I can't imagine being with someone who didn't like gaming. I spend far too much time gaming, and I could see it being a problem if my boyfriend didn't like games.
It's probably worth noting that a crush doesn't necessarily equate to love.
Just appreciation of somebody's looks and/or personality
I'm so glad you said this (and that it worked out for you). I thought I was crazy for wanting something like this, thinking I was being too picky or immature in qualities I look for in a partner.I met my boyfriend through Neogaf (the Gaygaf skype chat actually) and we've been together for 2 years now, so it can happen
Finding a boyfriend who is a big gaming nerd like me is a godsend. I can't imagine being with someone who didn't like gaming. I spend far too much time gaming, and I could see it being a problem if my boyfriend didn't like games.
Having things in common seems like it should always be important when looking for a partner.
I'm like inordinately attracted to bisexual dudes, have no idea why.
Yeah I'd like to have a few things in common with a future bf. Gaming would be a big one so we can always play together.
Thanks! I'm gonna spend the next few days updating my portfolio (I'm a graphic designer) so I can apply to some job offers just to try my luck (though I guess my job is not exactly high-demand).
Why? It sounds even more pointless than a straight crush...
You mean the guy who said all women are fucking crazy? Yeah, no thanks. You don't say those kinds of things and not expect to be banned. Looks only get you so far if you're a dick about touchy topics.
I think this is the smarter plan right now, though I will still try to look for opportunities while I'm in the Netherlands (and before).Re: Victor
Sounds like you'll be and feel better by moving to Colombia. At least as a starting point, with your dad close by and still close enough to your mother. Of course, always be careful.
I've done a couple of websites at the office but I don't do programming so I'm not sure. I'll start looking for jobs right after I update my portfolio this weekendIf you do anything web design related your job is in really high demand, here in Brazil and in Colombia.
"Países Bajos" is Spanish for Netherlads. It sounds so bad (literally "Low Countries", lol) Most people use "Holanda" anyway.
I've done a couple of websites at the office but I don't do programming so I'm not sure. I'll start looking for jobs right after I update my portfolio this weekend
"Países Bajos" is Spanish for Netherlads. It sounds so bad (literally "Low Countries", lol) Most people use "Holanda" anyway.