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[Badlucktroll]

j.

 

[michaeltraps]

Too bad it wasn't Chris' nudes.

More for the rest of us.

Scott looks better than Chris though

*thumbs up*

He would say stuff to me like "I want you to put it in my butt" and sexual things like "what did you think i would do with you". He also touched me alot like pushing his head into my chest and rubbed the hair on my arm. was this a TRAP?

Yeah... I really don't know what to make of this.

 

[Grakl]

He would say stuff to me like "I want you to put it in my butt" and sexual things like "what did you think i would do with you". He also touched me alot like pushing his head into my chest and rubbed the hair on my arm. was this a TRAP?

sounds like a tarp, stay away from crazy

 

[RatskyWatsky]

I had a super religious guy keep trying to find out if i was gay by being flirtatious, ect. I was like "WTF WHY!!!!!" Anyone know why he did this? he has a girlfriend and a super religious family.

Maybe he's gay and likes you?

 

[Badlucktroll]

He has a super religious family, is really into church, and he has a girlfriend. he acts homophobic but then he does stuff like that around me.

 

[Haly]

 

[Vazduh]

He has a super religious family, is really into church, and he has a girlfriend. he acts homophobic but then he does stuff like that around me.

I'd be cautious if I were you, you never know what his intentions may be.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

He has a super religious family, is really into church, and he has a girlfriend. he acts homophobic but then he does stuff like that around me.

Secret gay.

 

[Henchmen21]

Secret gay.

Have to agree. Probably deeply in the closet. Like Republican Politician levels closeted.

 

[Menaged]

The Evans brothers are not *that* hot IMO.
I'm watching Real Madrid now though, and I'm reminded how amazing Iker Casillas is...

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Since this topic was discussed just a while back (from the new Dan Savage)

Q:

My boyfriend of three months, “Marcus,” told me last week that he is a trans man. He has performed

Spoiler

oral sex on me and fingered me

, but he never let me reciprocate and told me he didn’t want to have penis-in-vagina sex yet because to him that was a large commitment. We go to college in a conservative part of the country, and almost no one here knows. He worried that if I found out, I would expose him to our friends and peers and perhaps even press charges (because we had sex when I did not know he was trans). Truthfully, had I known, I don’t think I would have had sex with Marcus. Before I found out he was trans, I was deeply attracted to him and was falling for him. Now, I no longer feel either of those things and do not know if I can continue dating him. I feel like a small-minded bigot that my romantic feelings about Marcus are based on something as randomly distributed as a penis. Marcus wants to continue to date and to have sex to see if my feelings can change. I don’t think they will. But I’ve never been in this position before, and I don’t know anyone who has, so maybe this is a growing experience? Am I being a bigot? I feel very alone because I can’t talk to any of my friends about Marcus being trans. Do you have any advice?

No Clever Acronym

A:

“NCA is clearly struggling,” said M. Dru Levasseur, a trans activist, attorney, and co-founder of the Jim Collins Foundation, an organization that funds gender-confirming surgeries for trans people. “She met a guy, she’s deeply attracted to him and is falling for him, and then she finds out something she didn’t expect. He’s trans.”

My two cents: You’re also struggling with the fact that you had sex—

Spoiler

oral and fingering count

—with someone you might not have had sex with if you had known this particular detail in advance of the oral and fingering. I believe that Marcus should have told you he was trans before you hooked up, NCA, and disclosing was in his own self-interest. But messing around with someone you wouldn’t have if you had known [insert relevant detail here] is a pretty common experience, NCA, and one most people bounce back from. And there are far worse forms of nondisclosure. While trans, poly, kinky, and poz folks are all pressured to disclose, the world would be a much happier place if abusers, users, assholes, and Fox News “personalities” were the ones who had to disclose before sex.

“There is absolutely no legal duty to disclose trans status,” added Levasseur. “A person’s trans status is ‘excruciatingly private’ and constitutionally protected information. There are lots of reasons why trans people might be stealth (or not out) like Marcus—for example, the terrifying rate of violence against trans people or the overwhelming statistics of discrimination. But I think disclosure is a good idea early on because it allows people to love you for who you are. Why not know that the person you are getting close to wants you? All of you. Don’t you want to find that out pretty early on? There are many people out there who think trans men are the ideal guys. Don’t waste your time on anyone else.”

Okay, NCA, let’s say you’ve explored your feelings and you’ve decided that you don’t want to keep seeing Marcus. Does that make you a bigot?

“It’s okay to have a preference—no judgment there,” said Levasseur. “If trans guys are not her thing, no harm done. I would just hope she is kind when she lets Marcus go. From what she says, it sounds like he wants to convince her to want him or love him, and no one should be in the business of doing that. Everyone deserves to be loved because, not although."

 

[michaeltraps]

Secret gay.

Have to agree. Probably deeply in the closet. Like Republican Politician levels closeted.

Yeah... tread with caution. He might be secretly looking for reciprocation, but you never know - he could panic if you ever comply and do something really uncool.

 

[mantidor]

His nudes leaked awhile ago.

I thought those were fake.

We already saw him in his undies in One Life to Live anyway. Maybe I am crazy but that less defined, a bit bulky body is just perfect. Toned and defined Chris Evans doesn't do the same for me.

The Evans brothers are not *that* hot IMO.

You clearly have bad taste

 

[dragonlife]

mean girls is now streaming on Netflix, go watch it

Spoiler

for the millionth time

Finally. It's time to rewatch this.

 

[enigmatic_alex44]

His nudes leaked awhile ago.

WHAT'S THAT NOW??? *runs to Google as quick as humanly possible*

Oh it was Scott, not Chris

 

[Vazra]

WHAT'S THAT NOW??? *runs to Google as quick as humanly possible*

Oh it was Scott, not Chris

Unlike his bro Chris has class. I expected someone with his Avi to know that.

 

[michaeltraps]

The Evans brothers are not *that* hot IMO.

WHAT'S THAT NOW??? *runs to Google as quick as humanly possible*
Oh it was Scott, not Chris

Unlike his bro Chris has class. I expected someone with his Avi to know that.

Y'all are crazy.

 

[Henchmen21]

Cinnamon Bread. Peanut Butter. Heavenly.

 

[Menaged]

Well, that was weird...

It's 2am in here, I'm about to got bed, when suddenly I recieve a message. Who is it? Well, it's a friend's friend - so basically I don't really talk to him (he's gay).

He asked me why I'm online at Grinder, so I said "nothing", which is true, since I wasn't looking for anything. He, on the other hand, was looking for sex.

After a few minutes of chating, I told him I'm off to bed, and wished him best of luck.
Then he said that he won't find anything now, and he's too tired for sex, and just wants to have fun.

At this point I became a tad suspicious. I asked myself if I should invite him over for some fun (he lives like a 5 minutes walk from me). Of course I didn't because I'm a coward and it's an akward situation since we have mutual friends.

Anyway, we talked a bit more about stuff, and that's it...

I have no idea if I'm making stuff up or he actually wanted to hang out.

And yes, he looks quite good, and funny, and in the past I thought about trying to make a move - maybe ask our mutual friend to feel the ground, but for some reason I was sure he's not interested one bit in me.

 

[Delio]

Well, that was weird...

It's 2am in here, I'm about to got bed, when suddenly I recieve a message. Who is it? Well, it's a friend's friend - so basically I don't really talk to him (he's gay).

He asked me why I'm online at Grinder, so I said "nothing", which is true, since I wasn't looking for anything. He, on the other hand, was looking for sex.

After a few minutes of chating, I told him I'm off to bed, and wished him best of luck.
Then he said that he won't find anything now, and he's too tired for sex, and just wants to have fun.

At this point I became a tad suspicious. I asked myself if I should invite him over for some fun (he lives like a 5 minutes walk from me). Of course I didn't because I'm a coward and it's an akward situation since we have mutual friends.

Anyway, we talked a bit more about stuff, and that's it...

I have no idea if I'm making stuff up or he actually wanted to hang out.

And yes, he looks quite good, and funny, and in the past I thought about trying to make a move - maybe ask our mutual friend to feel the ground, but for some reason I was sure he's not interested one bit in me.

Wait what makes it akward? I mean unless your friend dated this guy then who cares if you hook up with him?

 

[Menaged]

Wait what makes it akward? I mean unless your friend dated this guy then who cares if you hook up with him?

It's not dating him that would be akward, it was the inviting him over at 2am when I'm really not sure of his intentions.

Anyway, I should really go to bed already, lol.

 

[Delio]

It's not dating him that would be akward, it was the inviting him over at 2am when I'm really not sure of his intentions.

Anyway, I should really go to bed already, lol.

I mean he did say he wanted to have fun. I would have playfully asked if he wanted to come over. But eh not everyone would like that.

 

[enigmatic_alex44]

Unlike his bro Chris has class. I expected someone with his Avi to know that.

no, I know Chris has class one of the many reasons he's my #1 fave <3

edit: the wait to see Cap 2 is just UNBEARABLE at this point, only 3 more days.........

 

[Dany]

It's not dating him that would be akward, it was the inviting him over at 2am when I'm really not sure of his intentions.

Anyway, I should really go to bed already, lol.

He wanted fun because he was too tired for sex. You seemingly want something more with him?

 

[michaeltraps]

Well, that was weird...

It's 2am in here, I'm about to got bed, when suddenly I recieve a message. Who is it? Well, it's a friend's friend - so basically I don't really talk to him (he's gay).

He asked me why I'm online at Grinder, so I said "nothing", which is true, since I wasn't looking for anything. He, on the other hand, was looking for sex.

After a few minutes of chating, I told him I'm off to bed, and wished him best of luck.
Then he said that he won't find anything now, and he's too tired for sex, and just wants to have fun.

At this point I became a tad suspicious. I asked myself if I should invite him over for some fun (he lives like a 5 minutes walk from me). Of course I didn't because I'm a coward and it's an akward situation since we have mutual friends.

Anyway, we talked a bit more about stuff, and that's it...

I have no idea if I'm making stuff up or he actually wanted to hang out.

And yes, he looks quite good, and funny, and in the past I thought about trying to make a move - maybe ask our mutual friend to feel the ground, but for some reason I was sure he's not interested one bit in me.

Eh, nothing really lost. If you weren't in the mood to invite him over, then leave it at that. Should this happen again, you can be prepared for either (fun or hanging out) and then just roll with it.

 

[Replicant]

Chris >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Scott.

He has a super religious family, is really into church, and he has a girlfriend. he acts homophobic but then he does stuff like that around me.

Avoid, avoid, avoid. You're not his plaything to experiment and explore his latent homosexual feeling. Even better: unfriend him on Facebook if you have him there. The last thing you want is to crush on an unavailable guy who's confused by his sexuality.

 

[TheSeks]

I've had a tumblr for a while now and I'm still not sure what purpose it is when there is numerous other porn sites/avenues available.

Basically, I'm not sure why I got an account. :/

 

[Escape Goat]

nope

Try having lunch up there with the building swaying back and forth.

blaaargh

 

[Haly]

I've had a tumblr for a while now and I'm still not sure what purpose it is when there is numerous other porn sites/avenues available.

Basically, I'm not sure why I got an account. :/

Peer pressure.

 

[Sai-kun]

I've had a tumblr for a while now and I'm still not sure what purpose it is when there is numerous other porn sites/avenues available.

Basically, I'm not sure why I got an account. :/

art, music, photography, funny stuff, inspirational stuff, etc?

 

[Bladenic]

There's a difference between fun and sex?

 

[Delio]

I've had a tumblr for a while now and I'm still not sure what purpose it is when there is numerous other porn sites/avenues available.

Basically, I'm not sure why I got an account. :/

Random art? Music?

I have two and use one to reblog home decor, random writing stuff, video game stuff.

While the second is my "Porn catch all" Tumblr has so many uses.

 

[Badlucktroll]

He

 

[Haly]

Either he has serious issues or he is a natural troll.

 

[Dany]

It's never too late to discover your own sexuality. He seems overly playful but perhaps he's genuinely a nice guy or he's afraid of what his appearance/actions might portray him as.

He kind of reminds me of a coworker but for him I at least know he's always joshing.

 

[Badlucktroll]

Either he has serious issues or he is a natural troll.

something tells me that he is trolling big time and he is straight. he dated a reaaaaly hot girl. he tried to "compete" with me to see if she would pick me or him. she picked him (he is hot). that made me feel really bad.

 

[Haly]

something tells me that he is trolling big time and he is straight. he dated a reaaaaly hot girl. he tried to "compete" with me to see if she would pick me or him. she picked him (he is hot). that made me feel really bad.

Sounds like a huge cock in that case then.

 

[michaeltraps]

something tells me that he is trolling big time and he is straight. he dated a reaaaaly hot girl. he tried to "compete" with me to see if she would pick me or him. she picked him (he is hot). that made me feel really bad.

This guy sounds like an absolute tool.

 

[Badlucktroll]

I .

 

[Sai-kun]

something tells me that he is trolling big time and he is straight. he dated a reaaaaly hot girl. he tried to "compete" with me to see if she would pick me or him. she picked him (he is hot). that made me feel really bad.

wow he sounds like a real winner

 

[Dany]

Yeah, I'd put some distance between you and him

 

[Bladenic]

Every subsequent post of yours makes me wanna punch this dude in the face all the more. Why exactly are you spending any time with him?

 

[Haly]

This is from Rick and Morty. Go watch.

 

[Badlucktroll]

.

 

[Haly]

Nah, I'm not saying he's one of those guys, I'm saying he deserves to be punched and spit on.

 

[michaeltraps]

I rewound this at least ten times when watching that episode. Show is fucking genius.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

He would say stuff to me like "So i DO get to see you later!". When i texted him and stuff he would say shit like "don't be turning gay on me". and "you are straight as a rainbow i bet". I saw him looking at my butt once with a slight grin on his face. I also know he has never done anything sexual with a girl for "religious" purposes. So, he would be all happy and flirty one moment, standoffish and homophobic the next. He asked me to go to lunch with him, i agreed, and he was almost totally silent, and he wouldn't look me in the fuckin eye. He has commented about my ice blue eyes before. he said "are your eyes turquoise?" and "i bet your blue eyes save you!". He has also asked if i "had been hitting the gym". I also playfully tried to get a magazine away from him and he get rubbing his hands on my arms as he batted them away. he also said "were you trying to get me alone?". His mother and his church condemn homosexuality.

Invite him to sleep over.

 

[Bladenic]

I rewound this at least ten times when watching that episode. Show is fucking genius.

What show is it from?

 

[michaeltraps]

What show is it from?

Rick and Morty. A Dan Harmon (creator of Community) joint. It airs on Adult Swim, and they have most episodes available for streaming on AdultSwim.com.

EDIT: Not Ricky, Rick. Woops.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

What show is it from?

It's fucking hilarious bro. One of the best shows on TV atm.