Yeah, I didn't know any gay people in high school, either. Funnily enough, there were two guys that I definitely suspected of being gay, but then...they got girlfriends. Funnily enough, there was one girl who had ended up dating each one of them at one point. She must have been confused because apparently, they did indeed do stuff together...
A year after high school, they both came out with a lot of support from their family and ended up getting boyfriends.
Meanwhile, I've known I was gay since I was 12 (and never had any doubt or confusion about it), and I am neither out to my parents nor have I had a boyfriend. Funny how things work out!
It was tough feeling like the only gay person in the city, though. There were no openly gay people in school, and the same thing applied for the city at large (due to the laws in place against homosexuality).
Not sure why I ended up ranting. But yeah, you weren't alone.
I went through school pretty much feeling I was the only one too. Oddly enough it never really made me feel bad, I always had plenty of friends even if they were straight. As a result, maybe, I'm 26 and all my offline friends are straight :x I downright don't know how to get homo friends. This cripples my dating scene greatly, lol.
I went through school pretty much feeling I was the only one too. Oddly enough it never really made me feel bad, I always had plenty of friends even if they were straight. As a result, maybe, I'm 26 and all my offline friends are straight :x I downright don't know how to get homo friends. This cripples my dating scene greatly, lol.
Yeah, this pretty much mirrors my own sentiments and situation. Plenty of straight friends (although mostly girls it feels like, these days), but the elusive gays are still out of reach. Not that a shared sexual orientation is necessarily a good foundation for a friendship, mind.
There were quite a few openly gay people in my high school (had an encounter with two of them!). I think it was because we were in the smart kid program, which was a much safer environment.
There were quite a few openly gay people in my high school (had an encounter with two of them!). I think it was because we were in the smart kid program, which was a much safer environment.
Same here. I never liked He-Man. I found the show stupid and ugly. Sailor Moon on the other hand - watched every single episode along with three movies.
Being a 5'5 latino guy in a Germany, I always thought I'd be in men's heaven with the white giants 6'5 and above you can find here but after a couple of dates, it's not there where happiness lies, lol, chemistry shall not be underestimated.
even so, walking near 6'5 guys in the street makes me go hhhmm, lol (when it happens, I don't go out of my way to get near them or anything)
I don't think I'll ever date any guy here in Germany shorter than me. Unless it's another hispanic or asian but a white/german guy? that'd be very rare.
not that I am unhappy with my height but I am curious:
like what? teach us short folk.
one thing I can think of is your guy can pic you up easily, if he's into that.
One thing that I don't like is that if you hug a big/tall guy from behind, you can't cover or embrace them so it's kind of frustrating that they won't feel your hug the way they should :-( I'd have to think of other methods to make them feel well regarding physical but non-sexual gestures of love.
by the way, Austin Wolf is 6'4, that's 1,93 cm so he isn't one of the biggest guys there are but I asume short guys are his thing. Google images shows mostly pics of him with guys that are at least a complete head shorter than him.
Being a 5'5 latino guy in a Germany, I always thought I'd be in men's heaven with the white giants 6'5 and above you can find here but after a couple of dates, it's not there where happiness lies, lol, chemistry shall not be underestimated.
Being easier to pick up means there might be more things to try in sex as you would be easier to handle some positions bigger people might struggle doing.
Being short adds a cute factor to the couple by one being taller than the other.
Laying on your lover while making out or resting on his chest bothers less *That is considering your weight is proportionate of your height*
People might think you are younger than you actually are
Shorter People seem to have bigger dicks
Among the fact you can fit some places better and at some events people might let you go through the front cause of the height.
BTW I'm 6'0 feet tall but I simply share the knowledge from a small friend. (He is 5'3) Also just enough things as they are and do not let anyone bother you about the height.
Being easier to pick up means there might be more things to try in sex as you would be easier to handle some positions bigger people might struggle doing.
Being short adds a cute factor to the couple by one being taller than the other.
Laying on your lover while making out or resting on his chest bothers less *That is considering your weight is proportionate of your height*
People might think you are younger than you actually are
Shorter People seem to have bigger dicks
Among the fact you can fit some places better and at some events people might let you go through the front cause of the height.
BTW I'm 6'0 feet tall but I simply share the knowledge from a small friend. (He is 5'3) Also just enough things as they are and do not let anyone bother you about the height.
yeah, I've caught myself having those thoughts too.
the question is, do tall guys think the same way? I tend to think the answer is no. I see plenty of short guys thinking it's the cutest thing ever, a tall and a short guy, but most tall guys either don't care about their partner being short or they actively avoid guys under a certain height but very rarely have I seen a tall guy drooling over a short guy. It happens, I know, but less often than the other way around.
about the dicks, I think it's an optical ilusion. your 5'3 friend very likely has a regular dick but in the body of a guy that short, it looks more prominent. What my gym lockers have taught me is that there is absolutely no correlation between height and size of the dick, zero, it's completely random.
yeah, I've caught myself having those thoughts too.
the question is, do tall guys think the same way? I tend to think the answer is no. I see plenty of short guys thinking it's the cutest thing ever, a tall and a short guy, but most tall guys either don't care about their partner being short or they actively avoid guys under a certain height but very rarely have I seen a tall guy drooling over a short guy. It happens, I know, but less often than the other way around.
about the dicks, I think it's an optical ilusion. your 5'3 friend very likely has a regular dick but in the body of a guy that short, it looks more prominent. What my gym lockers have taught me is that there is absolutely no correlation between height and size of the dick, zero, it's completely random.
Not everyone thinks the same because everyone has their preferences but you shouldn't bother much with that. I know the dick thing would be an illusion but it does help at making them more attractive towards the taller guys with that illusion.
I go back and forth on RDJ as Tony. On one hand he's funny and charming and likable but on the other hand he's obnoxious and arrogant and a bit of a douche.
Not everyone thinks the same because everyone has their preferences but you shouldn't bother much with that. I know the dick thing would be an illusion but it does help at making them more attractive towards the taller guys with that illusion.
I tell my friends that the lockers alone should be a motivation to hit the gym. There's muscled, sweaty guys everywhere and free, live cock and naked bodies to watch in there.
You can't touch and they are straight but who cares. Seeing a guy 5 feet away from you flexing his huge arms and his humongous back in front of the mirror is VERY appealing to me.
I go back and forth on RDJ as Tony. On one hand he's funny and charming and likable but on the other hand he's obnoxious and arrogant and a bit of a douche.