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LGBThread |OT4| We're (still) Here! We're (still) Queer!

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Hige

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Height used to be a huge point of contention with me, but I'm mostly over it except a few occasions. My boyfriend is WAY taller than me, and neither of us mind the difference.
Do you mean your own height was a point of contention or your height preference in other people? I was always one of the shortest kids every year in school, so I had such an issue with it growing up. Somehow made it to average height in the end, thankfully.
 

daripad

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My growth was weird. I was just taller than 5 guys at school and the rest of them were taller at the beginning. In thw end, out of nowhere, I was just shorter than 5 guys there lol. That was in secondary school
then I stopped growing up lol.
 

Bladenic

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Do you mean your own height was a point of contention or your height preference in other people? I was always one of the shortest kids every year in school, so I had such an issue with it growing up. Somehow made it to average height in the end, thankfully.

My own height. I'm pretty short and used to be self conscious about it
especially when I was dating girls
Now I don't really care, though I still wish I was taller sometimes.
 
I'm 177 cm and I'm almost the shortest person in my circle of friends, one guy is 169 cm but several of my other friends are taller than 190 cm. :(
I'm only attracted to taller guys, so thankfully, there are a lot of taller guys than me here lol.

The school nurse said I would be around 182-183 cm when I was younger according to the charts, the bitch robbed me of 5-6 cm.
 
There's definitely a lot of heightism (much of it self-imposed) amongst short guys.

I'm the shortest out my two brothers and I, and they're always making jokes about it, but I can honestly say I've never once felt inadequate or self-conscious because I'm not as tall as them.
 
We're talking about height!? 5'5 (and a half), 160 pounds. I'm a hobbit.

I've recently gotten into soccer and oh my is that entire sport easy on the eyes. Much easier to get invested.
 
We're almost BMI buddies :p Yeah, I definitely need to gain weight. I can't get enough motivation to join a gym and having even less free time, honestly :(

I wish muscle building was easy at home, I seriously think I would be able to stick to a regime if it were more convenient.
 
Playing soccer or watching it? :)

I'm bad at spirts in general, though I'd say I have gotten better at soccer recently. Soccer is easy if you keep playing it regularly.

Right now, just watching (and playing, virtually - actually just got a PS4 yesterday and bought FIFA 14 to play with a buddy of mine).

Though, I'd like to eventually play IRL. Looking to move into NYC this fall, so I might be able to find a soccer group once I'm settled.
 

red13th

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Soccer is is terrible. Being Brazilian it's basically everywhere, it's annoying.
There are some good things about it like Cristiano Ronaldo, but meh.

EDIT: Oh and the jerseys, I have like 6 soccer jerseys.
 

scarlet

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I'm starting to think that I've got an incredibly ugly face or something. I have a shirtless with face showing pic on the Scruff app. I get very few messages and the ones I send are ignored. I do get habitual viewers, guys who cruise my profile but never say hi even if I have. But on Grindr I have a headless torso shot which gets a lot of responses, until I send my face pic which results in once again being ignored.

I'm starting to hate these apps, they are doing a major number on my confidence. Not that I've had much of any before.

Avoiding judgements, is this typical? Seems like unless your white, 6feet, 200 lbs of muscle, with sleeve tatoos you might as well be dead.

You're hot. Don't let those apps ruin your confidence.

I'm kind of on the other side of things right now. A extremely hot guy is writing me/sending me pics on grindr and I think it's just too good to be true.

EDIT: did a reverse google image search and yes, it was too good to be true, now some random ugly guy in the Netherlands has my nudes :p

Uhm, receipt please.

I'm 27 yo, 1.74 m, 73 kg.
I'm into someone older, taller and heavier than me.

I love bear, beards, tattoos, glasses and funny guy.

Smoking is a big turn off.
 
Uhm, receipt please.

The thirst...

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It's real
 
So I'm on my way to my casino gig tonight, and I have to sing a bunch of crooner songs so I decided to use pomade to get that like shiny Frank Sinatra look, and I thought id be comfortable with it and all since I'm Italian.. But I feel sorta greasy ;_; LOL
 
I'm starting to think that I've got an incredibly ugly face or something. I have a shirtless with face showing pic on the Scruff app. I get very few messages and the ones I send are ignored. I do get habitual viewers, guys who cruise my profile but never say hi even if I have. But on Grindr I have a headless torso shot which gets a lot of responses, until I send my face pic which results in once again being ignored.

I'm starting to hate these apps, they are doing a major number on my confidence. Not that I've had much of any before.

Avoiding judgements, is this typical? Seems like unless your white, 6feet, 200 lbs of muscle, with sleeve tatoos you might as well be dead.

:( Space dont pay mind to those people at all. It has nothing to do with you, its about how shallow those people are. As mentioned before the app may be prone to get guys like that and only foster any insecurities that should not be any in the first place. You're a good looking man and you dont need those random strangers on that apps validation at all. Plus you know you're more than just good looks on top of that too, that people on an app cant get to see. We cant get these standards of beauty get us down
 

Bladenic

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So I'm on my way to my casino gig tonight, and I have to sing a bunch of crooner songs so I decided to use pomade to get that like shiny Frank Sinatra look, and I thought id be comfortable with it and all since I'm Italian.. But I feel sorta greasy ;_; LOL

You look amazing. Love the red/black ensemble. You'll do great, I'm sure.
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
I'm starting to think that I've got an incredibly ugly face or something.

You don't have an ugly face. Fo cereal ur fine man don't let those vain bitches get to you <3

Off-topic, but...
HBO's Looking was renewed for Season 2!!! :D!!!!

LOOKING!!!!!

I honestly wasn't much aware of it until this thread, where I noticed a lot of guys are down on themselves for thinking they are short. And I was told that "heightism is a real issue".

Those tweets are V.I.L.E.
 

Sai-kun

Banned
Follow my new nude selfies blog on tumblr:

lmao can u imagine tho

Also I see a certain Ratsky has joined Twitter. Icu sis!

Everyone else who hasn't yet: follow me on twitter @sai__kun (two underscores)!!! I'm a really great tweeter I promise
 

Sibylus

Banned
Follow my new nude selfies blog on tumblr:

lmao can u imagine tho

Also I see a certain Ratsky has joined Twitter. Icu sis!

Everyone else who hasn't yet: follow me on twitter @sai__kun (two underscores)!!! I'm a really great tweeter I promise
Don't make a girl a promise...
 

Caladrius

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I am immensely aroused by the prospect of being dominated by someone 3-4 inches shorter than me. I usually lose out on the size department compared to most people so it'd be a nice surprise.

It's TMI Thursday right?

I'm short as fuck (RDJ size)

I read that as Ronnie James Dio.

And 5'9" is about average.
 

Cosmic Bus

pristine morning snow
5'4" and bf is 5'2" The struggle is real, you towering buffoons.

Short almost invariably matches up with short; [nearly all] tall or even average height dudes have always acted like I was invisible.
 

fernoca

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5'8", 130lbs since 13 years old...I'll be 32 in August.
Still single, so no boyfriend to compare to.
Though the friend I mentioned some days ago is like 6'3"...and so handsome! <3!

I don't mind height (or any size of anyone/anything).

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