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Meet in public?

Yeah, that's what we agreed on. I'm probably just being dumb. I'm nervous because I haven't met up with anyone in too long. And the experience I mentioned earlier doesn't help my confidence.

I think maybe grindr works a little different over here because many of the guys I've seen in it don't seem to be looking for casual sex. Maybe I'm wrong.
 

Vazra

irresponsible vagina leak
Yeah, that's what we agreed on. I'm probably just being dumb. I'm nervous because I haven't met up with anyone in too long. And the experience I mentioned earlier doesn't help my confidence.

I think maybe grindr works a little different over here because many of the guys I've seen in it don't seem to be looking for casual sex. Maybe I'm wrong.

Well if you guys are meeting up in public I think you shouldn't worry too much. Have a nice conversation, grab a drink or something to eat and see how things go. The worst that can happen is that there is no compatibility and the date is awkward and that is not gonna kill you. Actually in the other hand it will help you see what you like to do for dates and ease up with future conversations.

What is a date?
 

DOWN

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HPV can cause a plethora of cancers. Why treat it any less seriously than AIDS was treated in the 70s?

Don't do this to yourself. Don't go there with the all-or-nothing risk spiel.

Nearly all sexually active people get HPV in their life, but the cancers in men are uncommon. HPV generally goes away on its own.

It's not remotely of the gravity of AIDS in the 70s.

That's so extreme lmao
 

Bladenic

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throwback thirsday

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Omfg WHO?

Also Leona sis being hopeful that KH3 will be released in 2016
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
I'd say about three years? A person could learn it a lot sooner, when I started I had no idea what I was doing and I had to unlearn a lot of what I thought about meditation. I was also just consulting meditation manuals, which is no substitute for asking experienced people specific questions about methods and the kinds of experiences I was having. I was also experimenting with a lot of different methods to try to find one that really worked for me, and that sets back your progress in some ways, too. One advantage of taking the scenic route though is I developed enough of an internal understanding that I was able to develop my own system of practice after I got to a certain point, because I had mapped out enough of the terrain in my meandering way so that I knew enough landmarks to navigate around, I could set aside the set path or technique and just rely on my knowledge that I was headed in a particular general direction. And that's what meditation is all about, technique doesn't really matter, the result is what tells you everything you need to know. It can be pretty time consuming to learn that way though, but experimentation (whether on your own or under a teacher) is I think the best way to learn it more thoroughly.

You should write a book about your methods and experiences!
 
HPV can cause a plethora of cancers. Why treat it any less seriously than AIDS was treated in the 70s?

Don't do this to yourself. Don't go there with the all-or-nothing risk spiel.

Nearly all sexually active people get HPV in their life, but the cancers in men are uncommon. HPV generally goes away on its own.

It's not remotely of the gravity of AIDS in the 70s.

That's so extreme lmao

You guys are off ten years. AIDS started in the 80s
 
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What about Tindr?

Also what do you guys think about unprotected oral sex? You can get HPV from it.

My concern is more HSV than HPV, since herpes sticks around for life and can be transmitted mouth-to-genital and the reverse. Thankfully, the worst thing about herpes is the stigma (rather than the health risk), but it's still something I think about.

To any readers: I'm a huge worrywart and hypochondriac, so please don't let anything I say scare you.
 

DOWN

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Going to a pajama party tomorrow but joke's on them because I don't wear anything to bed

Jk but I'm looking forward to S'mores pie and charades apparently. And Head's Up, which I am master of. I can dish Kylie Jenner hints like nobody's business.
 

Bladenic

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I feel like I am always hearing about some gay porn star going to prison.

Another interesting porn tidbit (lol), some guy named Kurt Wild who's straight and married with like 4 runts returned to porn this year after subway fired him for his past career.
 
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Perhaps this is more a POPGAF topic because of the artist, but I think the topic has some relevance to our community.

Lady Gaga just released a song (cowritten with Diane Warren) about sexual assault. The video is graphic and made me very uncomfortable watching it, so if anyone is sensitive when it comes to this topic, I suggest watching with extreme caution. From the video description: "A portion of proceeds from the sale of the song will be donated to organizations helping survivors of sexual assault." It's from the film The Hunting Ground.

Video - "Til It Happens To You"
 

Kater

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That reminds me of the Spongebob film!

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I love that style, haha

I have no doubt though that those shoes must really hurt your feet if you wear them for hours. :s
 
I can't deal with that thread where people are in agreement with what that Arrow actor said about the Ahmed situation.

Sorry, but white peoples from Texas getting upset that shade is being thrown at them is not the same as racial profiling a child who got arrested. Stereotypes suck, but I don't see the point of making such a dumb ass Twitter rant. Why is it when something happens to minorities, there are always white people trying to compare and equate one of their struggles? There is no comparisons, bye.
 
I can't deal with that thread where people are in agreement with what that Arrow actor said about the Ahmed situation.

Sorry, but white peoples from Texas getting upset that shade is being thrown at them is not the same as racial profiling a child who got arrested. Stereotypes suck, but I don't see the point of making such a dumb ass Twitter rant. Why is it when something happens to minorities, there are always white people trying to compare and equate one of their struggles? There is no comparisons, bye.
tbh they complain about "pc society" but are weak as fuck when they have to face something similar to what pretty much any minority has to face on a daily basis, it's fucking hilarious.
 
I can say this here.

all those people who go on and on about "pc culture" ruining everything and "sjw", "trigger warnings gone crazy", "victimhood culture", can all fuck off.

I wonder how many of them have had to face being treated like shit or hiding who they are on a nearly daily basis for being in the minority. hmm?

woo, the things I would say...
I've been thinking about this today. Like, what kind of dick do you have to be to go kicking and screaming on the internet about not being able to call someone a faggot or make sexist jokes? Like how shitty do you have to be
 

Golnei

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I've been thinking about this today. Like, what kind of dick do you have to be to go kicking and screaming on the internet about not being able to call someone a faggot or make sexist jokes? Like how shitty do you have to be

At the very least, ignorant and oblivious enough to equate calling for the slightest amount of accountability on their part to entrenched prejudices that regularly threaten people's lives, and that's being charitable. And then there's the even more thinly veiled outbursts of the 'but why can't I hit women' and 'if I did that to [...] I'd be called [...]' brigade that can always be counted on to rear their heads.
 

halfbeast

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watching the latest ANTM episode I wonder how straight people react to gay centric commercials. I can't think of many gays who would avoid a deodorant because a dude was sucking a woman's face in the ad. are there straight people wearing Andrew Christian?

also:

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i would post some pics of hot guys since it's a new page, but my taste sucks, so i'll wait for someone else to do it

speaking of poor taste, how's that hotties of 2015 list coming along?
 

Kater

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watching the latest ANTM episode I wonder how straight people react to gay centric commercials. I can't think of many gays who would avoid a deodorant because a dude was sucking a woman's face in the ad. are there straight people wearing Andrew Christian?
Which ad, would you have a link for me?

He reminds me of John Malkovich, just a lot bulkier than the actor. And a bit younger too.
 
I had a date with a guy last night who had been in a relationship since he was 19 (hes 33). They broke up a year ago. Should that worry me? I dont think it should but I cant really describe what it makes me feel. And its only one date so its not like hes at the boyfriend stage by any means.


Which ad, would you have a link for me?


He reminds me of John Malkovich, just a lot bulkier than the actor. And a bit younger too.

I cant unsee it.
 

Kater

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Some of them look like they could be only 5 years or so older than you, BD. :p They could never be you daddy, unless they adopted you when you in your late teens.

Beautiful men though.
 

Cheddahz

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This is all too fucking adorable and I hate you.
:O PLS GIVE US UPDATES. T___T

I ended up going over to his place last night and we hung out with some of his friends (one them I've actually been friends with since middle school and it was kinda weird at first, but I got comfortable after a while). We just decided to order a pizza, watch movies, and yeah, it was just a really nice time (almost fell asleep on him while we were on the couch, but I managed to wake up to get home lol)
 
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