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LGBTQIA+ | OT7 | ~First comes love, then comes marriage~

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At least you know now instead of 5 dates down the road. Sometimes the realization you arent a match isnt so easily seen. I had a date with a guy a few days ago and we had a lot to talk about and hes cute as a button but hes also a bit more femme than I am usually into. But it doesnt really bother me now like it did when I was younger. Hopefully Date 2 goes well.

True.

happens sometimes. but why do you think you're boring? I hate when you're on a date and you can tell the dude's not into you, doesn't have the balls to tell you, though. you end up with 3 hours of awkward conversations.

Well, I think he was maybe looking for someone with a more exciting lifestyle.

I think at first he was attracted to me, but he seemed to lose interest as things went on. I wasn't feeling it though, so that probably didn't help things. At some point I think he expected me to make a move lol, but it's hard for me to be like that. We are very different people.

And looked a little different from his pictures lol
 

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Well, I think he was maybe looking for someone with a more exciting lifestyle.

I think at first he was attracted to me, but he seemed to lose interest as things went on. I wasn't feeling it though, so that probably didn't help things. At some point I think he expected me to make a move lol, but it's hard for me to be like that. We are very different people.

And looked a little different from his pictures lol

I call myself boring too lol

I haven't tried as many things as my friends when it comes to food and drinking, and I don't have any exciting night out stories of my own.

That said, there's usually still plenty to talk about once your walls come down.
 

3phemeral

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not into food porn tbh
 

RatskyWatsky

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That is literally what happened to me last night (well, date #4, but yeah). The thing is, I felt that we were getting along so well with each other, so now I'm super self-conscious about what I did wrong. =(

Trust me, it doesn't matter. The reasons are not relevant. All that matters is he didn't communicate over whatever issue he might have had, so that alone is reason enough for you to move on.

Happy Birthday ZP and the Quiet One! :D

Thank you sir!

David Verdaguer
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He looks great clean shaven. The beard trend needs to be dialed back a notch.

it's okay. I turned 31 today

Happy birthday! Wishing you a day full of debauchery.

Happy Birthday!

Thanks Ratsky :D
 
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Happy birthday to everyone who's been celebrating recently!

Date night and I'm in charge of the plans this time eek

Oooo, is this the third date? Have fun! Is it too late to book a plane to fly by with a message?

More seriously, I'm a big fan of going places and seeing things by just walking around interesting areas. Great opportunity for conversation, making memories through shared experiences, and both getting that sense of discovery. Waterfront areas are pretty at night. But some people find that boring, so don't hold my advice in high regard.
 

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Oooo, is this the third date? Have fun! Is it too late to book a plane to fly by with a message?

More seriously, I'm a big fan of going places and seeing things by just walking around interesting areas. Great opportunity for conversation, making memories through shared experiences, and both getting that sense of discovery. Waterfront areas are pretty at night. But some people find that boring, so don't hold my advice in high regard.

The first date was a bit like that and then second was cooking at his place, so I'm going to change it up and make it a bit more American™, so we are going to Smashburger and then to a neat pool hall I was at on Monday that I was telling him about.
 
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The first date was a bit like that and then second was cooking at his place, so I'm going to change it up and make it a bit more American™, so we are going to Smashburger and then to a neat pool hall I was at on Monday that I was telling him about.

Ooo, nice job with the theme. Let us know how it goes!
 

Kevyt

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I find (for the lack of a better word) twink guys scary...

Thank for wishes :3

Happy birthday to you too, wooo same day!

Happy birthday day achtius!

It's amazing how all of you don't really show your age. But then again at your 30's y'all are still as fresh as in your 20's.
 

Haly

One day I realized that sadness is just another word for not enough coffee.
Dolphins are jerks.

I like Sea Otters. Otters are also jerks, though.
 

Kater

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Anyway, I've watched some more Shimoneta and I am a bit annoyed that one of the characters who has a crush on another guy is always ridiculed by the writer. :/

Otherwise it's a pretty funny anime.
 

Kevyt

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I am generalizing when I say this, but I don't find them very attractive, but I'm not going to go into the details... lol you just want to use this against me probably. I know you hun.

What...? lol

I won't use this against you? :p

I was just talking about this with my friend actually, and while I realize that twink is just another label, for the lack of a better word, I find most guys that fit in this category are somewhat much more judgmental and condescending. Yet again, I think this would be more about age and maturity than anything else. So let me not generalize.

Edit: you don't know me, and don't "hun" me, my sweet summer child. :p

btw, biscuits and gravy.
 

halfbeast

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I am generalizing when I say this, but I don't find them very attractive, but I'm not going to go into the details... lol you just want to use this against me probably. I know you hun.

it's ok, go into details, please. could use some drama here. :B

*grabs popcorn*
 

Haly

One day I realized that sadness is just another word for not enough coffee.
I would say I'm twink-ish and also very condescending so that's +1 for Seath's theory.
 

Kevyt

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Has science gone too far? Or more like, has Naughty Dog gone too far?

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It's too realistic!

I would say I'm twink-ish and also very condescending so that's +1 for Seath's theory.

But you're not condescending?

Let's just say I'll take right over left any day of the week hun.

The smile just makes it so much creepier. Like, it's waiting for you to make a mistake or something...

So you're right handed?

I know right. It's awe inspiring, I'm telling you!
 
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On first glance, I don't find "twinks" as attractive as other body types. That said, I find it weird to criticize "twinks" because membership isn't always voluntary (body size and hair). I mean, a lot of high school and young college gays are "twinks" by default. I guess there's a difference between twink by circumstance and twink by choice, though, and perhaps Seath is talking about the latter.
 

scarlet

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I was a twink 7 years ago lol.

It's really hard being a twink when you're into bears/bigger guys and most bears prefer similar body type.
 
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