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LGBTQIA+ | OT7 | ~First comes love, then comes marriage~
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Henchmen21
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Judging by the pics you've posted, I actually see that
Don't you do the same though. 😐
You look really hot. I love the glasses.
You so rock with glasses on.
Pamplemousse
Member
Have you posted here before? If not, do the IBQ in the first post. As for the texting, I guess ask questions and act interested in him.
No, I talk about my voice not my appearance. I may post something at some point because I want advice from DP on how to bulk up.
Dead Prince
Banned
you can PM me your stats and pic. everything you send with me is confidential unlike some unnamed people
jk. i'm just being messy but feel free to send me a message
Interframe
Member
Oh thanks, I've posted here before a couple times but wasn't aware of the IBQ
Your gender? Male
Your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Where Are You From? Ontario, Canada
Where Do You Live? Greater Toronto Area
How Old Are you? 21
Favorite Type of Music? Hip hop
Profession or Career interest? IT
Favorite video game(s)? Metal Gear series. Heavy Rain, Life is Strange
What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Music production, reading, geeky stuff
User 73706
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had a dude start a conversation without any pics or stats up going "what's your nationality"
Soulscribe
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That's how I've always imagined him. :0
had a dude start a conversation without any pics or stats up going "what's your nationality"
I've gotten an unsolicited "are you white?" before, wasn't sure what the intention was. When I'm confused I just send pictures of bologna
kitchenmotors
Banned
had a dude start a conversation without any pics or stats up going "what's your nationality"
I've gotten that question before up front, since I'm mixed or people tend to do something like start speaking spanish to me, which I don't know any bit of.
charmed699
Neo Member
I'm super hairy and a flirt so I'd say accurate.
I can see you walking up to a guy and ask him if he wants to touch you whilst you are sucking a lollipop. Brilliant game. I still remember how excited I was to play it just before it was released. I didn't stop playing for weeks until I 100% completed.
Who is he? I'm glad someone likes shorter guys. Most guys I went on dates with or flirted with in the past seemed to be really turned off as soon as they saw me or I told them my height.
Ben Baur, star of the series Hunting Season where he has hot steamy gay sex in every single 10 minute episode. He's quite careful at not showing the goods though, which makes it even hotter when you get a peek
Also I'm super short myself but I really like the idea of being the same height and body shape as this guy, makes me think I could have a body like that if I really tried.
Mostmanlyman
Member
I love short and lean guys. Same with petite woman.
You want to touch me?
Lewd warning
As for the lollipop I think I'll share one with the lucky guy so he can suck it non stop infinite climax til 100% done.
As for people who are picky by height they are the ones missing out. Ignore them.
Pamplemousse
Member
This is mildly arousing. I don't think I have stats. What do you mean?
Dead Prince
Banned
Height, Weight, Penis Size. what's your bench, squat, and deadlift numbers. Actually naked picture would just about solve everything for me.
charmed699
Neo Member
Quite a lot of guys in the UK are insanely tall. I feel like a hobbit next to them. I'm about 5,4 feet tall.
You want to touch me?
Lewd warning
As for the lollipop I think I'll share one with the lucky guy so he can suck it non stop infinite climax til 100% done.
Lucky fella. I'm sure you would make him feel like you flew him to the moon.
Brief article about a talk a British singer, Will Young, did at a LGBT Youth event over the weekend. Get past the porn and alcohol addiction attention seeking headline and it's actually pretty interesting.
I have to admit that a lot of my dates tend to involve alcohol. It just seems to make it easier. It's like I'm a different person after a few drinks.
Will Young reveals alcohol and porn addiction
5'11 here or 6 feet tall with shoes.
I shall take him to the moon everytime we touch
I rarely drink alcohol but it's certainly interesting to read about how people deal with their alcohol addictions and how they either control it or not despite being aware of the problem.
As for the porn addiction does it make me an addict if I watch it daily? LOL
Dead Prince
Banned
well it's not an addiction if you go admitting it ;P
Well its not like I'm watching it 24/7. I watch it mostly at night and it's just for the moment of "relaxation".
Dead Prince
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Pamplemousse
Member
Well I don't lift weights so idk about that. The numbers would be small there.
I'm way too picky about porn to get addicted to it. Everything has to be right for me to get off to it, the lighting, the guy (I only do solo vids), no ridiculous moaning, etc.
Dead Prince
Banned
Well I don't lift weights so idk about that. The numbers would be small there.
I'm way too picky about porn to get addicted to it. Everything has to be right for me to get off to it, the lighting, the guy (I only do solo vids), no ridiculous moaning, etc.
it's okay. everyone starts somewhere. i started super light and still light
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would you masturbate to yourself in a room full of mirrors from top to the bottom?
charmed699
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I only really started drinking after going out more often in my early twenties. My last ex works in a bar, so we would end up spending a lot of time in pubs, clubs or just drinking at home. It's like a British pasttime. I'm usually quite good at knowing when to stop. It's very rare for me to drink more than my limits, unless it's like a house party.
Drinking as a coping mechanism can be awful though. I had a really difficult time at a a job where I tried to put up with it for months. It basically meant that I would casually buy a cider on the way back 1/2 times a week. Plus we had an end of week presentation with booze. It felt good to realise what was going on 1 day and finally decide to make a change for the better and stop the vicious cycle.
It's difficult sometimes as well because a lot of guys where I live tend to only really socialise when out drinking. It's a bit tricky.
I would say most of us would be porn addicts then. I guess addictions are really about finding the right balance and trying to be as honest as possible about the way you deal with them.
Pamplemousse
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Do you have to lift weights to bulk up? Weight lifting doesn't sound fun to me.it's okay. everyone starts somewhere. i started super light and still light
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would you masturbate to yourself in a room full of mirrors from top to the bottom?
I'm ashamed to admit it, but yeah I have before.
Dead Prince
Banned
if you don't want to lift weight then i can proposition you. will you let me feed you?
I have done watching my own JO vids so sure why not?
In a way everyone has their own addictions that they must deal and find a balance that makes them function in society. Also it's not wrong to get drunk every once in a while as long as it doesn't mess up with things you have to do so basically going out on a weekend and getting drunk ain't bad as long as you don't have responsibilities that day or the day after so you can cool off.
You can socialize and have a few drinks but don't go over the limit and since you already know your limit you can pace yourself in the way you take your drinks to make it last the right amount of time during the dates.
Dead Prince
Banned
what about in a fun house mirror?
D
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Without doing any research, I think addiction is not defined by frequency but by control and psychological dependency. "Could you stop?" and if not, then "Why?"
Soulscribe
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Sounds interesting. As long as Im alone or with someone I don't mind watching it might be fun.
I agree on you being 100% fineErrr I watch it like twice a day. So no you're 100% fine and so am I.
Soulscribe
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There's plenty of equipment at the gym that lets you bulk up without having to use free-form weights. I don't really like using dumbells and such. Plus, those machines are great for keeping your form in check, etc. I've always had kind of crappy shoulders so using free-form weights would make me put stress on them. Weight-lifting won't do anything for you unless you're eating more though, especially protein.
I really enjoy weight training coz the muscle soreness made me feel like I accomplished something. Sure I was in pain almost always but it still made me feel better about myself. lol
Never enjoyed cardio though. I hate being out of breath.
charmed699
Neo Member
I think I quite like the idea of only drinking occasionally to relax. Like sometimes I'll buy a bottle of vodka and it lasts about a month or two. To be honest, I'm quite the lightweight so 2/3 drinks and that's me pretty much wasted.
A lot of the guys I used to go out clubbing with I pretty much didn't see any other times. Maybe my clubbing phase is over or I'll find new people to hang out with and not just do the same activity.
I think I've been watching a bit more porn than usual lately. It's been some time since I got any action. It's been nice having a break to figure out some stuff though.
I think you are right on having to find new people to hang out with and maybe look around for other LGBT groups with activities that you might be interested that are not into the club/pub life to change the pace a bit and experiment around new activities you haven't gave them a try. You can still go for the clubs but changing the routine wouldnt hurt at all and you might get more positive things out of it.
As for the porn stuff I guess it depends on the Thirst™ Levels. If you haven't had action in a while I can see why you might be watching it more and overall porn is entertaining and pleasurable without anyone getting hurt except the piece you are chocking while having fun haha.
Cardio is shit but since I need to lose weight that is what I need to do the most or so I've been told besides the diet change.Never enjoyed cardio though. I hate being out of breath.
umop_3pisdn
Member
I almost became addicted to ketamine when I was twenty one, pretty much just the person I bought from ran out and for a long time (like 1.5 yrs) it was really hard to find. So in that time I kind of shuck the unicorn dust from my eyes and realized it wasn't that great. Or like all drugs it's great while it's there, but thinking idyllicly about that is so absurd. The idyllic is about fantasizing for the future, and drugs are just lateral. There isn't really a future to fantasize about, it's like you're just trying to fill a bucket with a hole in it.
Idk people are different. Everyone has some kind of compulsion(s) (in their personality), and like temperaments or individual biology and stuff. Everyone is bound to find something that is sort of an easy pleasure of a kind they appreciate. If it's easy it can sometimes feel like a key to some lock for you, but that probably means its a poison. At least if it's a little too easy to be true. Drugs are a stopgap, they're bandaids. That's fine, though, sometimes we need bandaids, it's just best not to get confused about what they are, which can happen.
Idk people are different. Everyone has some kind of compulsion(s) (in their personality), and like temperaments or individual biology and stuff. Everyone is bound to find something that is sort of an easy pleasure of a kind they appreciate. If it's easy it can sometimes feel like a key to some lock for you, but that probably means its a poison. At least if it's a little too easy to be true. Drugs are a stopgap, they're bandaids. That's fine, though, sometimes we need bandaids, it's just best not to get confused about what they are, which can happen.
Mostmanlyman
Member
I would rather run instead of lifting any day. Lifting is not fun for me, im pretty lean, tall and mostly did track and ran hurdles , so i never really did weight lifting so my upper body is not that strong. Hopefully this summer me and my bother will work out.Never enjoyed cardio though. I hate being out of breath.
Soulscribe
Member
Yeah makes sense. In my case the most developed areas on my body are chest, back and thighs, so pushing/pulling exercises tend to be less alien to me. My shins are always sore while and after I'm running though, so it turns me off completely.
Pamplemousse
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Astral Dog
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Well, guys it seems im not Gay after all, just a depressed, anxious loser who could not have a girlfriend and thus chosed the "easy" option. Thats what the new doctor says...
I, i am very surprised and a bit shocked,dont have many options now so i will continue with his teraphy and hope for positive results. He has a machine for magnetic therapy or something.
I, i am very surprised and a bit shocked,dont have many options now so i will continue with his teraphy and hope for positive results. He has a machine for magnetic therapy or something.
WTF? That doctor is an asshole. Look for a new one.
Dead Prince
Banned
ByYes.do you mean:feed
or
?I'm down for the latter.
why not both you, you pig.
And gym guy went from doing legs to doing back now. This just puts a damper on my schedule. And he works out 6 times a week.
It's okay I used to as well. But man. Too much time will make me distant from him soon
Astral Dog
Member
Thank you, honestly,and it seems very weird but i have been with other doctors, a friend who is social worker, and hell even a priest who said something very different and supportive.
Part of this is my fault for not being more direct before, but as long as my parents say its just a foolish idea and if say "no" to this doctor things would get alot worse.
Im sorry to hear you have to deal with that but if you need to chat with anyone about anything you got us here and my inbox is open to talk about anything.
WHATTTT, I took one good pic and now I'm hot? XDDDD It's only a pretty face, I weigh 187 lbs, I'm so overweight, I'm 6'1". Ofcourse I don't work out either so it's catching up to me again...why you think I don't post a body pic with my man boobs? <_<;
I wasn't fishing for comments, I swear! *scouts honor!!*
I'm tired of Best Buy, gonna start looking for new jobs now. :/
To the single people, try to find a local Gay Gaming group "Gaymers", we have one in Houston and I go there with my husband and friends, but we hardly play games in the end and end up drinking. But I have seen a lot of people meet there and end up together in the end. I realize that they are not everywhere but it's worth a shot!
That's not overweight actually the ideal weight is 166 - 202 lbs so you are fine. Try 289 lbs and 6'0 if you wanna talk overweight
charmed699
Neo Member
That sounds like a horrible situation to be in. Hope you can find a better solution. Perhaps your parents will understand one day. It's not like you choose who you are attracted to. It just happens. It can be really hard. I've only really told my mum and that was like 2 years ago.
Cheers for the advice, Bayonetta man. I like your clever use of trademark. Sex is nice and I do miss it from time to time, but it's a welcome change to not have to deal with some of the guys out there. A nice little break.
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