Oh, I know. I can tell from their moans and screaming.
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Pamplemousse
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It's just too scary, and it would hurt a lot. I don't see any upside.
Ehhh from what I gather if there is enough lube, finger play and take things slow before ramping up the speed it shouldn't hurt too much and from what I can tell its pleasing. Also dont believe on porn overacting of pain or pleasure and the gigantic dicks.
Fantastical
Death Prophet
Just buy a dildo, people. It's not that bad at the beginning and then it's great.
Can you make a video tutorial to educate the people in the thread?
Maybe a Dildo 101 thread in Off Topic.
Can you make a video tutorial to educate the people in the thread?
Maybe a Dildo 101 thread in Off Topic.
Blood Diamonds
Banned
Kskdkkd I fucking love this show so much
"I could take a pinky, but not a whole dick - that'd be rough"
Elitist1945
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RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
for a fun free android game check out 'dig out'. its like spelunky but not shit
Blink twice if they are paying you to advertise it. That reminds me that there is a game tons of youtubers are plugging lately and their acting of knowing the game is terrible.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
UNVEILING A NEW FLAG FOR THE BLACK LGBTQ COMMUNITY
http://en.daily.vice.com/videos/unveiling-a-new-flag-for-the-black-lgbtq-community
http://en.daily.vice.com/videos/unveiling-a-new-flag-for-the-black-lgbtq-community
Blood Diamonds
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Pamplemousse
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I'll do a full week then edge the whole day.
Henchmen21
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That's what we all say lol but rarely stick with. Though I have been abstaining since I've been house sitting at my bro's. It would be just weird beating off at my brother's home.
dryuriev7777
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I mean that wouldn't stop me. As much as I've jerked off in my parent's house with my family in literally the next room it just doesn't bother me. Take a shower and make it like an extra 3 to 50 minutes depending on how long you like to go at it.
I need to jerk off on a daily basis. I'm pretty sure it's impossible for me to abstain because I'll think about Chris Pratt or that guy I know Tyler who's lanky and awkward but I'm attracted to that somehow and somehow my hands go into auto mode.
Also, unrelated, I'm finding that my Irish blood has been demanding more alcohol lately. Between the stressors at work and having two of my plans for the weekend cancel on me (which also accounts for why I started talking in this thread: I NEED ATTENTION OH GOSH), and given that I'm a very happy drunk, I've been using quite a bit of alcohol. I think I'm down 2-3 bottles of wine for this weekend. I'm already two and a half glasses down now and I'm thinking of getting a third.
Im most likely to fail when I jerk off 3-5 times per day but we shall see what happens.
User 73706
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Pamplemousse
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I think the most I've done is 3. That's too much in one day. Once is sufficient.
Are we sure these two aren't alts? 😏
Fantastical
Death Prophet
I need to do that no fap thing again.
Pamplemousse
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This thread is getting too hot to handle. Stop talking about your dongs.
umop_3pisdn
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Your life has a weird sort of drama to it.
Nah man, I'm fucking boring. lol
Eh, I prefer the rainbow flag. This one looks like it belongs to some kind of militia and I liked the simplicity of the rainbow flag more.
Edit: Nevermind, just woke up and didn't see the word 'black' there.
I know I don't contribute here much, but I thought I'd drop a book recommendation in here.
I wish I had this book 10 years ago.
I'm half way through it - ordinarily I'd be a bit hesitant to give a recommendation until I finished a book, but this has been one of the most intense reading experiences I've had. It's emotionally provoking, fairly harrowing in parts, but it's helping me to rationalise and understand so much about myself and others that has gone un-articulated for me to date. It's exposing things I didn't know I didn't know about myself. It's like someone's pried open my soul and laid it out on paper.
I wish I could make the whole world read this book. The highly abbreviated, inescapable conclusion - if you shame a child for something they cannot control (whatever that might be, not just around gender conformity or sexuality), you're engaging in no less than child abuse. So many gay people - most - have been subject to a kind of covert, collective abuse growing up. And it's continuing to manifest in some serious and dangerous consequences, despite all our political and legal advances. Everything from suicide, to alcohol and drug addiction (and addictions in general - to gym, to shopping, to people), cultural escapism, perfectionism, body image, co-dependence, counter-dependence, sex and relationships as a currency of validation, negative mirroring, health anxiety and anxiety in general... it all gets convincing treatment in terms of the all-to-typical catalysts present in a gay childhood.
If you're a little bit fucked up - and if you're gay, it's quite probable you are to some degree - I think this book may help you understand it. I can't speak for the latter part of the book which claims to move beyond explanation to guidance on overcoming the side effects of growing up gay, but hopefully that part of the book delivers as excellently as the first half has so far.
I wish I had this book 10 years ago.
I'm half way through it - ordinarily I'd be a bit hesitant to give a recommendation until I finished a book, but this has been one of the most intense reading experiences I've had. It's emotionally provoking, fairly harrowing in parts, but it's helping me to rationalise and understand so much about myself and others that has gone un-articulated for me to date. It's exposing things I didn't know I didn't know about myself. It's like someone's pried open my soul and laid it out on paper.
I wish I could make the whole world read this book. The highly abbreviated, inescapable conclusion - if you shame a child for something they cannot control (whatever that might be, not just around gender conformity or sexuality), you're engaging in no less than child abuse. So many gay people - most - have been subject to a kind of covert, collective abuse growing up. And it's continuing to manifest in some serious and dangerous consequences, despite all our political and legal advances. Everything from suicide, to alcohol and drug addiction (and addictions in general - to gym, to shopping, to people), cultural escapism, perfectionism, body image, co-dependence, counter-dependence, sex and relationships as a currency of validation, negative mirroring, health anxiety and anxiety in general... it all gets convincing treatment in terms of the all-to-typical catalysts present in a gay childhood.
If you're a little bit fucked up - and if you're gay, it's quite probable you are to some degree - I think this book may help you understand it. I can't speak for the latter part of the book which claims to move beyond explanation to guidance on overcoming the side effects of growing up gay, but hopefully that part of the book delivers as excellently as the first half has so far.
Blood Diamonds
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I'm bored
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
I know I don't contribute here much, but I thought I'd drop a book recommendation in here.
I wish I had this book 10 years ago.
I'm half way through it - ordinarily I'd be a bit hesitant to give a recommendation until I finished a book, but this has been one of the most intense reading experiences I've had. It's emotionally provoking, fairly harrowing in parts, but it's helping me to rationalise and understand so much about myself and others that has gone un-articulated for me to date. It's exposing things I didn't know I didn't know about myself. It's like someone's pried open my soul and laid it out on paper.
I wish I could make the whole world read this book. The highly abbreviated, inescapable conclusion - if you shame a child for something they cannot control (whatever that might be, not just around gender conformity or sexuality), you're engaging in no less than child abuse. So many gay people - most - have been subject to a kind of covert, collective abuse growing up. And it's continuing to manifest in some serious and dangerous consequences, despite all our political and legal advances. Everything from suicide, to alcohol and drug addiction (and addictions in general - to gym, to shopping, to people), cultural escapism, perfectionism, body image, co-dependence, counter-dependence, sex and relationships as a currency of validation, negative mirroring, health anxiety and anxiety in general... it all gets convincing treatment in terms of the all-to-typical catalysts present in a gay childhood.
If you're a little bit fucked up - and if you're gay, it's quite probable you are to some degree - I think this book may help you understand it. I can't speak for the latter part of the book which claims to move beyond explanation to guidance on overcoming the side effects of growing up gay, but hopefully that part of the book delivers as excellently as the first half has so far.
Sounds interesting. Thanks for the recommendation!
I know I don't contribute here much, but I thought I'd drop a book recommendation in here.
I wish I had this book 10 years ago.
I'm half way through it - ordinarily I'd be a bit hesitant to give a recommendation until I finished a book, but this has been one of the most intense reading experiences I've had. It's emotionally provoking, fairly harrowing in parts, but it's helping me to rationalise and understand so much about myself and others that has gone un-articulated for me to date. It's exposing things I didn't know I didn't know about myself. It's like someone's pried open my soul and laid it out on paper.
I wish I could make the whole world read this book. The highly abbreviated, inescapable conclusion - if you shame a child for something they cannot control (whatever that might be, not just around gender conformity or sexuality), you're engaging in no less than child abuse. So many gay people - most - have been subject to a kind of covert, collective abuse growing up. And it's continuing to manifest in some serious and dangerous consequences, despite all our political and legal advances. Everything from suicide, to alcohol and drug addiction (and addictions in general - to gym, to shopping, to people), cultural escapism, perfectionism, body image, co-dependence, counter-dependence, sex and relationships as a currency of validation, negative mirroring, health anxiety and anxiety in general... it all gets convincing treatment in terms of the all-to-typical catalysts present in a gay childhood.
If you're a little bit fucked up - and if you're gay, it's quite probable you are to some degree - I think this book may help you understand it. I can't speak for the latter part of the book which claims to move beyond explanation to guidance on overcoming the side effects of growing up gay, but hopefully that part of the book delivers as excellently as the first half has so far.
FREAKING £9.99 for the Kindle edition?????
Have you read The Velvet Rage? It helpt me a lot when coming out. Everyone should read it.
(please, keep us posted and let us know what you think once you finish it)
Monocle
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Thanks for the book recommendations, guys.
It's true that one kiss isn't going to do much for your abilities. However, if you can find somebody who will make out with you on the regular, it's a great way to get up to speed.
Sex with an understanding person who communicates well is certainly the ideal situation. It's unfortunate that everyone can't be lucky enough to find someone like that when they're inexperienced.
Guess you've just gotta do you then. Hopefully you run into a nice person. It gets harder when you're done with school, unless you have a great social life with lots of friends.
That's a good point about late bloomers in the gay world.
It's true that one kiss isn't going to do much for your abilities. However, if you can find somebody who will make out with you on the regular, it's a great way to get up to speed.
Sex with an understanding person who communicates well is certainly the ideal situation. It's unfortunate that everyone can't be lucky enough to find someone like that when they're inexperienced.
This is the correct way to deal with boredom.
FREAKING £9.99 for the Kindle edition?????
Have you read The Velvet Rage? It helpt me a lot when coming out. Everyone should read it.
(please, keep us posted and let us know what you think once you finish it)
I haven't read The Velvet Rage, but it's on my list now - it's cited a number of times in this book. By the sounds of it, I feel a bit cheated that I hadn't heard about it until reading Straight Jacket!
Ardainian Soldier
Member
See I think that's my problem. I only really came out after I graduated university. I'm only there part-time now which isn't really the same. Kind of feel like i missed out on a lot because of it.
dryuriev7777
Member
This looks very interesting. Thank you!I know I don't contribute here much, but I thought I'd drop a book recommendation in here.
I wish I had this book 10 years ago.
I'm half way through it - ordinarily I'd be a bit hesitant to give a recommendation until I finished a book, but this has been one of the most intense reading experiences I've had. It's emotionally provoking, fairly harrowing in parts, but it's helping me to rationalise and understand so much about myself and others that has gone un-articulated for me to date. It's exposing things I didn't know I didn't know about myself. It's like someone's pried open my soul and laid it out on paper.
I wish I could make the whole world read this book. The highly abbreviated, inescapable conclusion - if you shame a child for something they cannot control (whatever that might be, not just around gender conformity or sexuality), you're engaging in no less than child abuse. So many gay people - most - have been subject to a kind of covert, collective abuse growing up. And it's continuing to manifest in some serious and dangerous consequences, despite all our political and legal advances. Everything from suicide, to alcohol and drug addiction (and addictions in general - to gym, to shopping, to people), cultural escapism, perfectionism, body image, co-dependence, counter-dependence, sex and relationships as a currency of validation, negative mirroring, health anxiety and anxiety in general... it all gets convincing treatment in terms of the all-to-typical catalysts present in a gay childhood.
If you're a little bit fucked up - and if you're gay, it's quite probable you are to some degree - I think this book may help you understand it. I can't speak for the latter part of the book which claims to move beyond explanation to guidance on overcoming the side effects of growing up gay, but hopefully that part of the book delivers as excellently as the first half has so far.
I can definitely see I still have some of those issues, particularly loving alcohol too much. I came out sophomore year of high school, but instead of slowly adjusting normally I quickly found myself in a very abusive relationship that just amplified all my issues at the time. I like to think I'm fairly well adjusted now, but it took me several years to have sex again and even though it doesn't stop me from having sex now I do have a weird fear and disgust towards it. I also still haven't figured out how to be genuinely close to anyone, be they boyfriends, friends, or even family despite craving that intimacy so much. I fear that I'll never allow myself to get or keep a boyfriend because I can easily see myself sabotaging it. Not sure if any of that really relates to the book, but it got me thinking about myself.
In a way I actually envy those that complain they've never done anything with a guy.
Dead Prince
Banned
velvet rage sounds like an std
Yup it does.
The Emperor
Member
Yo RainbowGAF, can't believe I've never posted here before!
Your gender? Male
Your sexual orientation? Gay
Where Are You From? UK
Where Do You Live? Under a bridge...lol jk Plymouth
How Old Are you? 24
Favorite Type of Music? RnB, Pop, Alt-Brit Pop (keane and the like), OST's ...my fav singer is Mariah Carey and fav composer is Uematsu. I need a 90's MariahxUematsu collab vocal album.
Profession or Career interest? Doing medicine but hate it. Wanna do something in media or the gaming industry. Towards the storytelling side of things.
Favorite video game(s)? Super Mario Galaxy/World, Final Fantasy VI-X, MGS1-4, Longest Journey Series, Phoenix Wright
What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Writing, surfing, cooking, walking, making game events (like amazing race)
Anyway I'm in dire need of feeling good about being gay atm, I'm on holiday visiting family in India atm and feel veeery oppressed/attacked LOL! I think I'll start with the book gofreak made a post bout. Thanks hun!
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