That would make me feel really weird.
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That would make me feel really weird.
it's 4 fun
Gurl you are so right!!
Hey qween!
Gurl pls
Why did you get a ban?
I have absolutely no clue, it says because I violated the terms of service but I haven't changed my profile pic or info in like a year lol and haven't done anything different
Dead Prince
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welcome to the grindr banned club 
Probably #2Hot2Handle
The Emperor
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It's hard walkin up to that table...so hard! If you still can't can you do online sign ups? Then go to a social if it interests you!
Astral Dog
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Thats a bit weird because i thought you were the adventurous one
there is nothing to be afraid of you will be alright, everybody was there on the table and you walked away?
Edit: because if thats the case you can joke,return and say you were in the closet yesterday
Ardainian Soldier
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It's always tough. Anyone you know that can go with you? That helped me a lot.
DOWN
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guys please
Ok to clarify nobody else uses the freezer. There's just like a few 6 month old frozen meal boxes so I didn't ruin anyone's lives except mine. I'm devising a plan to stealth clean the freezer
Mostmanlyman
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No one will care then, so just clean it up.
Also hey yall, bored in class so browsing gaf after not being on gaf for a while.
Dead Prince
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devising a stealth plan. LOL. OKAY.
umop_3pisdn
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Yep, the humiliation of not taking responsibility for something like this should be greater than the humiliation of taking responsibility for it.
You don't have to announce it, but idk how you can try to avoid having people learn about it and actually think you're protecting your dignity. Protecting your dignity would be just fucking taking care of it.
I saw trailer of Nerve, and it seemed kinda interesting, although also very typical YA adaptation, so I'm kinda on the edge whether to watch it or not.
Well, my straight friend goes there, I can ask if I can tag along with him.
Thats a bit weird because i thought you were the adventurous one
there is nothing to be afraid of you will be alright, everybody was there on the table and you walked away?
Edit: because if thats the case you can joke,return and say you were in the closet yesterday
I am adventurous. But walking up to a table in front of hundreds of people was so anxiety inducing. I have no problem at all hooking up with men, or flirting with them, but when it comes to joining a gay club or anything like that...that many gay people in one place
and we aren't banging
I thought the premise was really interesting and there was nothing really offensive about the execution of it. It's not going to blow your mind but we thought it was fun.
dryuriev7777
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I mean... you could still get that end result. Maybe it's secretly some BDSM fight club and you'll be flailing gentlemen for your pleasure. Those kind of clubs can get catty though, so just be careful.
In my life: I'm sitting here watching Tales of Berseria videos wishing I had it because I'm all out of terribly written anime games. Tales games always look so pretty and colourful.
Tales of Berseria anime episodes have been quite nice actually. Seems promising and a improvement over Zestiria. Also they kinda addressed a lot of the complains from Zestiria with the gameplay and world in the game. Also seeing they are going on a darker direction with the story and the cast not being exactly heroes makes it a bit interesting even if some come as edgelords.
Im feeling like doing another play of The House in Fata Morgana after Im done with God Eater Resurrection.
That's kind of what worries me too, what if they start fighting over who gets a taste first?
lol
Henchmen21
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Xzibit?
Aarglefarg
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Well it's Thursday and I was told after the job interview that I would get a call this week if I have this job, and there's been no call yet so I'm getting worried. I'm pretty sad right now though there is still time.
Also there are heaps of sad songs on the radio that is playing where I am doing Work for the Dole today and this isn't helping.
Also there are heaps of sad songs on the radio that is playing where I am doing Work for the Dole today and this isn't helping.
And society became a little less anarchic.
Henchmen21
Banned
No it's not! It's still Wednesday!
If her acting is like her latest single... eek.
She won a golden globe. Bye.
Henchmen21
Banned
Marisa Tomei won an Oscar for "My Cousin Vinny". Awards mean nothing.
Aarglefarg
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You're in one of those slower timezones. Let me know when it catches up.
Hmm are you not out yet? Is that where the anxiety comes from?
dryuriev7777
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None of them are paying that much attention to you, and if they are they want your dangly parts. No one ever really gives a shit who you are or what you do as long as you own up to it.
I know you're right! But at the time, the anxiety hit me like a sack of bricks
VICTORsaurio
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I haven't been active here for quite a while but lately I've just been very horny and I was wondering, has any of you guys ever paid (or considered paying) for sex? It seems like such a pain in the ass even trying to coordinate with someone, even on grindr, to have a little fun.
I have to admit that it's something I never even considered before but I've been single for about 4 years now and while I'm still hoping to find love again, I've seen quite a few guys on grindr who offer their services and I'm thinking it would make things so much easier, I mean, I could always just watch porn or something but it's not enough for me lately.
I know there's the whole STD thing as well, which is kind of scary but it wouldn't surprise me if some of these guys are perhaps safer than another random hookup person.
I have to admit that it's something I never even considered before but I've been single for about 4 years now and while I'm still hoping to find love again, I've seen quite a few guys on grindr who offer their services and I'm thinking it would make things so much easier, I mean, I could always just watch porn or something but it's not enough for me lately.
I know there's the whole STD thing as well, which is kind of scary but it wouldn't surprise me if some of these guys are perhaps safer than another random hookup person.
On the subject of coming out, I really want to come out to my best friend but I'm a bit scared to do it. I know he's not the kind of person who is homophobic but I'm worried that either he would be worried that I would try and push the boundaries from friendship into intimacy (in simpler terms, flirting) or he already knows and I would just be making things awkward. I'm also not sure about randomly bringing it up, but at the same time he's my best friend, I trust him a lot and I feel that he deserves to know.
RobotNinjaHornets
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I wouldn't worry about randomly bringing it up, that's how I've come out to everyone so far, lol. If he's your best friend, those things shouldn't be a problem.
I mean, you can always make it clear that it's not going to be something that will change your friendship in any way, if he seems worried. And if he already knows, why would it be awkward? He'd probably be proud of you for coming out.
I came out to my best friend a week or so ago, and I was super worried about it as I thought she might see me as a different person. Like, I had said I was heteroromantic asexual for ages because the idea of sex kind of weirded me out, so I had kind of repressed any sort of sexual inclination I might have had. So I thought that by coming out as heteroromantic bisexual, I wouldn't be the person she thought I was and she wouldn't like this new version of me. Of course, I was just being silly and everything was fine and she's super proud of me and happy for me, but I get the anxiety. Obviously that's a bit of a different situation, but I think there's the same underlying fear of not wanting to ruin the friendship by saying that a part of you isn't what they might have thought it was
I guess the thing is that you're best friends for a reason. Something like this won't change it, and should only be a positive. Don't force yourself to do it if you aren't comfortable, but I'm sure it's something he'll want to hear you say whether he knows or not.
He's so buff!So I was watching Always Sunny and at first Mac wasn't really attractive in my eyes but Season 7 made me change my mind on him.
I mean hundreds of strangers already see you trolling for peen on grindr. These ones at your school don't even see that. You could be a straight ally for all they know. I encourage you to try to build an LGBT network in real life outside of hookups. To me, there's something comforting about being with other gays and not needing to explain things.
Also I'm a bit older than some of you all here, but when i came out, I was shocked how okay with it everyone was (except for my mom). It's easy to build a doom fantasy where you lose all your friends, but if they're true friends, they'll still love you.
<3
I still like Charlie more but he certainly is more attractive to me now than in the previous seasons.
Never would pay for sex and never considered it. Also you are pretty attractive so I think it shouldn't really be that hard for you to find someone willing to have sex with you on grindr, scruff, growlr or whatever apps you like. Also knowing someone does it for money kinda puts me off cause there will probably be no chemistry at all or forced which is not something I like. I want there to be some attraction and not something forced to work just cause I paid for it.
Also the STDs are another worry since who knows how much they have done it since they are paid for it and sure you might still get that risk with other guys from the app but I feel mentally safer going with the guy who is not a prostitute. (Still would ask status or papers of their status)
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