Pamplemousse
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Haha I did with some GAFers. DP can vouch for me.
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So today I dumped the guy I've been dating for a few weeks. Nice guy and ok looking but I just didn't feel anything special. But I have to admit it kindof hurt my ego when he said he felt pretty much the same way after I told him. I thought he seemed quite into me, and was afraid he'd be a bit hurt, but now instead I'm back to feeling shitty and unlovable.
Like you've said, it's just the ego talking. You'll be fine. Also, you did a good thing by ending it, tbh. If you dragged it out, it would have been way worse, and this way you'll get the chance to meet someone more compatible. Hopefully soon
umop_3pisdn
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If you didn't feel anything special, then I'd imagine that he didn't either. At least when I find myself in a situation where I'm not that into someone, and it seems that they are into me, I take it as a sign of desperation on their part. I think on some level both of us have to know that the thing happening with us isn't fire.
So basically I don't think it should be an ego thing, in a weird way it would be more embarrassing if you spent that time with someone who was dumb or naive and couldn't even tell that the thing wasn't really working.
Pamplemousse
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Blood Diamonds
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????? what?
edit: no offense but... What? You're going to feel bad because he didn't have a mental breakdown and beg you to stay when you've only been dating a few weeks? And like you broke up with him i'm...
edit: no offense but... What? You're going to feel bad because he didn't have a mental breakdown and beg you to stay when you've only been dating a few weeks? And like you broke up with him i'm...
I guess you two were not lagom.
????? what?
edit: no offense but... What? You're going to feel bad because he didn't have a mental breakdown and beg you to stay when you've only been dating a few weeks? And like you broke up with him i'm...
??? He said he knows he's being silly but wishes the guy was a bit more emotional? That's like... a normal reaction. Since when is "being sad" the same as a mental breakdown?
Blood Diamonds
Banned
No? He said he'd feel better if the guy felt sad that he dumped him. If you don't even like him and you're breaking up with him, why would you want that and beat yourself up over the fact that the guy was okay with breaking up? It doesn't matter if he knows he's being silly lol it's still weird and something that should actually make you happy if you felt like you were just wasting each other's time. If it's normal to feel bad because a guy didn't get as upset as you wanted him to get when you broke up with him even though you didn't feel like there's a connection...then okay i guess....
I mean it was just nice thinking someone liked me, even though I didn't really feel anything back. But turns out he didn't really either, so that was kindof disappointing.
Aarglefarg
Member
It might have just been easier to say he felt the same way.
umop_3pisdn
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Lame dependant people liking you doesn't really feel good either, though (which was what I was trying to get at). To them you're just filling some vaguely human-shaped hole in their life that pretty much anyone could fill. I'd rather do without.
Aarglefarg
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Or acting out a mutual split to make it mutually easier.
umop_3pisdn
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That's true, but if you were looking for it you'd probably detect the person's disappointment for at least a split second, but that's assuming that it was done face to face I guess.
Astral Dog
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dont feel sad i also rant alot on very bad days, sometimes it feels like it does not matter, this is not the place and we are doing something wrong, but in the end whatever help it might be the internet is like the trash can of the world
Dead Prince
Banned
He texted me but fck him not literally. I'm going to bed.
Fantastical
Death Prophet
I've become really apathetic, lazy, and kind of depressed with work. Ugh. I think I need a change but I'm too lazy to do anything about it.
Monocle
Member
Say you'll think about it if he gives you some sugar. Tell him you need to understand what the army can do for you by getting up close and personal with a soldier's physique. Explain that all of your best life decisions were made while your face was squished between a pair of heaving pecs.
Oh hey, looks like we're neighbors in the same ditch.
Aarglefarg
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Useful.
Pamplemousse
Member
A sexy cop wanted to fill my hole once. Too bad I can't do teh seks. Sigh. 😢
umop_3pisdn
Member
Lol.
Lame people gonna look for their "eternal confirmation and seal" (Nietzsche) in the external world I guess.
umop_3pisdn
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Do you create these conflicts for yourself just to make your life feel more interesting?
This is a rhetorical question, I'm probably not going to reply to whatever you say in response.
You know what? IGNORE LIST ACTIVATE!Pineapple pizza is a crime against humanity.
I'm a lame, so I would know.
umop_3pisdn
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She's right tho, you may as well put gummy worms on your pizza.
Lol well I could relate, but it just doesn't ever work out, the world by itself is a vacuum of meaning tbh.
I also have to deal with this at times. Brown Sugar and Pineapple Glazed Ham
This is awesome though.
umop_3pisdn
Member
I also have to deal with this at times. Brown Sugar and Pineapple Glazed Ham
I don't have a problem with that, you can treat the pineapple like a garnish (not eat it) and sweet glazed ham tastes good imo.
I can tolerate it in small doses but not a fan. Its definitely more tolerable than the pizza.
Astral Dog
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Hawiian pizza might not the best but its perfectly O.K mmm 👌
not sure what you two are about.
You mother fu--!
It's delish.Hawiian pizza might not the best but its perfectly O.K mmm 👌
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
umop_3pisdn
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Western civilization has failed us.
Fair is foul and foul is fair.
Other hyperbole.
Fair is foul and foul is fair.
Other hyperbole.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
umop_3pisdn
Member
I will have to to make sense of this absurd taste tbf.
I guess it's all a part of God's plan, like peehole parasites.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
It's because of people like you that Hawaiian bees are going extinct.
The irony is that you're from Canada, the origin of Hawaiian pizza.
Pamplemousse
Member
I wanted to try to see if I could maybe have something with someone, but deep down, I knew I shouldn't try to meet someone. Nothing good can come of it with me. I almost went through with it but chickened out because I knew he wouldn't like sex with me.
And my life isn't interesting at all. I sit in my apartment alone all day except for classes and buying food once a week. I do nothing but listen to music, eat, play video games, cry about my life, and post here. Bitter sarcasm helps me through the day. I've only been on two dates, including the cop, and both failed because I'm too undesirable. I'm mentally broken and not that attractive. Then there's my voice problem. Couple it with my depression, and I sound like a chipmunk Squidward. Nobody would want to date that. So no, my life is sad and uneventful and hopefully won't be very long.
I don't like talking about it. I have a physical affliction that would make sex with me less than ideal.
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Pineapple on pizza is so wonderful and isn't limited to just ham pairings. Fantastic with pepperoni, bacon, sausage, olives, bell pepper, anchovy... the list goes on.
Pamplemousse
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It's fine. I won't post in here anymore. Nobody wants me in life or here. I don't want myself either.
Just in case there's any confusion: I'm not attempting to ignore you at all, dude.
I just can't figure this mobile site out.You can switch to the regular site on mobile (done in the main neogaf.com link) and put people on ignore that way then return to the mobile site. The mobile version still has ways to go tbh.Just in case there's any confusion: I'm not attempting to ignore you at all, dude.
Cosmic knows what's up!
In other news "No" by Nicolas Jaar is hitting the spot rn.
https://youtu.be/L2yrz4Yvr1c
Aarglefarg
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It's been years since I've had pineapple on pizza but it was good. The reason I stopped is I typically don't eat meat and so I don't have Hawaiian pizza.
I like you.
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