I agree with you, but I think it's a spectrum like the guy with the NDT avatar said. I don't think anyone is at the extreme end of either side, deep down.In my experience with my straight friend who I had an exclusive sexual relationship with for a while, sexuality isn't black and white. When I was young and naive I felt it was, he was either gay or bi if we were having sex, but turns out I was the only guy he was sexually attracted to because of our friendship and experiences we had together.
Going with the flow is fine as long as expectations aren't high, and I never expected a relationship out of him.
But people can be stupid. He should be saying that he's mostly straight but might occasionally be open to same-sex experiences.Lol let the guy be whatever he wants to be.
I think you can be a straight guy and still have sex with men. If I decided I wanted to have sex with a woman, that wouldn't make me bi, I just think people should be more open with their sexuality and shouldn't have to label everything.
In my experience with my straight friend who I had an exclusive sexual relationship with for a while, sexuality isn't black and white. When I was young and naive I felt it was, he was either gay or bi if we were having sex, but turns out I was the only guy he was sexually attracted to because of our friendship and experiences we had together.
Going with the flow is fine as long as expectations aren't high, and I never expected a relationship out of him.
I think you can be a straight guy and still have sex with men. If I decided I wanted to have sex with a woman, that wouldn't make me bi, I just think people should be more open with their sexuality and shouldn't have to label everything.
I think you can be a straight guy and still have sex with men. If I decided I wanted to have sex with a woman, that wouldn't make me bi, I just think people should be more open with their sexuality and shouldn't have to label everything.
Well, that's my point - "straight" is a label that is pretty unrealistic. If he's having sex with men then that means that, by definition, he is not "straight". He can be "straight" all he wants to in his own head, but he's not "straight" by standard definition - meaning, of course, that he only is interested in women, emotionally or physically.
Well, that's my point - "straight" is a label that is pretty unrealistic. If he's having sex with men then that means that, by definition, he is not "straight". He can be "straight" all he wants to in his own head, but he's not "straight" by standard definition - meaning, of course, that he only is interested in women, emotionally or physically.
Nope sorry. You can't have sex with men and then say you're straight. Guys like that want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to have sex with men but don't want to deal with the negative consequences of being bi/gay (i.e. homophobia etc...) that we have to deal with everyday. It's cowardly imo.
Also, morning gaygaf.
I actually like the term fluid sexuality, as I find sexuality changes for some people based on based on the time and place of their experiences.
But the problem with this is that people will throw out that people aren't born gay or whatever their sexual identity is. Labels suck but I've been gay for as long as I can remember. It's a tricky subject and a slippery slope.
Heehee, in all honesty, I understand how this is an endless debate, I just thought I would interject a little bit with my own opinion ^_^
Well, that's my point - "straight" is a label that is pretty unrealistic. If he's having sex with men then that means that, by definition, he is not "straight". He can be "straight" all he wants to in his own head, but he's not "straight" by standard definition - meaning, of course, that he only is interested in women, emotionally or physically.
Im shining bright this morning brehs
Oh ok makes sense thanks.
Personal definition is the only thing that matters tbh. Are you gonna quote a dictionary at someone every time they say they're 'bi' but are also into trans-, queer, and non-binary people?
Look, like I said the first time, I'm not interested in debating labels. In fact, my boyfriend have no problem considering himself as bisexual because he firmly believes everyone is bisexual to some degree. I am the one that hesitate to call him that because he still prefers women and have no attraction to any men but me (nor is he looking to form any emotional attachment or romantic feelings with men). So call him whatever you want, it won't change the fact that he has no interest in guys.
Predominantly straight, then, but he still pursued and enjoyed sex with someone of his same gender. He's a bit bi IMO, he might just overwhelmingly prefer women.I think you can be a straight guy and still have sex with men. If I decided I wanted to have sex with a woman, that wouldn't make me bi, I just think people should be more open with their sexuality and shouldn't have to label everything.
Oh ok makes sense thanks.
I got a 3 which is pretty much what i thought.
Yeah it was an odd question, the rest make sense. Like if you gay or straight you can totally be submissive, being submissive doesnt matter on your sexuality.Three here, too. I question the relevancy of the last question...sexually submissive. Not sure what that would have to do with where you land on a scale of sexuality, but I admit ignorance of the subject to a large degree.
I think you can be a straight guy and still have sex with men. If I decided I wanted to have sex with a woman, that wouldn't make me bi, I just think people should be more open with their sexuality and shouldn't have to label everything.
Adorable picture.Im shining bright this morning brehs
You ever have a class with a really just like beautiful guy and like you think you'll get used to his face and body as time goes on but like it doesn't happen and you're always like "holy shit holy fucking shit please [redacted]"
How are you guys doing today?
You ever have a class with a really just like beautiful guy and like you think you'll get used to his face and body as time goes on but like it doesn't happen and you're always like "holy shit holy fucking shit please [redacted]"
Plenty of information to process since I last checked this thread. The Kinsey Scale test says I'm "exclusively homosexual". I do find some girls attractive, but I'm not sure I would ever be able to have sex with one.
I quite like how my hair looks today. Getting better at using product.
Plenty of information to process since I last checked this thread. The Kinsey Scale test says I'm "exclusively homosexual". I do find some girls attractive, but I'm not sure I would ever be able to have sex with one.
I quite like how my hair looks today. Getting better at using product.
How are you guys doing today?
The test doesn't cover much info anyway. >.>
I just got Street Fighter 5 to work on my laptop, anyone playing?
I'm a beginner and I'm learning so I'm really bad, scrub tier. Would like to play against a beginner.
Fighter ID: HappyPuppy
Yeah, it's a crappy test if you are looking to get to know yourself better. You are better off reading books on sexuality.
Yeah, it's a crappy test if you are looking to get to know yourself better. You are better off reading books on sexuality.
The test doesn't cover much info anyway. >.>
that test knows what's up on a scale of 0 to 6 i got a 'F' : The test failed to match you to a Kinsey Type profile. Either you answered some questions wrong, or you are a very unusual person.
tho it's silly to have that as a possible result and too few broad questions anyway