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LGBTQIA+ |OT9| The Return of the Queen

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Sibylus

Banned
It means self-hating gay men don't have to evaluate their prejudices just by breathing the same air as you.

CUTE GIRLS ALERT

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Yes, I totally crush on Rory's mom.
 
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DyslexicAlucard

Member
Mysterious said:
Hi guys. I'm bi, but I finally decided to explore my gay side outside of hookups. I've never been in a relationship before, because I always struggled with understanding which gender I've liked, but now I'm confident enough to go on dates with both guys and girls. :)

So now I wanted I found out on a date today that I'm not "gay at all" (according to him). What is Rupal drag racing? I'm assuming drag racing isn't the same as the car version?[/SPOILER]
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Welcome to the bi side! I'm "straight-acting" too, although I also hate that definition. Sometimes I think it's a bit of a detriment though, because other gays don't know I'm gay/bi.

I also sympathize with not knowing your sexuality. I struggled with that for a while -- and still do. I'm more on the gay side ATM, but I've wandered to the "dark side" as well. :p

Beefy said:
Congrats on joining biGaf. What the hell does not gay at all mean?
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Oh, you know: the cultural stereotype we all know and hate. =/

Sibylus said:
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This girl reminds me of a female wrestler named Becky Lynch. Lemme see if I can find a good photo...

Edit: here we go:

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Zero²

Member
Sibylus said:
It means self-hating gay men don't have to evaluate their prejudices just by breathing the same air as you.
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Nailed.
I've always been told that I am "straight acting". Please I'm just as gay as any gay guy, don't fool yourselves. I'm straight acting because I've been repressed my whole life and now it has become who I am, if anything I should fight against it!
Sorry for the rant, but I really liked what you said Siby 😍
 
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Henchmen21

Banned
Damn. DyslexicAlucard got post 1701 yesterday and I didn't mention it.

^There's a Tea thread somewhere on gaf. At least there was a few months ago. Don't know if it's still up.

Second edit: It just occurred to me that this top of the page pic thing must be really strange to you 100ppp heathens.
 
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WaffleTaco

Wants to outlaw technological innovation.
I actually find none of those girls attractive. I mean they are pretty, but I have the same response towards guys: meh.
 
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Sibylus

Banned
Via Purifico said:
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Someone had to say it.
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Zero²;226214658 said:
Nailed.
I've always been told that I am "straight acting". Please I'm just as gay as any gay guy, don't fool yourselves. I'm straight acting because I've been repressed my whole life and now it has become who I am, if anything I should fight against it!
Sorry for the rant, but I really liked what you said Siby 😍
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Ty, ty. Important to speak up for femme boys and men!
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DyslexicAlucard said:
Welcome to the bi side! I'm "straight-acting" too, although I also hate that definition. Sometimes I think it's a bit of a detriment though, because other gays don't know I'm gay/bi.

I also sympathize with not knowing your sexuality. I struggled with that for a while -- and still do. I'm more on the gay side ATM, but I've wandered to the "dark side" as well. :p



Oh, you know: the cultural stereotype we all know and hate. =/



This girl reminds me of a female wrestler named Becky Lynch. Lemme see if I can find a good photo...

Edit: here we go:

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I deems cute! Steampunk girls are hot.
 
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OrionX

Member
Zero²;226214658 said:
I'm straight acting because I've been repressed my whole life and now it has become who I am, if anything I should fight against it!
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I've kinda had similar thoughts before, wondering if I conditioned myself at some point to act more "straight" or if it's just naturally how I am. I guess there's not much point in dwelling on it though, since it's not like i could force myself to act "gayer." Of course, the idea that being gay means you have to be and act a certain way is silly anyway, since we're all just people and everyone's different. I feel like I'm just rambling now so I'll stop. lol

Also, I love tea. I like it with a crap-ton of sugar tho.
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
Dany said:
Play it. Amazing game
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I will! I didn't spend 26 hours downloading that shit for nothing!

Seath said:
Time to get a sugar daddy Ratsky~
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teach me, wise one ;___;

Mysterious said:
Hi guys. I'm bi, but I finally decided to explore my gay side outside of hookups. I've never been in a relationship before, because I always struggled with understanding which gender I've liked, but now I'm confident enough to go on dates with both guys and girls. :)
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Welcome!

OrionX said:
it's not like i could force myself to act "gayer."
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wanna bet (y)
 
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DyslexicAlucard

Member
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Haly

One day I realized that sadness is just another word for not enough coffee.
Sigismundo said:
I've been meaning to drink more tea leaves instead of bags of tea. Any good places that ship to Australia?
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I have no idea but surely shipping to Australia would be cheaper than shipping to New York. I get my tea when my parents visit China so it's never been a problem for me.

Do you have asian enclaves/asian groceries in Australia? Usually they have a tea section. I'd start with a japanese green like sencha.
 
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Sigismundo

Member
Haly said:
Do you have asian enclaves/asian groceries in Australia? Usually they have a tea section. I'd start with a japanese green like sencha.
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Of course. I could go into parts of Melbourne and bump into one every thirty seconds.

I do like green tea but I don't drink anywhere near enough of it. That'd probably be a good place to start, thanks.
 
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Haly

One day I realized that sadness is just another word for not enough coffee.
Also get one of these infusers while you're there.
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It doesn't have to be this one. You just want to make sure it feels solid and the mesh is fine and there's a spout for convenient pouring.
 
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Pyrokai

Member
I've noticed in recent years that my feminine side is coming out more than ever. In fact, I've actively been trying to embrace it because I think I act TOO straight. I came out at 19, but I was one of those people that felt I needed to break the feminine stereotype, so I acted as masculine as possible. Now, it's mostly who I am but I don't hide the femininity at all, and it's here more than ever. But I'm still surprised when people don't know I'm gay when I tell them. I'm like....really? Haha.

This means I've been out for 10 years! I turn 29 today!!!
 
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CornBurrito

Member
Pyrokai said:
I've noticed in recent years that my feminine side is coming out more than ever. In fact, I've actively been trying to embrace it because I think I act TOO straight. I came out at 19, but I was one of those people that felt I needed to break the feminine stereotype, so I acted as masculine as possible. Now, it's mostly who I am but I don't hide the femininity at all, and it's here more than ever. But I'm still surprised when people don't know I'm gay when I tell them. I'm like....really? Haha.

This means I've been out for 10 years! I turn 29 today!!!
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Oh shit, happy birthday!

And yeah I get what you mean. I pretty much openly talk about my "feminine" interests now. I tried avoiding doing so in high school but I must not have been great at it since everyone in high school pretty much thought I was gay anyway.

I also used to get really uncomfortable around/seeing/hearing effeminate gay men, but I've nothing but respect for people like that now. Being yourself like that takes a lot of courage.
 
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kuYuri

Member
Mysterious said:
Hi guys. I'm bi, but I finally decided to explore my gay side outside of hookups. I've never been in a relationship before, because I always struggled with understanding which gender I've liked, but now I'm confident enough to go on dates with both guys and girls. :)

So now I wanted to say hi to this community!

Also I found out on a date today that I'm not "gay at all" (according to him). What is Rupal drag racing? I'm assuming drag racing isn't the same as the car version?
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I only recently discovered my gay side within the last year or so, which is super late considering (I'm 30 now, 31 in a few weeks). But once I discovered and accepted that, it wasn't like I was thinking "Well, I better start acting more gay now!" I'm still the same person I've always been more or less, but now I also happen to be gay. It hasn't helped me find any kind of love at all, but at least my potential pool of people I can be with has grown that much more!
 
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Beefy

Member
Luckly I have always acted myself. But then I do get surprise looks when I say I am bi, which is weird for me. I don't get people that think a way a person acts defines them.
 
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Kevyt

Member
Pyrokai said:
I've noticed in recent years that my feminine side is coming out more than ever. In fact, I've actively been trying to embrace it because I think I act TOO straight. I came out at 19, but I was one of those people that felt I needed to break the feminine stereotype, so I acted as masculine as possible. Now, it's mostly who I am but I don't hide the femininity at all, and it's here more than ever. But I'm still surprised when people don't know I'm gay when I tell them. I'm like....really? Haha.

This means I've been out for 10 years! I turn 29 today!!!
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Happy birthday!! o/
 
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Beefy

Member
Pyrokai said:
I've noticed in recent years that my feminine side is coming out more than ever. In fact, I've actively been trying to embrace it because I think I act TOO straight. I came out at 19, but I was one of those people that felt I needed to break the feminine stereotype, so I acted as masculine as possible. Now, it's mostly who I am but I don't hide the femininity at all, and it's here more than ever. But I'm still surprised when people don't know I'm gay when I tell them. I'm like....really? Haha.

This means I've been out for 10 years! I turn 29 today!!!
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Happy bday!
 
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WaffleTaco

Wants to outlaw technological innovation.
Pyrokai said:
I've noticed in recent years that my feminine side is coming out more than ever. In fact, I've actively been trying to embrace it because I think I act TOO straight. I came out at 19, but I was one of those people that felt I needed to break the feminine stereotype, so I acted as masculine as possible. Now, it's mostly who I am but I don't hide the femininity at all, and it's here more than ever. But I'm still surprised when people don't know I'm gay when I tell them. I'm like....really? Haha.

This means I've been out for 10 years! I turn 29 today!!!
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Happy birthday!! Congrats on embracing yourself, that can be a hard thing to do!
 
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