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I just saw Rogue One and thought it was great and actually a little more similar to the style of the original trilogy than Episode VII was however the moment I realized who y'all said were the supposed gay characters I was like huh??? How would anyone make the leap to say they're gay and not just friends???
 

B-Dex

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I just saw Rogue One and thought it was great and actually a little more similar to the style of the original trilogy than Episode VII was however the moment I realized who y'all said were the supposed gay characters I was like huh??? How would anyone make the leap to say they're gay and not just friends???

It happens offscreen like FFXV's plot.
 
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Anyone else like Die Antwoord at all?

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How did everyones xmas go?
someone freeze me till 2017 starts pls
 
Dear Gaygaf

For a long time I've been wanting to ask this question, considering it's the holidays, what a great time to ask, about huge cocks.
Never slept with a guy who is really packing; the media, culture and porn has muddled the subject, just interested in finding a genuine response while keeping the male ego or self-worth in check.

- When it comes to giving fellatio or being penetrated anally, does a big dick (8+) enhance the experience? Is it worth the effort? Is there a point where it becomes too much of a good thing?

The best way to find out is to actually have the experience with my own body, not going to happen since I'm in a long term relationship (going 5 years :D) but at nights the thought creeps in big dick ... BIG DICK ... fuck it! I'm fapping.

Random picture of a hot guy
 
So I had a good evening with a guy I've been talking with. I think we had a lot of chemistry, we talked quite easily, and he's cute and smart. So I think things are looking good!

Except one problem: he kisses pretty open-mouthed, even when not using any tongue. I really don't like that, as it just feels weird and sloppy to me. My previous two long-term partners both had immediate chemistry with me when kissing, so I don't know if this is something I should worry about, talk about it, or just let it slide. It does lessen my drive to kiss him, even if it's kind of unfair. I know different people do things differently, but it really kind of puts me off. I know it's kind of petty, but there it is.

Any advice, LettersGAF?
 
So I had a good evening with a guy I've been talking with. I think we had a lot of chemistry, we talked quite easily, and he's cute and smart. So I think things are looking good!

Except one problem: he kisses pretty open-mouthed, even when not using any tongue. I really don't like that, as it just feels weird and sloppy to me. My previous two long-term partners both had immediate chemistry with me when kissing, so I don't know if this is something I should worry about, talk about it, or just let it slide. It does lessen my drive to kiss him, even if it's kind of unfair. I know different people do things differently, but it really kind of puts me off. I know it's kind of petty, but there it is.

Any advice, LettersGAF?
It is okay to tell him 'hey lots of people probably like kisses like this but I prefer kisses this other way, let's try this.'
 
So I had a good evening with a guy I've been talking with. I think we had a lot of chemistry, we talked quite easily, and he's cute and smart. So I think things are looking good!

Except one problem: he kisses pretty open-mouthed, even when not using any tongue. I really don't like that, as it just feels weird and sloppy to me. My previous two long-term partners both had immediate chemistry with me when kissing, so I don't know if this is something I should worry about, talk about it, or just let it slide. It does lessen my drive to kiss him, even if it's kind of unfair. I know different people do things differently, but it really kind of puts me off. I know it's kind of petty, but there it is.

Any advice, LettersGAF?

It's something you can build on, just like sex. After a while you learn what he likes, dislikes and the same goes for him. You can keep the communication clear by talking about it and trying to not be judgmental or put the blame on him, just like Aarglefarg said. Have fun with your new guy, show him how far gaming has come *laughs
 

Vazra

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Just gotta love when you are about to sleep and depression decides to show up and fuck you up with thoughts on the last minute. Not bothered at all.
 

Bladenic

Member
So I had a good evening with a guy I've been talking with. I think we had a lot of chemistry, we talked quite easily, and he's cute and smart. So I think things are looking good!

Except one problem: he kisses pretty open-mouthed, even when not using any tongue. I really don't like that, as it just feels weird and sloppy to me. My previous two long-term partners both had immediate chemistry with me when kissing, so I don't know if this is something I should worry about, talk about it, or just let it slide. It does lessen my drive to kiss him, even if it's kind of unfair. I know different people do things differently, but it really kind of puts me off. I know it's kind of petty, but there it is.

Any advice, LettersGAF?

I almost can guarantee that if you bring it up he'll just get offended and that will probably be the end of that. Do you know anything about his sexual history? Cuz if he's been with a decent amount of people chances are that's just how he kisses, and you just don't like it. And since kissing is like the most important thing (to me) then well RIP

Not to be so morbid tho it may not be anything like what I described
 
It is okay to tell him 'hey lots of people probably like kisses like this but I prefer kisses this other way, let's try this.'

Exactly this.

It's something you can build on, just like sex. After a while you learn what he likes, dislikes and the same goes for him. You can keep the communication clear by talking about it and trying to not be judgmental or put the blame on him, just like Aarglefarg said. Have fun with your new guy, show him how far gaming has come *laughs

I almost can guarantee that if you bring it up he'll just get offended and that will probably be the end of that. Do you know anything about his sexual history? Cuz if he's been with a decent amount of people chances are that's just how he kisses, and you just don't like it. And since kissing is like the most important thing (to me) then well RIP

Not to be so morbid tho it may not be anything like what I described

Yeah, I'm in both camps. It might be possible to gently bring it up, but I don't know if that's the type of thing you'd do very soon. It's just an awkward conversation, you know? He does seem pretty open though -- we've both already spoken about our respective depressions.

I guess I'll leave it for now. It's still too early to say if it will go anywhere anyway. Thanks for the advice! I'm always open to it, as I have relatively little experience considering my age.
 
Yeah, I'm in both camps. It might be possible to gently bring it up, but I don't know if that's the type of thing you'd do very soon. It's just an awkward conversation, you know? He does seem pretty open though -- we've both already spoken about our respective depressions.

I guess I'll leave it for now. It's still too early to say if it will go anywhere anyway. Thanks for the advice! I'm always open to it, as I have relatively little experience considering my age.

I think that no matter when you decide to talk about it, it can become an uncomfortable or awkward conversation, yet the more both of you are invested in the relationship, depending on the dialog, maturity of the participants, it can go really well.
Reminds me of my relationship when we have problems and we resolve them like adults, makes me feel closer to him and I appreciate the relationship more, how we as a couple are able to resolve issues and own up to our feelings. I like feeling vulnerable and open while my boyfriend hugs me :D.

Mostly saying things can change with work and respect, his way of kissing is something other people like and you might be "the problem", just a different perspective. The other issue is the time you've spent on the relationship, that seems harder to gauge and more personal, don't know where you guys stand on that.

May I ask what is your age? Had flashbacks of me being 25 and having really intense feelings for this guy I met one night, even texted him if he wanted to have sex, just wanted to see the guy again ... ugh "my gay teenage years". Glad he didn't respond.

Also Gaygaf I'm still waiting for my big dick answer.
 

T.O.P

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- When it comes to giving fellatio or being penetrated anally, does a big dick (8+) enhance the experience? Is it worth the effort? Is there a point where it becomes too much of a good thing?

Everyone is different so it's impossible to know

I also never get this obsession that bigger is better (maybe porn? as i only watch amateour and not hardcore studio crap?)

And i've started seeing more and more, especially when i was going down on this guy, having fun and all and he suddenly goes "you've probably seen better" and almost look embarassed, and i'm talking 20+

What the fuck?

It's cheesy but getting a guy that knows how to do it and understands what you like is what you always should achieve for

Anyone else like Die Antwoord at all? My only minor annoyance is the difficulty of singing along with her stuff in the car due to some lines being in another language.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMK0prafzw0

Got to see them live in Italy

Best concert of my life, they are so damn fun and engage so much with the crowd
 
Like how fucking insecure do you have be to be worried if the food you're eating can vaguely look like a sexual act.
The most brittle thing on Earth is masculinity. Jesus.

Also, ice cream is fucking delicious.

think of all the bananas that went to waste in middle school
 
Yeah, I'm in both camps. It might be possible to gently bring it up, but I don't know if that's the type of thing you'd do very soon. It's just an awkward conversation, you know? He does seem pretty open though -- we've both already spoken about our respective depressions.

I guess I'll leave it for now. It's still too early to say if it will go anywhere anyway. Thanks for the advice! I'm always open to it, as I have relatively little experience considering my age.

So lets see the possible end results discussed in this thread:

1. You dont discuss it - relationship killed

2. You discuss it - he gets mad, relationship killed

3. You discuss it - he changes his method for you, relationship survives another day
 

Kater

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I just saw Rogue One and thought it was great and actually a little more similar to the style of the original trilogy than Episode VII was however the moment I realized who y'all said were the supposed gay characters I was like huh??? How would anyone make the leap to say they're gay and not just friends???
Same with VII. The power of shipping. Doesn't have to make sense to you.
 

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Same with VII. The power of shipping. Doesn't have to make sense to you.
this is different from episode vii though

Indeed in this case there are two characters with some type of established close relationship we don't know much about and they do show some heavy affection. It just doesn't go beyond emotionally platonic on screen, but if one of the creators said they were gay it would make sense.

Ep VII has nothing really going for it besides shipping where there's little emotional history to latch onto, possible as it may be for that to come along in future entries
 

Golnei

Member
I hadn't followed much pre-release media at all, so with the way people were talking about them; I had assumed they were "Dumbledore gays" that were deliberately left ambiguous despite their orientations/relationship being confirmed in external media. If there actually is no official word on the matter, I can definitely see them turning out to be straight.
 

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I hadn't followed much pre-release media at all, so with the way people were talking about them; I had assumed they were "Dumbledore gays" that were deliberately left ambiguous despite their orientations/relationship being confirmed in external media. If there actually is no official word on the matter, I can definitely see them turning out to be straight.
Yeah I first thought someone who worked on the film must have said it but it doesn't seem to be confirmed
 

edgefusion

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I have a date with a guy Saturday 7th....should we keep texting in the meantime or am I good to just ignore him until then? He seems nice but I'll reserve judgement until we meet. I'd prefer to meet sooner and not feel like I have to keep texting until then, but new years and stuff is in the way.
 

Beefy

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I have a date with a guy Saturday 7th....should we keep texting in the meantime or am I good to just ignore him until then? He seems nice but I'll reserve judgement until we meet. I'd prefer to meet sooner and not feel like I have to keep texting until then, but new years and stuff is in the way.

Cut down how much you text , but don't stop completely.
 

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I have a date with a guy Saturday 7th....should we keep texting in the meantime or am I good to just ignore him until then? He seems nice but I'll reserve judgement until we meet. I'd prefer to meet sooner and not feel like I have to keep texting until then, but new years and stuff is in the way.
You can text at least a few times before then imo
 

Zero²

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So finally got to my bf's city for the new year's eve, but he gotta work with his dad from 4pm to 10pm, and now I got 6 hours with nothing to do. Any ideas for things to past time alone in a city I'm not used to?
 

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Zero²;227367658 said:
So finally got to my bf's city for the new year's eve, but he gotta work with his dad from 4pm to 10pm, and now I got 6 hours with nothing to do. Any ideas for things to past time alone in a city I'm not used to?
What city?

Go find downtown and take a good walk
 

Zero²

Member
What city?

Go find downtown and take a good walk
Balneário Camboriú, Brazil.
I went for a walk on the beach but walking alone is kinda meh haha
Besides the sun decided to hide as soon as I put my foot on the sand, bummer. Didn't even got bothered to take my shorts off and show off my new speedo :p
Tomorrow I'll try going to a gym, hope they let me join for only a day or two.
 

Bladenic

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Zero²;227368996 said:
Balneário Camboriú, Brazil.
I went for a walk on the beach but walking alone is kinda meh haha
Besides the sun decided to hide as soon as I put my foot on the sand, bummer. Didn't even got bothered to take my shorts off and show off my new speedo :p
Tomorrow I'll try going to a gym, hope they let me join for only a day or two.

The love of my vida lives in Brazil rip

Who's doing fun shit for NYE? I'm going to Nashville again yas but now I have a friend that lives there so worrying about hotel and spending extra money.
 

Alrus

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The love of my vida lives in Brazil rip

Who's doing fun shit for NYE? I'm going to Nashville again yas but now I have a friend that lives there so worrying about hotel and spending extra money.

Some of my BF's friends recently moved to Brussels so we're spending NYE at their new appartment with a bunch of other friends. Not sure if we're going somewhere during the night or staying at their place yet, guess we'll see.
 

WaffleTaco

Wants to outlaw technological innovation.
I have a date with a guy Saturday 7th....should we keep texting in the meantime or am I good to just ignore him until then? He seems nice but I'll reserve judgement until we meet. I'd prefer to meet sooner and not feel like I have to keep texting until then, but new years and stuff is in the way.
I would say text if you feel like texting. It also will help determine if you have any chemistry and can sustain a conversation.
 
Friend of mine is finally getting his bisexual on
from this Mormon guy this week a little birdy girlfriend told moi
of course the other guy is trying to up it to a 3some on top of it
 
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A diary made by Mother/Earthbound developer Shigesato Itoi's company. Satoru Iwata worked in the IT department of this company for a few years overlapping with his presidency of Nintendo!

It's what my mum got for me for Christmas (based on my request) but she ridiculed my choice of cover a bit for being pink. :(
 
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