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LGBTQIA+ |OT9| The Return of the Queen

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fraktur

Member
Long-time lurker here

Your gender? Your sexual identity?
Male
Your sexual orientation?
Gay
Where Are You From?
Germany
Where Do You Live?
Germany
How Old Are you?
27
Favorite Type of Music?
A broad mix (Metal, Cool Jazz ...)
Profession or Career interest?
Designer/artist
Favorite video game(s)?
Journey, Dark Souls, Pokemon
What are your hobbies (other than gaming)?
Drawing, painting, gaf
 
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Bladenic

Member
Andy Samberg is so cute

Andy-Samberg.jpg


I hope I look as young as he does at 38.
 
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Alrus

Member
daripad said:
Ugh, my infectology teacher was homophobic and always called MSM "chotitos" (it's the f word where I live) and mentioned that in every damn class.
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Our teacher is always really respectful which is nice. It's kinda "funny" when he has to talk about risky sexual behavior and you see this very serious man cite fisting and dildo swapping as risk factors.

Still the fact that we're currently seeing a huge rise in STDs in the MSM population is disheartening. It feels like since AIDS is not a certain death sentence anymore people feel like they're not at risk of anything anymore (ignoring the fact that other STDs can be deadly or dangerous and not all of them can be cured either).
 
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CornBurrito

Member
Alrus said:
Our teacher is always really respectful which is nice. It's kinda "funny" when he has to talk about risky sexual behavior and you see this very serious man cite fisting and dildo swapping as risk factors.

Still the fact that we're currently seeing a huge rise in STDs in the MSM population is disheartening. It feels like since AIDS is not a certain death sentence anymore people feel like they're not at risk of anything anymore (ignoring the fact that other STDs can be deadly or dangerous and not all of them can be cured either).
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Pretty sure there was also a spike shortly after PREP.
 
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Beefy

Member
Kater said:
What about younger guys? Why are you not interested in them when you don't mind younger girls?

Just curious.
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Girls seem more mature at a younger age, I haven't been able to connect with a guy younger then me yet. Not saying I would rule a younger guy out completely, it's just how it has happened until now.
 
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Bladenic

Member
I need go watch straighter shows to balance all the gay, I just started Crazy Ex Girlfriend instead RIP

Then again most shows these days are gay as hell, and I love it
 
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Pamplemousse

Member
Being hideous is so awful. I'm far too unsightly to participate in Real Pic January. I can't even do Tinder or anything like that because of how offensively unattractive I am. The only reason people talk to me on Grindr is because I'm young and White and not fat, but once they hear my voice in person, I know they're disgusted by it.

To have a face that looks like Palpatine's ball sack and a voice like Ross Mathews's is such an unfortunate way to live. One guy I hooked up with twice said I was "Kind of cute," and we all know what that means. He might as well have said I look like a blobfish orc.
 
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kitchenmotors

Banned
This thread in Off Topic has me curious about what some of you might think of a subject that came up. If your significant other gained weight after you were in a relationship, would you expect them to lose it, stay fit and if they didn't, would you leave them?

Pamplemousse said:
Being hideous is so awful. I'm far too unsightly to participate in Real Pic January. I can't even do Tinder or anything like that because of how offensively unattractive I am. The only reason people talk to me on Grindr is because I'm young and White and not fat, but once they hear my voice in person, I know they're disgusted by it.

To have a face that looks like Palpatine's ball sack and a voice like Ross Mathews's is such an unfortunate way to live. One guy I hooked up with twice said I was "Kind of cute," and we all know what that means. He might as well have said I look like a blobfish orc.
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Stop being dramatic.

I've seen you and you're not ugly in the slightest. You are cute.
 
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Beefy

Member
kitchenmotors said:
This thread in Off Topic has me curious about what some of you might think of a subject that came up. If your significant other gained weight after you were in a relationship, would you expect them to lose it, stay fit and if they didn't, would you leave them.
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Depends how much weight and why
 
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Alrus

Member
Pamplemousse said:
Being hideous is so awful. I'm far too unsightly to participate in Real Pic January. I can't even do Tinder or anything like that because of how offensively unattractive I am. The only reason people talk to me on Grindr is because I'm young and White and not fat, but once they hear my voice in person, I know they're disgusted by it.

To have a face that looks like Palpatine's ball sack and a voice like Ross Mathews's is such an unfortunate way to live. One guy I hooked up with twice said I was "Kind of cute," and we all know what that means. He might as well have said I look like a blobfish orc.
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I'm not sure what you're trying to accomplish with these melodramatic posts. Clearly you can't take compliments or affection without warping them into something negative about yourself, and you've been advised multiple to see someone about your issues and you've never answered.
 
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DOWN

Banned
kitchenmotors said:
This thread in Off Topic has me curious about what some of you might think of a subject that came up. If your significant other gained weight after you were in a relationship, would you expect them to lose it, stay fit and if they didn't, would you leave them?



Stop being dramatic.

I've seen you and you're not ugly in the slightest. You are cute.
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I think I'd care most about why they gained it. If it became a general lack of personal care, health consciousness, and poor habits, I'd have a big issue with it. If there was something medically they were doing their best with, I might not mind.
 
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Vazra

irresponsible vagina leak
kitchenmotors said:
This thread in Off Topic has me curious about what some of you might think of a subject that came up. If your significant other gained weight after you were in a relationship, would you expect them to lose it, stay fit and if they didn't, would you leave them?.
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I'd stay with em anyway but I would ask if everything is ok.
 
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T.O.P

Banned
kitchenmotors said:
This thread in Off Topic has me curious about what some of you might think of a subject that came up. If your significant other gained weight after you were in a relationship, would you expect them to lose it, stay fit and if they didn't, would you leave them?
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I'd feel like said guy ain't trying anymore or doesn't care about being healthy and attractive for the other half, better have a good answer for that
 
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Eggbok

Member
kitchenmotors said:
This thread in Off Topic has me curious about what some of you might think of a subject that came up. If your significant other gained weight after you were in a relationship, would you expect them to lose it, stay fit and if they didn't, would you leave them?
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I wouldn't expect them to lose it but if it started to get out of control i'd let them know that I was concerned about their weight and make sure everything was ok. I'd never leave either but I'd make sure I did my part to make sure that he was eating healthier and doing what we could to try and keep it down/maintained if possible.
 
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kitchenmotors

Banned
DOWN said:
I think I'd care most about why they gained it. If it became a general lack of personal care, health consciousness, and poor habits, I'd have a big issue with it. If there was something medically they were doing their best with, I might not mind.
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I think that's a good point, sometimes weight gain is beyond just a lack of personal care. Work stress, age, or medication can attribute to weight gain. I don't think there is anything wrong with a little weight gain, and obviously I would want my SO to be as healthy as can be, but it's not something I would leave them for.
 
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T.O.P

Banned
kitchenmotors said:
but it's not something I would leave them for.
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When we met she was so adventurous and happy. We used to go for late night walks, bike rides, dates at the park. We even did Habitat for Humanity a handful of times and were just always out and about making the world a better place. Now she's too fat to do pretty much anything and she refuses to change.
I've done everything I could to help. I have paid for a gym membership, I have cooked her healthy meals, I have been as supportive as I can.
But yesterday it dawned on me that she doesn't want the kind of support I'm giving her. She doesn't want to be active and healthy again. She wants someone to support her obesity, she wants someone to tell her it's not her fault.
Well, fuck that. I'm tired of her "thin privilege" drivel. I'm tired of her excuses and how hateful she has become towards anyone fit or thin. I'm tired of her eating behind my back and lying to me about her efforts to lose weight. I'm tired of everyday being one of two things: eating or sitting on my ass(usually both) with her because she can't do anything else. I'm tired of doing all the work during sex and having to watch porn to even get aroused.
Being fat isn't something she can't control. Hell, if she cut down on portions and just tried to have one healthy meal a day she'd lose a fair amount of weight without even having to fucking exercise..she literally works to stay fat and get fatter.
Being fat is her choice, and if she doesn't want to change that, if she doesn't want an active, healthy life, a life where we could actually do all the things we love together...than I choose to leave her.
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Reminded me of this reddit post

Talking in absolute i don't think it's possible
 
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Sigismundo

Member
Sib, there was a discussion/argument on the Twitch GAF channel during AGDQ over the differences between polygamy and polyamory. Please enlighten us.
 
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Deleted member 465307

Unconfirmed Member
Sigismundo said:
Sib, there was a discussion/argument on the Twitch GAF channel during AGDQ over the differences between polygamy and polyamory. Please enlighten us.
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The word roots should provide the answer. AFAIK, polyamory is loving multiple people, while polygamy is marrying multiple people.
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
kitchenmotors said:
This thread in Off Topic has me curious about what some of you might think of a subject that came up. If your significant other gained weight after you were in a relationship, would you expect them to lose it, stay fit and if they didn't, would you leave them?
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id be like "yas more to love"
 
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Deleted member 465307

Unconfirmed Member
Sigismundo said:
That does make a lot of sense.
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I guess "monogamy" being used to describe exclusive sexual relationships kind of complicates things, but "monogamy" also means being married to one person.

I don't know how monogamy came to have both meanings and why we don't just say "exclusive" or maybe "monoamorous" to describe 2-person relationships. My totally speculative, baseless guess is that perhaps monogamy became about sex and not just marriage when the traditionally marital act of sex became part of mainstream, non-married relationships that weren't just affairs. Basically, when the union of sex and marriage was split, so was the word. But like I said, that's total speculation and perhaps an idea based exclusively in the history of one set of cultural values. I'm sure that research could provide the actual answer.
 
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Thequietone

Member
I don't want a birthday party this year, but someone insists on making one. Should I let them? I don't bother anymore because no one shows up when I throw one.
 
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Beefy

Member
We have a poster in the California prison thread saying liposuction and eye surgery is the same as SRS....

I just don't know any more.
 
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