Okay. Fine. As a fully licensed and registered LGBT person, I will spell out to Peter Boghossian what, exactly, gay pride means. (Actually, to be precise, I will point out what LGBT pride means.)
LGBT pride does not mean being proud of having been born lesbian, gay, bisexual, or trans.
It means being proud of having survived.
It means being proud of living in a homophobic, biphobic, transphobic society a society that commonly treats us with contempt at best and violent hatred at worst and still getting on with our lives. It means being proud of flourishing, in a society that commonly thinks were broken. It means being proud of being happy, in a society that commonly thinks we should be miserable. It means being proud of being good and compassionate, in a society that commonly thinks were wicked. It means being proud of fighting for our rights and the rights of others like us, in a society that commonly thinks we should lie down and let ourselves get walked on or that thinks we should be grateful for crumbs and not ask for more. It means being proud of retaining our dignity, in a society that commonly treats us as laughing-stocks. It means being proud of loving our sexuality and our bodies, in a society that commonly thinks our sexuality and our bodies are disgusting. It means being proud of staying alive, in a society that commonly beats us down and wants us dead.
It is not easy to do any of this. Despite the many advances LGBT people have made over the decades, we still live in a society that commonly thinks we should be ashamed simply for existing. It is incredibly difficult to listen to people denigrate us, taunt us, humiliate us, bully us, shame us, from the earliest days of our childhood until the day we die and still flourish, still be happy, still be compassionate, still fight for our rights, still retain our dignity, still love our bodies and our sexualities and our selves, still survive.
It is not easy to do any of this. It takes work.
When LGBT people talk about LGBT pride, when we attend LGBT Pride celebrations, when we say were proud to be gay or lesbian or bisexual or trans, this is what were talking about. It is a hugely important aspect of LGBT history and culture. And when people mock it and denigrate it in public, many of us take it rather personally. Experience has taught us that when people treat the concept of LGBT pride with hostility and contempt, they tend to treat us our history, our culture, our struggles for equality and rights with hostility and contempt.
And if youd taken five minutes to look at the FAQs of some LGBT Pride Parades, to look up gay pride on Wikipedia, even to just Google gay pride, you would have known that.
