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LGBTQIA Thread |OT5| Can't even drink straight
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ab.aeterno
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Had a wild night of sitting at home doing nothing. I know I know, it was irresponsible of me to live on the edge like that, but life's about taking risks.
Group costumes are always adorable. Nice job all.Me, Pinky, Blinky, Sai-Kun and Kisaya.
I envy you haha.
Actually, that sounds fun unless you were sad last night
ab.aeterno
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I would've said the opposite haha. Not much to envy about sitting at home grinding in Destiny.
Not exactly, but it's hard not to feel ennui when seeing the fun or social things other people do in contrast to my rather boring, empty life. I'll leave it at that; I'm not comfortable speaking at any sort of length about my personal shit.
I just wanted to be humorously self-deprecating in contrast to all the party pics people were posting.
dragonlife
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I worked out and played Dota 2 for Halloween with friends.
Good times.
Good times.
CornBurrito
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Got invited out to dinner by that friend I have a crush on. He even payed. The universe is taunting me a bit.
Straight friend?
Too bad I sold the game or else we could play.
CornBurrito
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Yep.
ab.aeterno
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You made the better long term decision lol. This game is a frustrating, broken shell that is hopelessly addicting. I'm almost just levelling out of spite.
Straight crushes are the worst.
booooo
umop_3pisdn
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Do you think you can be his friend if you're so infatuated? This is more rhetorical than direct question, often I just project my own experiences onto other people when I try to 'help' them. But I know that when I'm that into someone, when I look at myself I realize that the thing that I'm offering them isn't really 'friendship' anymore. It takes another thought to wonder how that's really going to work, like that kind of miscommunication is essentially foundational and it renders the 'contract' void. idk.
I honestly could settle for a nice platonic relationship with a straight friend I liked, usually, when I get crushes on guys, my thoughts are hardly ever sexual towards them, I just think "gawd, I wish he'd tell me appreciates me as a friend" stuff like that makes me feel giddy inside and is more intense than any sexual feeling for me.
CornBurrito
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Yes I do think I can be his friend. I don't think me being DTF precludes friendship.
umop_3pisdn
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It's not about being DTF, from my perspective it just seems like a stronger preoccupation than that. Friendships and preoccupations (sexual or otherwise) don't really go that well together because friendships kind of demand some degree of mental freedom to be giving of yourself in a certain way (more peer-like, egalitarian), and not being stuck on a particular mental track that restricts your ability to really see people for who they are. I'm not saying that's the case, but that's what I was trying to get at.
I'm not trying to draw you into a discussion, either, because I realize this is entirely unsolicited. If I am off base just dismiss it as a wandering thought with no real usefulness.
As opposed to soft and short?I'm almost a member! Few more posts! It's been hard and long journey.
I'm easily impressed!
I mean, I have less than 300 posts in two years... which I guess would be soft and short, but I'm easy to please :3
SoraanTribal
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That must have been on my mind last night before going to bed because I had a very erotic dream about one of my friends. :x
You look really good Dany, I wish I had the same dedication.Me, Pinky, Blinky, Sai-Kun and Kisaya.
I've never seen Sai and Kisaya together, but they look very cute as expected!
So... Cola ju-se-yo will get me laid in Korea?
Prototype Viktor
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It's no hard minimum tho in a few weeks you'll burst out of that cocoon now that you've hit 300
SoraanTribal
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Weird, I became a member almost immediately after hitting 300 posts.
SoraanTribal
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There we go. Congrats!
grats
There we go. Congrats!
I'm a member now! Yay!!! This is one of the happiest moments in my life. :3
My avatar looks amazing
I'm a member now! Yay!!! This is one of the happiest moments in my life. :3
My avatar looks amazing
I can't tell if you're serious but OK werk
Today marks my final day of being drunk and/or high. Back to uni tonight ;_;
They grow up so fast. :')
It's actually usually not immediate, I think someone has to approve it.
TheAbsolution
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I think there is a 3 months requirement too.
Yup, there is. He passed that a while ago though.
TheAbsolution
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Yeah, must be a delay of some kind.
And less possibilities of being permabanned
May I ask why you are a junior dari? Unless you don't want to talk about it.
I never saw you writing a bad post or trolling some I was wondering why you had been downgraded to junior.
Look at the last thread I made, it is embarrassing 😫 my fanboyism went to high levels that day 😅
haha alright I just read it
Well it's not that bad! I think it's almost a bit endearing, you were just enthusiastic over Mario 3D World. I would certainly not have demoted you for that thread, but then I'm not a mod so what do I know about those things, eh?
I'm pretty sure they juniored you because the mods thought you were being sarcastic and anti-Nintendo, lol. You can always ask to get unjuniored, it's been a while.
My Mom has accounts on Tumblr, Pinterest, Twitter and Facebook. #ProgressiveMom
Still hasn't found my account though, which is good. Don't want her to see my Tumblr re-blogs. 😄
SoraanTribal
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I seriously cannot tell if your last thread was sarcastic or if you were genuinely happy, lol. The first thing I thought was it was a troll thread and you were disappointed, but I'm not sure.
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My mom barely knows how to use a computer at all. She can check her email and that's pretty much it.
Captain Europe
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TheAbsolution
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Ah jeez Dari. That sucks.
You should ask to be unjuniored, its been long enough methinks.
CornBurrito
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I uh.... dunno what you mean. Or at least I'm not sure if understand what you mean.
So I came out to two of my closest friends today.
One of them is lesbian and the other is bisexual, so I knew they wouldn't have any problems with it and yet I still had to force myself to actually say it. We ended up in a big cuddle pile in a corner in the kitchen with me sobbing uncontrollably.
Is it always going to be this hard to do? Because I'm exhausted and nauseous even though it went well and can't even imagine how to do something like this with people I'm not entirely sure would be supportive.
One of them is lesbian and the other is bisexual, so I knew they wouldn't have any problems with it and yet I still had to force myself to actually say it. We ended up in a big cuddle pile in a corner in the kitchen with me sobbing uncontrollably.
Is it always going to be this hard to do? Because I'm exhausted and nauseous even though it went well and can't even imagine how to do something like this with people I'm not entirely sure would be supportive.
Exactly. The feeling is rewarding.
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