Group costumes are always adorable. Nice job all.Me, Pinky, Blinky, Sai-Kun and Kisaya.![]()
Had a wild night of sitting at home doing nothing. I know I know, it was irresponsible of me to live on the edge like that, but life's about taking risks
Had a wild night of sitting at home doing nothing. I know I know, it was irresponsible of me to live on the edge like that, but life's about taking risks.
I would've said the opposite haha. Not much to envy about sitting at home grinding in Destiny.I envy you haha.
Not exactly, but it's hard not to feel ennui when seeing the fun or social things other people do in contrast to my rather boring, empty life. I'll leave it at that; I'm not comfortable speaking at any sort of length about my personal shit.Actually, that sounds fun unless you were sad last night
Got invited out to dinner by that friend I have a crush on. He even payed. The universe is taunting me a bit.
I would've said the opposite haha. Not much to envy about sitting at home grinding in Destiny.
Straight friend?
You made the better long term decision lol. This game is a frustrating, broken shell that is hopelessly addicting. I'm almost just levelling out of spite.Too bad I sold the game or else we could play.
Straight crushes are the worst.Yep.
Yep.
Got invited out to dinner by that friend I have a crush on. He even payed. The universe is taunting me a bit.
Do you think you can be his friend if you're so infatuated? This is more rhetorical than direct question, often I just project my own experiences onto other people when I try to 'help' them. But I know that when I'm that into someone, when I look at myself I realize that the thing that I'm offering them isn't really 'friendship' anymore. It takes another thought to wonder how that's really going to work, like that kind of miscommunication is essentially foundational and it renders the 'contract' void. idk.
Yes I do think I can be his friend. I don't think me being DTF precludes friendship.
As opposed to soft and short?I'm almost a member! Few more posts! It's been hard and long journey.![]()
As opposed to soft and short?
You look really good Dany, I wish I had the same dedication.Me, Pinky, Blinky, Sai-Kun and Kisaya.![]()
So... Cola ju-se-yo will get me laid in Korea?
It's no hard minimum tho in a few weeks you'll burst out of that cocoon now that you've hit 300I'm still a Junior. I don't understand... I thought after 300 you became a member?
I'm still a Junior. I don't understand... I thought after 300 you became a member?
Weird, I became a member almost immediately after hitting 300 posts.
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There we go. Congrats!![]()
I'm a member now! Yay!!! This is one of the happiest moments in my life. :3
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It's actually usually not immediate, I think someone has to approve it.I'm still a Junior. I don't understand... I thought after 300 you became a member?
I think there is a 3 months requirement too.It's actually usually not immediate, I think someone has to approve it.
Yup, there is. He passed that a while ago though.I think there is a 3 months requirement too.
Yeah, must be a delay of some kind.Yup, there is. He passed that a while ago though.
Is the only benefit of being a member the ability to create threads?
And less possibilities of being permabanned
May I ask why you are a junior dari? Unless you don't want to talk about it.
I never saw you writing a bad post or trolling some I was wondering why you had been downgraded to junior.
Look at the last thread I made, it is embarrassing 😫 my fanboyism went to high levels that day 😅
Look at the last thread I made, it is embarrassing �� my fanboyism went to high levels that day ��
Have to edit my Facebook privacy because my mom is snooping. Smh
Thankfully she doesn't know what twitter is
Look at the last thread I made, it is embarrassing �� my fanboyism went to high levels that day ��
Ah jeez Dari. That sucks.Look at the last thread I made, it is embarrassing 😫 my fanboyism went to high levels that day 😅
It's not about being DTF, from my perspective it just seems like a stronger preoccupation than that. Friendships and preoccupations (sexual or otherwise) don't really go that well together because friendships kind of demand some degree of mental freedom to be giving of yourself in a certain way (more peer-like, egalitarian), and not being stuck on a particular mental track that restricts your ability to really see people for who they are. I'm not saying that's the case, but that's what I was trying to get at.
I'm not trying to draw you into a discussion, either, because I realize this is entirely unsolicited. If I am off base just dismiss it as a wandering thought with no real usefulness.
Exactly. The feeling is rewarding.Cuddle pile friends are the best friends.
But yeah, first time's the hardest. The more people you're out to, the more it feels like you're just finishing up a job. But take it at your own pace and don't feel obligated to come out to people who you fear won't be supportive.