Last night I went on a first date with a guy from grindr I had been talking for a few days. It went well, we mostly walked around town, had some food, etc. He was funny and cute, not super hot but I liked him.
Earlier today I go on grindr, this hot guy says hi, asks for pics (which I find a bit annoying since I have my IG in there). I send him a couple of pics. Then he sends me a dick pic. He asked me to come over to his place. I told him I wasn't really on a "bottom mood". He said it was fine, we didn't have to go all the way. So I ended up going. God it was SO GREAT!!! I almost didn't go because usually guys aren't as hot as they make you believe,but I'm so glad I did.
We went at it for an hour or two maybe but most of it was just foreplay, making out, touching, kissing... we just had this great chemistry. Afterwards we also cuddled and kept kissing, laughing, etc. He told me a few times that he really liked me through the whole thing and Afterwards. He's also very good looking. He had to go after a while because he had plans with a friend but he asked for my number and asked me about my work hours, telling me we should do something during the week.
Later he messaged me asking me if I wanted to come over again. Which I obviously did. We ended up fooling around again, just as passionate as the first time, we also stayed in bed for quite a while afterwards, this time we had a bit more of time to talk about ourselves. Then he had to go again, he just moved to this place and is sort still not staying there all the time.
We messaged each other later, once again he told me he really liked me and that he wanted to get to know me better. I hope this turns out to be more than just sex but if not I think I had the hottest sessions I've ever had.
Later tonight the guy from yesterday wrote me, we talked a bit, after a while he was like: takeare you ok?. So I told him that I didn't know how to handle this and that I met someone today, but we're (all) still getting to know each other anyway. He was like: I hope you're happy, bye.
Am I a dick? I just always prefer saying the truth. Maybe it'll end up biting me in the ass once again but I didn't think he would take it that way, we didn't even make out or anything yesterday. I think it's weird because when we first talked he was like: I hope you're not once of those who forces things after the first date and is all like: I wanna marry you!!!!.
I think it's for the better anyway, because I thought things could get very messy if I dated two guys, which is the reason I wanted to let him know.