I think that the real issue here is that in this year's game the trench war at the LOS is entirely broken. Further, no one else has commented on the fact that blitzing in any way is much more effective this year than last year, which is clearly evidenced by most users going with a much more aggressive style of D than ever before. I don't think that this is strictly a problem with manually controlled DEs. I do think that some players are upset that they cannot get away with certain "Madden-isms" they grow accustomed to with an intelligent player attacking the LOS. LBs still get sucked into the fake on PA bombs, defenders don't recognize tosses or sweeps too well, even counters against a passive D work too well in the game. Sorry if having a user controlled defender on the line takes away from that. But if you're going to help out those Madden-isms, help mine out too. I love to pass to my TE, we all know TEs have been overpowered for years. Guys that play safety or LB, they should not be allowed to cover TEs. It's not fair to me.
In addition, in my last few games I don't think I have seen a single three step drop and quick release, dump off to a safety valve, or anything to relieve the pressure from all the blitzing or supposed DLine pressure. Look at my passing stats, 43 of 131 passes completed have been to RBs/FBs. That's pretty ridiculous without Tiki Barber on the team, but I have to do it to get out of a sack and a loss.
Basically, my argument boils down to this: L2P and stop being hypocritical. Some people don't mind blitzing on every play but then don't want linemen in their face? Gimme a break.