Aesius
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That definitely. I flew a ton as a kid but then throughout my teens got really scared. Ultimately I had to get over it for professional reasons as I was scared but wasn't going to let it materially alter my life. Part of what helped me get over it was reading a bunch of Ask the Pilot (really fun and interesting views on commercial aviation and common fears and myths) and also I think when I had to suck it up was around the election and I remember thinking these guys are on a jet like 20x/day it's just not that big a deal. Now I'm pretty much totally fine with it.
Yep. What comforts me is to look around at all the business travelers/frequent fliers on the plane. They fly constantly and are so desensitized to the process that there's no fear left whatsoever. Most of them just get in their seat and go straight to sleep.
It's the same way I am in a car on a long road trip. I've fallen asleep in the back seats of cars where the drivers were acquaintances whom I barely knew. I knew nothing about their driving history or previous accidents, but I felt totally safe and comfortable to the point of falling asleep.