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A lot of Gaffers remind me of me before all this cultural crap started.

Once youā€™ve really, truly looked into the eye of how bad things are, a lot of the ā€˜nicetiesā€™ you formally held as the absolute truth, have to go. You end up having to adopt a more realistic view of the world, and not just make decisions based on whether they make you feel like a good person or not.

To be clear, you should always endeavor to be good, but sometimes being a good person means making hard choices, being able to see the long-term, and taking uncomfortable positions.

Society and conceptions need a hard reboot from the soft, off-course state theyā€™re in, or Resetera is the future of the real world, and nobody will have the tools to stand against it.
ResetEra is a disgrace for sure but it's not the future. Maybe in places like California but where I live and work, here in Wisconsin, people are pretty normal and don't broadcast any weird, anti-social behavior. When I first joined NeoGAF I didn't even know what SJWs were or even the state of ResetEra and Twitter. That said, I'm glad I didn't end up joining ResetEra because I hate that general self-pity competition atmosphere and the overall negative vibe. I'm not about feeling sorry for myself and in the real world I try to surround myself with positive people. I guess it's just a little strange to see anyone advocate bullying unless you call it something else - correcting, maybe - because most bullies don't care how their victims feel or improving the world and instead want others to feel miserable.

(That was maybe longer than it needed to be. Sorry.)
 
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MetalAlien

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MetalAlien

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I dont think anyone should be bullied period. Bullying is what leads into low self esteem to adult hood. Im sure my childhood would have been a lot more positive had i not been a victim of bullying.
You know, the Nazis bullied the jews by making them wear pieces of flair.
 

nush

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Bullying is more often than not one of two things,

Social groups letting you know your behaviour is unacceptable

A heart check to see if you are sound as fuck or a farnsgoth.

If as an adult your still crying on the internet that a kid/s in school bullied you, you've just proved them right when they have long long forgotten about being forced into the same space as you.

For clarification I'm talking bullying, not adult assault or harassment that are crimes that have systems and laws in place to protect you.
 

-Arcadia-

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ResetEra is a disgrace for sure but it's not the future. Maybe in places like California but where I live and work, here in Wisconsin, people are pretty normal and don't broadcast any weird, anti-social behavior. When I first joined NeoGAF I didn't even know what SJWs were or even the state of ResetEra and Twitter. That said, I'm glad I didn't end up joining ResetEra because I hate that general self-pity competition atmosphere and the overall negative vibe. I'm not about feeling sorry for myself and in the real world I try to surround myself with positive people. I guess it's just a little strange to see anyone advocate bullying unless you call it something else - correcting, maybe - because most bullies don't care how their victims feel or improving the world and instead want others to feel miserable.

(That was maybe longer than it needed to be. Sorry.)

I really, really would like to just tell you that youā€™re right.

Some people are in pockets. Geographical, rural, social, etc.

Those pockets arenā€™t the reality.

These people (and that is the woke, to be clear) control movies. They control music. They control games. They control books. They control the news. They control Kindergarten to college education. They control every major entertainment site on the internet. Almost every forum.

In the right state, or country, they control the law. Say the wrong thing, even just a crack about genders, on Twitter in the UK, and youā€™ll immediately get an in-person visit from the police.

They control the corporate world, and can end your job in an instant if you say the wrong thing. They control platforms, and regularly end the voices of problem people. They control things as simple as your bank account, and have in fact denied service to famous conservative figures.

As weā€™ve seen with Trump, whether some want to admit it or not, they control the FBI and the CIA, with the wreckage and entrapment of multiple lives, like Flynn, because it was Her Turn (tm).

They control popular narratives like Russia, and with all those apparatuses, can guide and instruct an entire populace on how and what to think for years.

That is what normal, decent people are up against, in its totality.

Resetera world isnā€™t an eventuality, yet, but it is frighteningly closer than most would want to admit.
 
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hariseldon

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Say the wrong thing, even just a crack about genders, on Twitter in the UK, and youā€™ll immediately get an in-person visit from the police.

Not true. I've made many offensive jokes about gender and had nothing of the sort occur.
 
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hariseldon

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Donā€™t know what to tell you. Itā€™s widely known as a thing that can happen. Count your lucky stars, I guess.

Widely known thing - it's something that happens a few times and is undoubtedly utterly out of order but is certainly not any kind of regular occurrence. For starters most coppers are too stupid to use Twitter. Remember, every time it happens, you hear about it (and especially when posting here) but every time it doesn't happen you don't hear about it.
 

-Arcadia-

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You guys should spend more time fixing your country, than making poor excuses for it.

857 in a single year, well pre-peak mind virus, isnā€™t a ā€˜fewā€™. You can guarantee that the numbers have skyrocketed since. How about visits that didnā€™t end in an arrest?

But letā€™s say it was a handful. (Itā€™s not) Is that not still worth being disturbed over? Your civil liberties are being fundamentally infringed, and you take umbrage with someone pointing it out on the internet?

Itā€™s like this every single time I talk to someone from the UK, or Europe. Itā€™s no wonder things are the way they are, over there.
 
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ROMhack

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Too much bullying. Not enough awkward tolerance of sociopaths allowing them to slowly subvert your community and turn it into a political forum.

C'mon GAF.

I dunno, man. This place has become a bit more political over recent weeks (I think it was TLOU2 wot done it). It's avoidable and that's the most important thing but the quality of some threads is very questionable:

https://www.neogaf.com/threads/when...acters-go-back-to-resembling-females.1540641/

This one is a really low effort when you compare it to something like this:


There's been quite a number of threads I've opened up in the past week and realised it's a lot of quasi-political rabbling.
 
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Papa

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I dunno, man. This place has become a bit more political over recent weeks (I think it was TLOU2 wot done it).

It's avoidable and that's the most important thing but the quality of some threads is questionable:

https://www.neogaf.com/threads/when...acters-go-back-to-resembling-females.1540641/

Really low effort when you compare it to something like this:


Seems like a fair question to me Rommy
 
I dunno, man. This place has become a bit more political over recent weeks (I think it was TLOU2 wot done it).

It's avoidable and that's the most important thing but the quality of threads like this one I saw this morn are definitely questionable:

https://www.neogaf.com/threads/when...acters-go-back-to-resembling-females.1540641/

Really low effort when you compare it to something like this:

I'm not ignorant to the political / console-warring fervor over the past few weeks. By my reckoning it really kicked off following the PS5 CES showing and the XsX reveals. Bully them too if it suits you.

Naughty Dog is a unique case IMO. Popular dev for one of the most (critically) anticipated games of 2020. Very outspoken about ideological / political subjects over the past few years. ND is gonna be in the headlines and in the conversation no matter what, so it's no surprise that people would bicker over TLOU2.
 

ROMhack

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Seems like a fair question to me Rommy

Oh it is. It's more just the way it was phrased. I thought Sethbacca's reply was spot on:

This thread plants a flag firmly in right wing political ideology and then claims anything to the left of it, even a center position of "who the fuck cares" is an sjw position. Like most of us just literally don't care about fapping to video games and cartoons. The fact that you people who are posting this shit don't think this is pushing your own political agenda is hilarious if not a little sad.

It's basically "Anybody who doesn't agree with me is reeeee..." the thread ....


Also appreciated your sarcastic reply about Ivanka.
 
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ROMhack

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I'm not ignorant to the political / console-warring fervor over the past few weeks. By my reckoning it really kicked off following the PS5 CES showing and the XsX reveals. Bully them too if it suits you.

Naughty Dog is a unique case IMO. Popular dev for one of the most (critically) anticipated games of 2020. Very outspoken about ideological / political subjects over the past few years. ND is gonna be in the headlines and in the conversation no matter what, so it's no surprise that people would bicker over TLOU2.

That might be true but I wouldn't know as I don't tend to go into those threads much. Plus mods seem to be on top when it gets out of hand.

Agreed about ND. I'm not surprised but I have a hard time thinking the politics is even that contentious. It seems to me that TLOU always had strong social subject matter so the approach of the next game is quite fitting with the direction it was headed in.

Again though, it's often it's the way things are phrased. The regulars here are great at discussing but there's others who seem only to want to vent. It's a personal thing but I'm just getting to a point where I open threads and think 'yeah fuck this' and do the old 360 degree turn.

Then again, I'm venting here I guess...
 
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That might be true but I wouldn't know as I don't tend to go into those threads much. Plus mods seem to be on top when it gets out of hand.

Agreed about ND. I'm not surprised but I have a hard time thinking the politics is even that contentious. It seems to me that TLOU always had strong social subject matter so the approach of the next game is quite fitting with the direction it was headed in.

Again though, it's often it's the way things are phrased. The regulars here are great at discussing but there's others who seem only to want to vent. It's a personal thing but I'm just getting to a point where I open threads and think 'yeah fuck this' and do the old 360 degree turn.

Then again, I'm venting here I guess...
I could be wrong, but I think you're trying too hard to understand why a manlet would act like a manlet. I don't have an issue with venting, personally, because venting is often the other side of "passionate sperging". An enthusiast forum needs venting and sperging in good measure or else it's boring.

That said, it annoys me when I see GAFers behave deceptively or intentionally stirring shit, but other than that... šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø
 

ROMhack

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That was one of the worst replies in the thread lol

What a huge strawman

Strawman sure but it kinda sums up how I feel when I go into those threads sometimes.

I genuinely think the only game that overstepped the mark recently was Control. Maybe I just don't see as much as everyone else.
 
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ROMhack

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I could be wrong, but I think you're trying too hard to understand why a manlet would act like a manlet. I don't have an issue with venting, personally, because venting is often the other side of "passionate sperging". An enthusiast forum needs venting and sperging in good measure or else it's boring.

That said, it annoys me when I see GAFers behave deceptively or intentionally stirring shit, but other than that... šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

Yeah fair.
 

Papa

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Strawman sure but it kinda sums up how I feel when I go into those threads sometimes.

I genuinely think the only game that overstepped the mark recently was Control. Maybe I just don't see as much as everyone else.

I think youā€™re missing the bigger picture which is that the corruption of stories is an assault on culture. The only counter arguments I saw in that thread were people strawmanning it to be about the characters being too ugly to fap to. The issue is with the proliferation of feminist agitprop in what is supposed to be a form of escapism. Males need an escape from the unrelenting nagging of femininity and video games have provided that for the last 20-odd years. Of course the encroachment into that space is met with hostility, particularly when itā€™s taking over some of the most beloved franchises.
 

nush

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These people (and that is the woke, to be clear) control movies. They control music. They control games. They control books. They control the news. They control Kindergarten to college education. They control every major entertainment site on the internet. Almost every forum.

They really don't, I'm on mobile so I'm not deep diving this right now. It's just a trend that the "old white guys in charge" have jumped on becuse they think it will expand thier market and bring in more profits. But they don't understand wokeness so they hire some diversity and listen to them.

What they actually learned is get woke go broke. Post Cov 19 they will be fishing where the fish are just to stay afloat.

Wokeness is over, it's just on a time delay before you will see it.
 
They really don't, I'm on mobile so I'm not deep diving this right now. It's just a trend that the "old white guys in charge" have jumped on becuse they think it will expand thier market and bring in more profits. But they don't understand wokeness so they hire some diversity and listen to them.

What they actually learned is get woke go broke. Post Cov 19 they will be fishing where the fish are just to stay afloat.

Wokeness is over, it's just on a time delay before you will see it.
I expect this -- and sentiments like it -- will get time capsuled and quoted in a few years.

Wokeness is in large part due to boredom and luxury. No true enemy to kill so we have to fabricate a new Satan to fight against.

Lock everyone down and crash a few economies. Now people have a true enemy to kill, hopefully figuratively instead of literally (which is sometimes the result of economic collapse) instead of wasting time on wokeness on Twitter.
 
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hariseldon

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You guys should spend more time fixing your country, than making poor excuses for it.

857 in a single year, well pre-peak mind virus, isnā€™t a ā€˜fewā€™. You can guarantee that the numbers have skyrocketed since. How about visits that didnā€™t end in an arrest?

But letā€™s say it was a handful. (Itā€™s not) Is that not still worth being disturbed over? Your civil liberties are being fundamentally infringed, and you take umbrage with someone pointing it out on the internet?

Itā€™s like this every single time I talk to someone from the UK, or Europe. Itā€™s no wonder things are the way they are, over there.

I find each instance disturbing, but it really doesn't happen as often as you think. Just as CNN and the likes infects the reers, so the opposite can sometimes happen here. Looking at the article, that is absolutely disturbing, but I'd like a breakdown of those arrests. For instance, is it credible threats to the person, or just "ha ha that's a man". Given, as the report itself states, slut and whore are used 10000 times a week, clearly a lot of stuff ISN'T getting people arrested (and no I don't think we should be arresting people for that, before you go there). The point is that in a mountain of offensive content (any brief visit to Twitter, youtube comments, facebook comments for BBC News etc should tell you that), a tiny amount is leading to arrests and I would hazard a guess that barring the odd over-zealous nutjob it's mostly for properly egregious stuff - one should be disgusted at anything that suppresses free speech while also maintaining a questioning mind about whether that's actually happening.

As an aside - I note that it's talking about London, and the met do have a certain reputation (arresting photographers for being too tall among other things). The rest of the country doesn't have that kind of shit going on, thankfully, which is probably why when you talk to someone from the UK they tell you that it isn't a thing - maybe I should get all SJW and suggest you bow to my lived experience but I won't. It's up to you what you choose to believe, but I do hope you consider testimony of those on the ground to be worth something. And don't forget, the UK voted for Brexit and voted for a Tory government, rejecting socialism. We're pretty based really.
 
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-Arcadia-

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They really don't, I'm on mobile so I'm not deep diving this right now. It's just a trend that the "old white guys in charge" have jumped on becuse they think it will expand thier market and bring in more profits. But they don't understand wokeness so they hire some diversity and listen to them.

What they actually learned is get woke go broke. Post Cov 19 they will be fishing where the fish are just to stay afloat.

Wokeness is over, it's just on a time delay before you will see it.

We didnā€™t even make it through the worst parts of Corona without everything being skewed through this lens (IE: the virus was suddenly racist, Trump was killing us all, etc).

You vastly underestimate the hold this has on society. It isnā€™t going anywhere. Itā€™s rooted in at a fundamental level, and well, well past profit considerations. How many institutions have gone woke, gone broke, and continued going woke, defying all common sense? Itā€™s ideological, not trend or financial projection based. Many see it as a cost of doing ethical business, rather than a profit goal itself.

I used to think it was a fad that people would see the errors of soon, too. That was in the middle of last decade.

Outside of this site, which is a wonderful oasis of sanity, and I think that might be misleading people, things are getting worse, not better.
 

-Arcadia-

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To be honest, thatā€™s why this stuff continues.

Itā€™s 2020, and weā€™re still having debates on whether SJWs have a chokehold on society, when the metaphorical equivalent of fire is raging everywhere outside, but people are refusing to open the curtains and take a look, insisting everything is fine.

We canā€™t even acknowledge or break down the reality of the UK literally sending police out for vocalizing the wrong thought, or Count Dankula, or Tommy Robinson, and sent away for wrongthink, because pride for oneā€™s county. Thereā€™s a ton more wrong with the UK, but we canā€™t even get past that first, sourced claim, straight from police departments themselves, without a big debate.

Thatā€™s why theyā€™re winning. The opposition to this is, and has been a wet paper bag, all along. A culture cannot be overtaken like this, without an incredibly weak ā€˜immune systemā€™, so to speak.

People are comfortable, resting on the laurels of their society, afforded the benefit of not caring, not knowing, and thorough ā€˜first world problemsā€™. That time has ended, yet the behavior persists.
 
To be honest, thatā€™s why this stuff continues.

Itā€™s 2020, and weā€™re still having debates on whether SJWs have a chokehold on society, when the metaphorical equivalent of fire is raging everywhere outside, but people are refusing to open the curtains and take a look, insisting everything is fine.

We canā€™t even acknowledge or break down the reality of the UK literally sending police out for vocalizing the wrong thought, or Count Dankula, or Tommy Robinson, and sent away for wrongthink, because pride for oneā€™s county. Thereā€™s a ton more wrong with the UK, but we canā€™t even get past that first, sourced claim, straight from police departments themselves, without a big debate.

Thatā€™s why theyā€™re winning. The opposition to this is, and has been a wet paper bag, all along. A culture cannot be overtaken like this, without an incredibly weak ā€˜immune systemā€™, so to speak.

People are comfortable, resting on the laurels of their society, afforded the benefit of not caring, not knowing, and thorough ā€˜first world problemsā€™. That time has ended, yet the behavior persists.
How do you rectify this with the flippant nature of a videogame forum?

Or are you saying even GAF is an important platform in the ongoing ideological struggle?

The folks who can be radicalized by the internet are suffering from a deeper issue. Whether they were jerked Right or Left makes no difference. There's an underlying flaw or weakness that was exposed and exploited, resulting in their radicalization.

So I don't worry too much about trying to convince individuals. I don't worry about a proper Narrative to combat the bad ones. I'm here to speak my mind and learn from others. The frail masses who you say are "winning" are getting swept away for the reasons you already identified: the time of not knowing and not caring has ended.

To put it another way, this ideology wouldn't be infesting hobbies and pushing propaganda if it was actually strong. The ideology wouldn't need to coerce, browbeat, and lie to get its way if it was actually strong. The ideology wouldn't be subverting academia and then using its academic "authority" to bludgeon heretics if their core arguments could withstand scrutiny and critique. Don't be afraid of paper tigers. Set them on fire instead.
 
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hariseldon

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To be honest, thatā€™s why this stuff continues.

Itā€™s 2020, and weā€™re still having debates on whether SJWs have a chokehold on society, when the metaphorical equivalent of fire is raging everywhere outside, but people are refusing to open the curtains and take a look, insisting everything is fine.

We canā€™t even acknowledge or break down the reality of the UK literally sending police out for vocalizing the wrong thought, or Count Dankula, or Tommy Robinson, and sent away for wrongthink, because pride for oneā€™s county. Thereā€™s a ton more wrong with the UK, but we canā€™t even get past that first, sourced claim, straight from police departments themselves, without a big debate.

Thatā€™s why theyā€™re winning. The opposition to this is, and has been a wet paper bag, all along. A culture cannot be overtaken like this, without an incredibly weak ā€˜immune systemā€™, so to speak.

People are comfortable, resting on the laurels of their society, afforded the benefit of not caring, not knowing, and thorough ā€˜first world problemsā€™. That time has ended, yet the behavior persists.

If you look at my post history you hardly see me denying that SJWs are a problem. They are, but we need to be specific and accurate in diagnosing the problem. Just as I will continue calling out the usual suspects on their SJW bullshit I'll also call out what is blatantly wrong on the other side of the fence.
 

-Arcadia-

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Or are you saying even GAF is an important platform in the ongoing ideological struggle?

You came up with that yourself.

Iā€™m saying that people are an important platform, regardless of where you go. Likewise, weā€™re more than a gaming forum, with 2/3rds of the site dedicated to general or political discussion ā€” also one of the few boards on the internet to not have heavy ideological moderation.

So I don't worry too much about trying to convince individuals. I don't worry about a proper Narrative to combat the bad ones. I'm here to speak my mind and learn from others.

Neither do I. You presume too much about me.

The frail masses who you say are "winning" are getting swept away for the reasons you already identified: the time of not knowing and not caring has ended.

This is hopeful fan-fiction.

To put it another way, this ideology wouldn't be infesting hobbies and pushing propaganda if it was actually strong. The ideology wouldn't need to coerce, browbeat, and lie to get its way if it was actually strong.

Of course. Youā€™re not saying anything not known by people as early as 2014. You donā€™t need to win on meritocracy, when youā€™ve subverted every institution, and are the only player on the board.

The ideology wouldn't be subverting academia and then using its academic "authority" to bludgeon heretics if their core arguments could withstand scrutiny and critique. Don't be afraid of paper tigers. Set them on fire instead.

The assuming things about me is getting old fast. Nobody is ā€œafraidā€. That said, if you think this is a paper tiger, with the amount of cultural power, and lives ruined along the way, even right here on this forum, I recommend you reassess.
 

-Arcadia-

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If you look at my post history you hardly see me denying that SJWs are a problem. They are, but we need to be specific and accurate in diagnosing the problem. Just as I will continue calling out the usual suspects on their SJW bullshit I'll also call out what is blatantly wrong on the other side of the fence.

So, both sides, then?

Youā€™re on the right track, but you arenā€™t quite there yet.
 
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