No, that is not what I am saying. I am saying that there is a logical disconnect in the way the argument is presented. It's presented in that he should be denied, not because he has shitty ideas, but because he is dangerous. Okay. So it foregoes logical reasoning that the people who are 1000x times as dangerous convincing hundreds of thousands of people (or not?) that vaccines give you autism, that muslims are out to make halal of your children and that your infant baby will be better off protecting itself with assault rifles.
I don't disagree with the idea, but "we" don't collectively give scrutiny to many people who air their harmful ideas every day 24/7. I am not defending Milo, I am simply saying that it doesn't hold up in court that this fixation on Milo is over how dangerous he is. That is what I am arguing.
If I believed that removing Milo from public discourse I'd be for it. My experience with Trolls is that they do it for luls and attention and the more you give to them the more power you have.
Please don't frame an argument like this. As I said multiple times in this thread, especially a thread specifically talking about Milo, people have the ability to focus on more than one thing. On those who try to link vaccines with autism and a person who attempts to hide behind the veil of freedom of speech while harassing and endangering individuals.
If I have a headache, should I not complain because someone else has a migraine? Should a person with a migraine, not complain because someone else has cancer? Should someone with cancer not complain because others are dead? With the type of attitude you're presenting, it's like there are greater needs of focus, while ignoring interpersonal struggles that people deal with. The trans student who was directly targeted by Milo and forced to leave school matters, even though someone like Paul Ryan wants to privatize medicare.
In my opinion, the lackadaisical attitude people have regarding trolls (bullies and harassers) have emboldened them. People say it's just trolling while people get harassed or worse. The reason why it's an issue, is not due to victims raising concerns but by people who do the harassing and those who think, incorrectly that ignoring harassers works.
Ask any kid, ask me, if ignoring bullying worked. It doesn't. You know what they do? They escalate. That's on the bully not the victim and the sooner we get rid of this "ignore them and it'll stop thinking" we can actually come to grips with the real problem of harassment.
Did you participate a lot in the discourse around the time of that episode as well as many of the stand up specials about the usage of the word? What came from that discoussion (was it 7 years ago?) was that peoples defense and what the kids in south park believed was that saying faggot wasn't an insult to gay people. Then others said that it was. Then the other side pointed to its historical meaning of being a term for "bundle of sticks". Then the discussion turned into the fluidity and changing language and that words don't mean anything. And in the end we sort of collectively ended up "well, I don't like it and it makes me feel bad. So regardless of you mean or your intent it hurts me. Can you please use other words to refer to people as ninconpoops?"
Well, I was called a faggot at HS, so I didn't really have a choice but to participate, unwillingly. The word has evolved from it's historial usage and it's a gay slur. A slur that, if I or other members of the LGBTQ community don't pay attention to, we can get killed or worse. It isn't just a word. I was targeted everyday by that word.
The usage of the word faggot has dropped from pop culture AFAIK. I've not seen it in any stand ups, I've not seen it in shows like always sunny and south park and family guy. Everywhere there was aggressive offensive humor it was removed from.
And why is this? Why did people stop using the word? It's because somehow the debate about that word got through this weird membrane of the people who wanted to defend free speech and who initially saw the removal of the word as an impeachment of themselves.
Sarah Silverman (who I don't care for) stopped using the word in her stand up because she eventually learned through interactions with the LGBTQ community that the word wasn't funny. That she was doing damage and ostracizing people. The word is still used, as a gay man, I would know.
It's a messy situation, like with the confederate flag discussion- It's like with children. It's explaining to them OVER and OVER and OVER again. And it's tiring and it sucks. But it's highly possible that if you'd gone back to the time that south park episode aired and you had said: boycot south park, they are giving dangerous platforms to violence against gay people. they are nazi sympathizers, you'd might have a situation where the usage of the word faggot would have been even more loaded and powerful today. Because it'd still be up for debate.
Let's not do this. Using a word over and over again doesn't diminish the power of it. I think that's what you're implying here. It's not just that the word sucks, it's that South Park normalized a gay slur and people were targeted as a result of that. It ruined kids, and some due to homophobia have killed themselves. If I was older back then, my opinion would still be the same. Usage of the word was unacceptable. And some have given a tired argument that South Park is rated M, so kids shouldn't be watching it. But guess what, kids like animation, so they wanted it and internalized the dialogue used.
Where you and I converge on this is that I don't give Milo two pots of piss in. His currency is his outrage. His free marketing is us, right now talking about him and inflating his ego. Alt-righters are probably jerking off to this very thread and gives them a loaded sense of power.
I promise you that a major major left counter-insurgency comes up from many many people in the general populous who are now politically disengaged, but we're not there yet. Even with Trump as president life is still to good for the average white American. I believe that, like with south park airing that episode, that letting Milo on is productive. I see Americans inability to give a shit about anything as a major problem and a major of source of the current predicament.
It's not productive to platform him, I and others have given examples as to why that is. I, who happen to share demographics of being black and gay, don't find this "tolerable abuse" angle to be a convincing one.
As I said in my previous post, I am not against not letting Milo on. What I am arguing is that the semantic argument that being fixtured in Milo increases his appeal and power. Like the Twitter Ban proved, and which many posters here are ignoring. Did removing Milo from Twitter help fight against him? No, it emboldened him and gave him marketing that rippled in thousands of news sources all over the world. It was a complete disaster. Yes, not having someone in your house is not a ban, but it will seem like a Ban to them (who perceive the left to be extremists who've taken over the college campuses) and that plays in his favor.
Twitter should have banned him and a lot of other users way before that. Tell me how Leslie Jones deserved to be continually harassed and her private nude photos leaked. The reason why he and others like him are emboldened is due to the fact that we don't take harassment seriously and instead call it trolling which undercuts the severity of it.
Ignoring bullies doesn't work, full stop.
My philosophical stance is that we need to let this play out, because like with the faggot example, you need engagement to work through some understanding. You won't see it this way if everyone who voted for the Orange turd is a nazi who is out to get you. It's a fearmongering assumption that everyone becomes a Nazi if Milo is on that show. People are impressionable, but there might as well be an anger and counter-insurgency going on in the other direction- Not on Mahers show, but from the discussion and public discourse that goes on in the following days.
Homophobia shouldn't be allowed to play out. And at this point I almost have to ask if you're Black or gay. Do you know what it's like to be targeted so personally? Do you know what it's like, to be like that trans student who was singled out and forced to leave her education behind?
Honestly, I don't feel like you understand the thread or have read what Milo has done even though you just have to click a few pages back. Milo's actions break the law. Peteining ICE to arrest undocumented students is not something that should "play out".
You believe you can minimize the right-wing insurgent by sweeping it under the rug and hoping nobody notices it. I believe Milo is a false flag who deviates attention after the real issue; general Americans apathy and lack of political engagement and focusing on a character like Milo and Trump removes focus from all the root causes of right-wing ideaology.
Okay, you don't know what you're talking about. No one things that you can sweep right-wing insurgency under the rug. And you think Milo is a false flag even though we have verifiable evience of what he has done? WOW, who are you having a conversation with, really?
My fear is that the left will spend the next 4 years being outraged and complain about these pointless pointless people and not the issues from behind. And focusing on the people, not the causes logically foregoes that removing said people, removes the problem which is a dangerous way of thinking about it.
You don't get it.
Culture itself is oppression. Never forget that. You cannot have a civilized society without oppression and groupings. We've never had that, and we never will until we transcend into something else. As a result it is unavoidable that dangerous shitty ideas are a part of the spectrum. Milo and Maher not coming to anything productive is not the end of this exchange. There is a ripple effect, and ultimately it's 300+ million people who needs to partake in the process. Turnouts for demonstrations are low, engagement is low. This is not the work of the alt-right but policies that have been simmering for 40+ years.
So people should just have to grin and bare it? And thanks for reminding me that as a Black gay person, my life will continue to suck. I know that. But it would be nice if people recgonized harassment for what it is. And rather than believe in a false idealize look at the reality of people who have to deal with bigots and white nationalists being emboldened.
And sometimes it has to get worse before people start to give a shit. I acknowledge fully (as I said before) that I am open to the idea that giving Milo a platform could be dangerous. But I also think it could have a positive effect that incentives others. It's not a really good argument to splain' away "people are impressionable" while not having to really think deeper about the possible different outcomes. That is what I take issue with. This could go more than one way, and it could prove to give opportunities for the left.
Sigh.
That's easy for me to say, as I stand from across the pond. Maybe you guys are not thinking too rationally about this because you're in the eye of the storm. You see it as a half-glass and because at this point in time things are really shitty, so the logical conclusion is that it will keep being shitty until forever after.
I don't think your being rational here. I'm someone who is from an effective demographic and I'm fearful of racist attacks that have amped up over this election cycle. If anyone has the more rational thought process, it's those who are directly effected by bigots like Milo.
I propose that there is a real chance Milo could be pacified by bringing him out. He has nothing, and if he could make a lot more people on popular TV very angry, he could create a ripple effect that turns many new people into activists and Political engaged participants.
We disagree not on the outcome, but on the method on how to reach that outcome I think?
I think you need to talk to those who were harassed by Milo. And I don't really take anything of value from what you've said here. You think that letting trolls run rampant and eventually people will come around, they won't. It'll get worse, and I think and I hate to say that, that some people won't start taking it serously until more people of my demographic end up dead. And in 10 years you'll say, Oh, I guess we should have addressed the radicialization factor, rather than ignore it. And to that, I say that's a damn shame.