Yeah. That was way more emotionally heartbreaking that a rape scene you could see coming from a mile away.Well, wonder how many people that said they would quit watching afteractually quit watching. That scene they just repeatedlythe Red Weddingstabbed a pregnant women in the stomach over and over
I'd wager Game of Thrones' popularity is too big to be affected in any meaningful way, especially since it's a channel like HBO. The proof is in the pudding, but I sincerely doubt it.
Seriously, I'm legit stunned that didn't cause a precipitous dropout.
Well, wonder how many people that said they would quit watching afteractually quit watching. That scene they just repeatedlythe Red Weddingstabbed a pregnant women in the stomach over and over
The biggest thing that pissed me off is how weak the king is. I know he's a kid but even kids know what it means to be a king. He let those religious guys take his wife. Seriously. Weak.
We don't know she was assaulted by dogs.In a series known for surprise sex, this is the straw that broke the camel's back? In the book, Theon goes down on Fayra to get her wet for Ramsey, and she gets fucked by dogs. GURM is a sick fuck, but I don't recall any criticism of his writing.
I suppose there's a fine line between "shock for realism" and "shock for shock."
Ned got there because that's who he was.
Sansa got here because... well, D&D changed the plotline to make this rape from Ramsay happen for Sansa.
Said rape happened off screen unlike in season one and not nearly as big of a fit was thrown. Yet Theon had much worse things happen to him on screen, but no one had a problem with that.
I'm kind of curious if the same people would also be outraged about some the things that happen in the books. In many ways, it's a lot worse there
In a series known for surprise sex, this is the straw that broke the camel's back? In the book, Theon goes down on Fayra to get her wet for Ramsey, and she gets fucked by dogs. GURM is a sick fuck, but I don't recall any criticism of his writing.
What i find interesting is people have been watching the show for 5 years and off-screen rape is the thing that puts them over the edge when it isn't even the first time.It's interesting that this is becoming a flashpoint for no longer watching the show, but it's probably for the better. No sense in immersing yourself in such a remarkably bleak world and just getting more angry. Vote with your eyeballs(I suppose) and maybe other shows will take notice. In the mean time, I do hope that it doesn't soften the show's edge.
What if it gives her the strength the light a candle in the tower and have Brienne come to the rescue, is that better? Remember Sansa is not a fighter, but perhaps this is the last thing she has to endure before she does become that power player. This whole time she has been lead by someone, the queen of Tyrel, Tyrion, Little Finger... now she is on her own, no one to lean on. No one to protect her without her actual intervention, but she does have Brienne who reached out, who gave her an opportunity, but she has to make that choice.Notice you managed to make her rape all about a male character. This is the exact point. If this follows through she was raped to give him motivation to be the hero, rescue her, etc... That's literally the definition of lazy writing.
Yep and if the show is any coherent all that's gone.Yes, she had nothing. But before , she decides to take her own fate in her hands, and become a player of the game.
As a result, in the books,she moves to marry Harold the Heir and remove Robyn from power, giving her control over the power of the Vale. I'm paraphrasing here, but Littlefinger made a point that all of the lords seeing her marrying one of the popular up-and-coming royalty who is second in line to become Warden of the Vale, wrapped in a heavy fur cloak decorated with the Direwolf sigil would move them to action to protect the sister of the former King of the North, a man who they all wanted to pledge allegiance to but were stopped by Lysa, a man who they desperately regret not helping. She'll get a loyal, strong, and well-armed army who have made few enemies, and she'll get there relatively painless and unharmed.
But then the show's like "lel let's make her fake arya and have her get abused by ramsay, we'll pretend the bolton army isn't hated by everyone in the north and ramsay would never let her control him and the army would be totally loyal to her after fighting against everyone for months, including her brother's army."
At this point the show is just jumping the shark in order to keep the rabid fanbase appeased. At this point the books and the show have gone off in two different directions. It's a shame, really.
Isn't that just pure speculation?It was done to "Damsel in Distress" Sansa so Theon can save her and get his redemption.
Why did she need to go there so quickly? Why couldn't Littlefinger and her have a manipulative plan together? "You'll be there for a week as I and Stannis match with an armies and you can even stab a fool." Instead of "I have my plans. They include you fucking this guy."
There are many, many other examples from the show. Most have already been cited in this topic: Joffrey forcing the one prostitute to kill the other
the way the Red Wedding was handled
the sex scenes involving Oberyn (and the way in which he died).
On and on and on. This isn't a show like Mad Men where you can sit there and ponder the messages in last weeks episode, or think about the themes the writers were trying to explore. The reason why Game of Thrones is popular is because it appeals to very basic human instincts -- what sort of terrible thing can we show this week involving sex and/or violence?
If you don't like that, that's fine. But the show has never been anything else.
Said rape happened off screen unlike in season one and not nearly as big of a fit was thrown. Yet Theon had much worse things happen to him on screen, but no one had a problem with that.
Another day... Another faux outrage.
This really didn't come out of left field. Ramsay is a psychopath, it's customary for the bride to have intercourse with the groom on the wedding night, and Sansa knew what she was getting into.
Out of all of the horrible things that happen on the show, this is what makes people upset?
I mean, it's even historically accurate in the real world. This kind of stuff happened in the Middle Ages, where the wife basically couldn't say no- Rape was essentially legal.
I can't decide which is worse this or killing.Barristan the Bold
Isn't that just pure speculation?
The male character standing in the room during the scene being discussed was nearly raped. Nice try I guess?I don't know about you but I've not seen a lot of homosexual rape in the show despite it being fairly common in medieval times but 'realities of history' eh?
Yeah, I agree she knew what would happen with the marriage. But what real purpose does her marrying him actually serve for herself and Littlefinger?If you remember Littlefinger gave her the choice to back out and leave when they arrived, part of the "manipulative plan" WAS for Sansa to marry Ramsey.
Sansa knew she was getting married and she knows what happens on the wedding night, she didn't get blindsided.
This has already caused one of my friends who was a huge fan before this season to decide to drop the show entirely. Several other people I know seem to be considering it.
It isn't really just the use of rape (again) it's how carelessly it seems to have been inserted in this created storyline and into Sansa's character arc to create drama. As that Deadspin article put it "The problem isnt that this episode included a rape, but that it did so in the service of bad storytelling. It told the audience nothing that wasnt already known, and it didnt advance any plot lines beyond where they already were." This is similar to last season where they had women being raped as background scenery to the evil Night's Watch guys (who we already knew we evil scum bags). Maybe they'll at least follow up on this one unlike last season's apparently unintentional rape scene between Jaime and Cersei.
Jesus Christ! Faux? How is it fake. Because you don't agree with it, it's not real?
So Theon getting junk cut off and being turned into a torture puppet was fine, but this is too much? It was a wedding, we all knew what was going to happen. And yes it was rape and wrong but the only thing that was unexpected was that Theon had to stay and watch.
Isn't this sort of behavior consistent with feudal europe, the time period Martin researched to base his series on? It is fiction i guess, but if this was a historical piece would they get as much flak?
Yeah, I agree she knew what would happen with the marriage. But what real purpose does her marrying him actually serve for herself and Littlefinger?
(except Martin, as far as we know, hasn't done this to Sansa -- this part of the timeline happened to someone else entirely)
Not have them get married at all in the show and avoid the utterly predictable outcome, and instead go for something more interesting and unpredictable? Like what Martin's doing? It may have rape in it anyway, or some other upheaval of expectation, who knows, but some very cool things are bound to happen in the mean time.
The appropriate way to depict what happened would not be to depict it at all and certainly not to depict it as a catalyst for the character development of someone who isn't being raped. It's the same as constant violence towards women in media to make men feel bad. So much of our media treats women and female characters as disposables and plot points so that male characters have "motivation" or depth. It's lazy and abhorrent because it dehumanises the female characters instead of developing them so that they can "develop" male characters.
That's primarily what I'm responding to, it's as if the main complaint is that the rape serves no purpose...well fuck, it's rape. Are we really searching for some sort of purpose to make it acceptable to include it? Rape is never acceptable. It's always awful and should be depicted as awful. How is skirting/ignoring the issue, or finding some sort of silver lining going to make it any less awful?
I guess I just don't get it.
We have a very different relationship to violence culturally than we do to sexual assault. There's a whole host of things, but probably the big one is that as a culture we're a lot better at dealing with victims of violence then we are at dealing with victims of sexual assault (well unless they're black)
True though that may be, it doesn't change the fact that his actions are congruent with the universe that he exists in.
In the books, the Boltons do not have Sansa, they have Jeyne Pool who they are parading as a fake Arya in order to claim Winterfell. The treatment of Jeyne in the books is solely for the benefit of Theon's character.It was brutal in the sense that what actually occurred was brutal, but far more brutal things have happened on the show and in full vision for the audience, i.e dudes split in half with swords, rapes with spears, genital mutilation.
Does this happen in the books? Just a show watcher, but do we know this for a fact?
I think this is inaccurate at its best, yes shit happens but it happens to all characters regardless of gender or race. so the fact that shit happens to woman is no less lazy than anything else in the show.I'm not sure what you're getting at? When did I say it's fine for men to be raped and abused on TV?
Literally what I said was that this show features acts of sexual violence specifically targeted at women to elicit some kind of shock factor or to advance male character's story arcs. This is both lazy and disgusting.
And?
Ramsay could flay Sansa and Theon next week. That would also be congruent with the time period.
That isn't the only factor that matters. There are other book series featuring rape and murder in a medieval setting. But Song of Ice and Fire is actually really good.
I'm going to go out on a limb and say that Martin's treatment of Sansa will be far, far less satisfying to her fans (does Alayne even have fans?). D&D have given immediacy to her story and some relevance in the day to day happenings of the main conflict. Nothing of note has happened to her since Lysa went through the Moon Door, other than becoming a convincing liar, which they've shown in the show.
And?
Ramsay could flay Sansa and Theon next week. That would also be congruent with the time period.
That isn't the only factor that matters. There are other book series featuring rape and murder in a medieval setting. But Song of Ice and Fire is actually really good.